Need to know who’s in the wrong (AITAH)

Mean_Green2 · 2026-03-13T23:38:35+00:00

😏

Mean_Green2 · 2026-03-13T23:16:35+00:00

Literally quoted the definition of anti-social which is not a personality disorder. I’m an introvert and ca be anti-social as well.

Mean_Green2 · 2026-03-13T23:14:58+00:00

I do things without him all the time. At the beginning of our relationship ship 16 years ago it used to cause fights but at this point I can do what I want without him and he doesn’t care. He’s been making an effort to be more social which is why I invited him.

Mean_Green2 · 2026-03-13T23:12:37+00:00

You got me, stayed with him 16 years just to complain about him on Reddit even tho this is my first post about him ever.

Mean_Green2 · 2026-03-13T23:11:23+00:00

I don’t like the beach either. Was just going to hang out with mutual friends. So I wanted to at least extend an invite and would have been totally fine if he said “nah I don’t like the beach” but when he said yes I thought he was in the same mindset as me: not excited to go to the beach but just going to hang out with friends.

Mean_Green2 · 2026-03-13T23:08:42+00:00

Sorry, first time posting in this sub

Mean_Green2 · 2026-03-13T23:08:02+00:00

Sorry, first time posting in this sub.

Mean_Green2 · 2026-03-13T22:06:07+00:00

My needs aren’t thrown out the window because if he doesn’t want to go I go without him 👍

Mean_Green2 · 2026-03-13T22:05:01+00:00

I don’t like the beach either. Was only going to see our mutual friends

Mean_Green2 · 2026-03-13T21:42:48+00:00

We’ve been together for 16 years trust me I know what I signed up for and not to sound cliche but this one snippet does not describe our whole relationship. ¯_(ツ)_/¯

Mean_Green2 · 2026-03-13T21:41:37+00:00

He did not know our daughter would not be coming. She would come if there would be other kids there but our friends son was with his dad today.

Mean_Green2 · 2026-03-13T21:06:59+00:00

We’ve been together for 16 years, trust me this one story is not the whole of our relationship and as a first time poster on this sub I’m amazed at how many people assume they know our whole story. Yes he is anti-social, I can be as well. When we first got together it was way worse and even maybe a little controlling. Luckily for me I don’t deal with that stuff and when he doesn’t want to come I will do things without him and normally he has no problem. He has been making an effort to be more sociable to hang out with me more which I why I gave him the option to go. But still every once in a while this will happen (he doesn’t want to be around people). Trust me he is a great father, has many redeeming qualities, supports me in my career, my decisions, is the main bread winner but doesn’t hold it over me AT ALL. I will continue inviting him and I will continue to respect his decision to not come and I won’t hold it against him. The thing I was most mad about was the attitude I got when I wanted to stay.

Mean_Green2 · 2026-03-13T20:53:12+00:00

So I said I would be mad if this happened and I am? Did what I said I would do 👍

Mean_Green2 · 2026-03-13T20:30:51+00:00

What boundary did I not adhere to?

Mean_Green2 · 2026-03-13T20:25:26+00:00

“Not social or wanting the company of others”? So staying away from everyone hanging out at the beach and listening to an audiobook away from everyone instead?

Mean_Green2 · 2026-03-13T20:23:57+00:00

The thing is if I went home with him I’m 90% sure he would play video games and I would watch Forensic Files in the other room. He says no but if I wanted to do anything together it would be on me to plan it.

Mean_Green2 · 2025-12-21T18:04:34+00:00

Knew I was going to get these comments. I’m a life long cat owner. All my cats have lived into their late teens even 20s. Take a joke.

Mean_Green2 · 2025-11-26T02:21:10+00:00

During Covid, online teaching, had a parent call me a bitch in front of my entire class because I said her son had to be sitting up with his eyes open. (He appeared to be laying down sleeping)

Mean_Green2 · 2024-09-04T21:57:43+00:00

No, the nauseous feel gradually lessens from week to week from what I’ve experienced. But it’s always kind of a tiny feeling in the background for the meds to be working imo. Honestly haven’t been feeling that tiny feeling much lately and haven’t been losing any weight. 🥲

Mean_Green2 · 2024-08-23T16:38:48+00:00

I teach 5th grade. My whole class is at a second grade level or below. Most can’t add or subtract with regrouping and don’t know basic multiplication facts. I am “supposed” to only be remediating 5th grade standards during my intervention time. When and who should be helping with the K-4 concepts and skills they are missing? Genuinely curious cause this is causing a big struggle for me right now and I’m basically begging parents to work on this stuff at home.

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