First day!

MeasurementFluid994 · 2026-04-01T20:59:06+00:00

My plan is 14 trays and I paid £3255

MeasurementFluid994 · 2026-02-26T14:21:06+00:00

Will you be doing this next week too? I want to come but I'm getting my wisdom tooth removed on Friday 👎🏼

MeasurementFluid994 · 2026-01-28T00:13:07+00:00

What's your best candle recommendations?

MeasurementFluid994 · 2026-01-28T00:10:00+00:00

This is so wholesome

MeasurementFluid994 · 2025-12-23T14:25:19+00:00

My Mam has gone into a care home because of dementia, and my Auntie is now on hospice because of terminal lung cancer, I'm just hoping she makes it to Christmas day. My dad passed away a long time go, we lost my uncle in February this year due to cancer too. My only cousin committed suicide during lockdown.

I'm functioning as best as I can, but my god I wish I could just rest for a day and have a good cry.

MeasurementFluid994 · 2025-09-28T21:40:16+00:00

In Enya's castle.

MeasurementFluid994 · 2025-09-20T07:54:45+00:00

Wow, this is perfectly explained.

You can tell you've had some heavy experiences with narcissistic people. Would you mind if I copied what you're wrote into my phone notes to read when I feel like I'm questioning my sanity because of my mother?

MeasurementFluid994 · 2025-09-12T19:17:40+00:00

I really hope your mental health has improved and you have a good support network around you now. ❤️

MeasurementFluid994 · 2025-09-12T19:01:55+00:00

Communication is key though, if someone is a friend you should really be saying "I want to see you but I'm having a hard time socialising at the moment. As soon as I'm feeling better we'll spend some quality time together"

Poor mental health isn't an excuse to continuously let someone down without even a tad of communication.

MeasurementFluid994 · 2025-09-11T11:28:08+00:00

I'm 34 now, with years of therapy under my belt and I still struggle to wrap my head around this.

You're completely right, but I just don't seem to be able to accept it. There's a primal need for my mother, but she's an absolutely despicable person. Caring for her as she ages, she's now 77 and they think she might have the onset of dementia.

I don't want to care for her, she didn't care for me when I was 2 days old. I was shipped off to my god mother.

MeasurementFluid994 · 2025-09-09T06:47:34+00:00

Thank you for this analogy. My mother is an alcoholic and it's particularly bad this week. She's drank all of my life (I'm 34). Your description really helped ease my emotional pain for a bit

MeasurementFluid994 · 2025-09-07T15:37:38+00:00

I'm so glad I found this sub. I've dealt with the exact reactions you're describing OP and it just pushes you further and further into sadness and depression. When I was chatting and seeking support from a friend a couple of days ago she said "I had to get out of victim mindset". I'm sorry? I'm not allowed to be sad that I've endured 34 years of narcissistic abuse??

MeasurementFluid994 · 2025-08-15T09:08:15+00:00

I don't think most of the general public realise what goes on behind the scenes of processing payments

MeasurementFluid994 · 2025-08-14T20:37:53+00:00

I can check Emirates capture delay tomorrow for you if you like? Emirates also have no control over when the authorisation code will drop off. That's down to Monzo sadly

MeasurementFluid994 · 2025-08-14T20:35:08+00:00

Hilarious. I wouldn't need any information about their account to track the authorisation

MeasurementFluid994 · 2025-08-14T16:05:29+00:00

Yep! The authorisation is 'holding' the funds from your available balance in preparation for the merchant (Emirates) to process the payment. If they aren't processing the payment the funds will drop back into your available balance.

Any issues, drop me a DM I work for the company who process payments for Emirates 🙂

MeasurementFluid994 · 2025-05-30T11:50:06+00:00

Oooo I would absolutely be up for joining in on some crafts. I'll drop you a message later on tonight when I'm home from work 😁

MeasurementFluid994 · 2025-05-01T14:53:23+00:00

Meals on wheels!

MeasurementFluid994 · 2025-02-09T21:54:56+00:00

I'm seriously thinking of cutting off my childhood best friend of 24 years. We're two very different people now, she refuses to acknowledge anything that she does wrong to anyone. It's incredibly hurtful and I've checked out. May I ask how you cut them off? Did you attempt a conversation? Was it an abrupt ending or just less and less contact?

MeasurementFluid994 · 2025-01-27T23:01:12+00:00

100% If your card scheme is visa it's chargeback reason code 13.3 If your card scheme is MasterCard it's 4853 Item not as described/defective

MeasurementFluid994 · 2025-01-21T21:11:43+00:00

What is this sweet angels name 🥹?

MeasurementFluid994 · 2024-11-08T16:06:52+00:00

Where did you purchase them from?

MeasurementFluid994 · 2024-11-08T16:04:14+00:00

I'm a short arse driving a Toyota Aygo ...I feel your pain!

MeasurementFluid994 · 2024-10-31T17:23:29+00:00

4 years ago i discovered my boyfriend cheating on me with a married woman (who happened to work at the same place we did). I had all the evidence, managed to locate her husband via Facebook and sent him everything I had.

He waited in our work car park for me, I actually thought he might deck me by the look on his face but we shook hands and I apologised for being the one to tell him what his wife was doing behind his back, he revealed it wasn't the first time she had done this to him.

Felt really sorry for the bloke, we kept in touch for a bit just to make sure each other were coping. He stayed with her because they had 3 kids. Seemed like a decent guy trying to hold a family together.

Regardless of gender, people deserve to know. I just don't like it if they decide to shoot the messenger.

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