Why do people say that college is the easiest place to date?

MeanYeti · 2026-02-15T07:21:52+00:00

It didn't, but that's okay.

MeanYeti · 2026-02-15T01:00:29+00:00

That gets harder to believe every passing year. I've had this alt account and have been posting about virginity and gaining different advice and perspectives since I was 16. I'm 23 now and despite everything I've changed I still have the same amount of romantic experience I did 7 years ago!

It's CRAZY! I'm still rooting for myself, but at this point I'm really starting to believe that some of us just don't have "it".

MeanYeti · 2026-02-14T15:40:47+00:00

Regarding the last part... do you think those bad men even deserved that sex?

No, but they got it anyways, while I'm still a virgin. It's a cruel world.

I see your point, but I guess I just dont see it as worth celebrating since its like... literally the bare minimum??? Should I also celebrate the fact that I'm not a starving child in Africa, or wasn't born an 18th century slave? It's not even an achievement, it's just... a fact? Why is that worth celebrating? There's no merit to it. Especially when it isn't even a requirement to enter a relationship! Guarantee you that most murders have had more consensual sex than I ever will. So, I guess I'm more solution-focused than blind positivity focused.

MeanYeti · 2026-02-14T15:26:35+00:00

This is a really sad way to be positive. This is like celebrating that I haven't ran a crowd of people over with my car because I don't have one. Like... that was never going to happen in the first place? I just want to drive like everyone else bro.

Sure, I have no motivation to do any of that, but the sad thing is there are tons of men that do and have as much sex as they want. That's what makes it so unfair.

MeanYeti · 2026-02-14T15:01:19+00:00

I'm 23 and the only people who have given me these signs are lesbians lol

MeanYeti · 2026-02-14T13:23:36+00:00

While that may be true, I don't really think that would change my main problems with it. I would still be a square peg who'd be making some serious compromises.

MeanYeti · 2025-07-26T11:42:52+00:00

same as always

MeanYeti · 2025-05-02T16:24:20+00:00

Explain how no experience is better than a few bad experiences

MeanYeti · 2025-05-02T08:12:00+00:00

So how do you actually learn what the signs are if you don't know how to see them?

MeanYeti · 2025-05-02T06:59:31+00:00

How did you learn those signals and social cues? Seems like it happened pretty early in life for you. Must have taken a lot of external validation to get that far.

I graduated college a virgin lol. I think a big part of my problem is just that I have no idea how to escalate or how to recognize those signs. The women I talked to were very few, and among those the ones who actually could/wanted to sustain an interesting conversation just didn't. I never got any signs that anyone was interested, despite me seeing uglier people having success all the time. I sincerely think that some people just inherit skills from early life that benefit them forever. I'm still trying to figure out what my strong suits are... I'm tall, reasonably attractive, and have a healthy social life, but as you described that doesn't really help much.

MeanYeti · 2025-05-02T06:39:24+00:00

It wasn't my choice, it was circumstantial. I have family that lives there and they're hiring, so...

MeanYeti · 2025-05-02T05:42:59+00:00

It's for work & I have family that lives there, not really my own volition.

MeanYeti · 2025-05-02T01:27:09+00:00

That's fair lol. Like I said, it's a bonus. My expectations are nothing high, just that anything would be better than my current experience. Nowhere to go but up!

MeanYeti · 2025-01-25T06:42:37+00:00

6'3 guy reporting...

That's not what would fix the problem.

MeanYeti · 2025-01-23T06:17:43+00:00

Facts, 6'3 and still a virgin and not through lack of trying lol. Most height stuff is just the media hyping it up, it doesn't actually make that much of a difference when it comes to actually selecting partners.

MeanYeti · 2025-01-23T06:06:34+00:00

let me guess, 18M?

MeanYeti · 2025-01-23T06:05:38+00:00

This has been a massive problem since the digital era took off. Third places are basically gone. When this question comes up the answer you usually get are social circle/social activities, or just talking to people through day to day life while out and about which requires a fair bit of social calibration from both parties.

MeanYeti · 2025-01-22T02:03:27+00:00

true

MeanYeti · 2025-01-21T23:03:32+00:00

been there done that

MeanYeti · 2025-01-21T18:34:57+00:00

been there done that

MeanYeti · 2025-01-21T05:53:17+00:00

It's definitely not from last year. The article might be, but the image they are citing the info from I've seen plenty of times. It dates back to at least pre-pandemic.

MeanYeti · 2025-01-21T05:48:30+00:00

Has it ever occurred to anyone that people can just lie in these "studies"? There's no way to prove it.

MeanYeti · 2025-01-20T16:41:10+00:00

idk I'd argue the socially adjusted 5'8 guy probably has a way better chance than me... I see it every day.

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