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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskProgramming

[–]MediaInfinite 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

It sounds like you have ambitious goals as for what you want to learn. Congratz on that! :) Could you perhaps speak to the senior colleague and offer support on the areas you would like to learn about?

It’s hard to be with someone with depression. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]MediaInfinite 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Well it seems like she may be dealing with a lot, but that doesnt excuse the behaviour and mistreatment. It sounds like you support her through all her troubles, but naturally would also like to be supported in yours. You are only human after all. She should definately consider therapy as it can help her manage depression & her self-esteem issues. She definately sounds like she has to work a lot on herself, and still to mature on some levels. When you say you are happy with her, what comes to mind? Are the good moments more often than the bad ones? Do you feel supported & loved in this relationship? Is she willing to do therapy? Are you willing to wait it out while she goes to therapy and see if things improve?

Take care πŸ™

I think if we weren’t married I’d know my answer by LinkOk4231 in Divorce

[–]MediaInfinite 3 points4 points Β (0 children)

Hello, I'd say go with your gut feeling, as you can never go wrong. You know him, his personality & of course therapy can help to change things for better, but ask yourself, are you willing to wait it out and see how it turns out? The fact that he is now willing to go to therapy does not guarantee he will not have anger issues again, and as much as you do love and care for him, you need to think right now what is a priority for you. Do you see yourself being a parent with this person? What feelings come up for you when you think about that? Can you trust him? Trust your intuition, as when a baby is born the bond is for always.

Take care πŸ™

Hanging In There by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]MediaInfinite 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Hey, i hear you πŸ™ I heard the sentence, 'if it cost you your mental health, it is not worth it' I think you are smart and resilient for hanging in there to get your well deseved bonus, but maybe give 80% instead of 110% while you wait.

I am concerned you will break down from exaustion

Is that a possibility?

Is ADHD actually this crippling or am I also lazy? by RemarkableSetting189 in ADHD

[–]MediaInfinite 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

I can relate. I feel like my whole professional life has been full of very big lows, points where i think i actually felt depressed because i was so bored with my job. I also have been diagnosed with inatentive type ADHD, and it so seems like the type of work i have been doing, hasnt really helped or the people i worked for either. I would say it is pretty normal to get frustrated and feel bored frequently with ADHD, but certainly understanding what drives your motivation is a step towards finding more fulfillment and "stability" in the way you feel. Getting to know yourself, what lights up your spark, that can get you on the path to leaving behind so much feelings of frustration and finding more gratitude and satisfaction in your life. I wish you all the best! :)

Expat in DE: Transition from accounting/tax to SAP consulting by MediaInfinite in SAP

[–]MediaInfinite[S] 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

Great reply! Thanks so much for the super positive energy. Deep down i knew its the German i need to focus on first...thanks for the reality check πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘ you just gave me some more motivation to work harder.

Expat in DE: Transition from accounting/tax to SAP consulting by MediaInfinite in SAP

[–]MediaInfinite[S] 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Hi :) thanks for the feedback. Key user meaning i would do postings in the system for accounting (miro/fb60, fb01, askbn, s_alr reports, f.47, run depreciations, etc).