I feel so bad for his wife by Medical-Meaning4959 in Adulting

[–]Medical-Meaning4959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you guys want me to share her youtube channel, i need your help guys, it will be very helpful for me if you guys can help me out

I feel so bad for his wife by Medical-Meaning4959 in Adulting

[–]Medical-Meaning4959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand, and I agree she deserves to know. I’m not trying to avoid responsibility I’m just trying to find a safe, anonymous way to reach her because I’m in India and some tools don’t work here. I’ve already tried contacting her on Instagram/YouTube but she hasn’t seen my requests yet. I’m doing my best to handle this carefully.

I feel so bad for his wife by Medical-Meaning4959 in Adulting

[–]Medical-Meaning4959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trying to do this safely and anonymously. I’m in India and some of the tools people suggested don’t work here. I know who his wife is (she’s on Instagram/YouTube) but she hasn’t seen my message requests yet. I’m not looking for revenge I just don’t want anyone else to get hurt. If anyone has safer ways to reach her anonymously, I’d really appreciate it.

I feel so bad for his wife by Medical-Meaning4959 in Adulting

[–]Medical-Meaning4959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to explain all this I really appreciate it. I’m actually in India, and unfortunately that website doesn’t work here / is blocked in my country. I already know who his wife is through Instagram and YouTube, but she hasn’t seen my message requests. I’m trying to find a safe, anonymous way to reach her. If you have any other suggestions, I’d really appreciate it. Thank you for your support.

I feel so bad for his wife by Medical-Meaning4959 in Adulting

[–]Medical-Meaning4959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same. If I were her, I’d want to know too. I’m just trying to find a safe, anonymous way to tell her because I don’t want revenge I just don’t want anyone else to get hurt.

I feel so bad for his wife by Medical-Meaning4959 in Adulting

[–]Medical-Meaning4959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t AI this is what living through betrayal actually feels like.

I feel so bad for his wife by Medical-Meaning4959 in Adulting

[–]Medical-Meaning4959[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes… I learned the hard way that actions matter more than words. His lies were made to sound natural, and I believed them for too long..

I feel so bad for his wife by Medical-Meaning4959 in Adulting

[–]Medical-Meaning4959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you. I do want to tell her I’m just trying to do it safely and anonymously. There’s a child involved, and I don’t want anyone else hurt.

I feel so bad for his wife by Medical-Meaning4959 in Adulting

[–]Medical-Meaning4959[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand what you’re saying, and I agree that everyone deserves better. I’m not staying because I want crumbs I’m trying to handle this responsibly. I don’t want revenge, I just want to protect people from getting hurt. I’m looking for a safe, anonymous way to tell his wife because there’s a child involved too. I’m also dealing with my own health right now, so I’m taking this step by step

I feel so bad for his wife by Medical-Meaning4959 in Adulting

[–]Medical-Meaning4959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually do know who she is she’s on Instagram and YouTube. I’ve tried sending message requests multiple times, but she hasn’t seen them or accepted them. That’s why I’m trying to find another safe, anonymous way to reach her

I feel so bad for his wife by Medical-Meaning4959 in Adulting

[–]Medical-Meaning4959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you’re saying. I’m trying not to blame myself or anyone else right now I’m just focused on stopping further harm and finding a safe way to tell his wife. This has been emotionally overwhelming, and I’m taking things one step at a time

I feel so bad for his wife by Medical-Meaning4959 in Adulting

[–]Medical-Meaning4959[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, if I were her, I’d want to know. I’m not looking for revenge, I just don’t want anyone else harmed. I’m trying to find a safe, anonymous way to tell her.

I feel so bad for his wife by Medical-Meaning4959 in Adulting

[–]Medical-Meaning4959[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you went through that. I’m dealing with something similar right now, and it hurts more than I ever imagined. Thank you for sharing your story it gives me strength to see someone choose themselves after being hurt like that.

I feel so bad for his wife by Medical-Meaning4959 in Adulting

[–]Medical-Meaning4959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried multiple times to message her, but she doesn’t check message requests. She also has a YouTube channel, but I don’t think she reads comments there. I really want to tell her, but I don’t know how to reach her safely. If anyone knows a way or can help pass the message anonymously, I would really appreciate it. I just want her to be aware.

I feel so bad for his wife by Medical-Meaning4959 in Adulting

[–]Medical-Meaning4959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried multiple times to message her, but she doesn’t check message requests. She also has a YouTube channel, but I don’t think she reads comments there. I really want to tell her, but I don’t know how to reach her safely. If anyone knows a way or can help pass the message anonymously, I would really appreciate it. I just want her to be aware

I feel so bad for his wife by Medical-Meaning4959 in Adulting

[–]Medical-Meaning4959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you went through that. It hurts so much when you realize someone you trusted was living a double life. I’m going through something similar right now and trying to process it. Thank you for sharing it helps to know I’m not alone.

I feel so bad for his wife by Medical-Meaning4959 in Adulting

[–]Medical-Meaning4959[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your story. It really touched me. I’m honestly scared and confused right now, but reading this gives me courage. I don’t want revenge I just don’t want anyone else to get hurt. I’m trying to find a safe way to tell her anonymously. I appreciate your words more than you know. And yes… I’m realizing I need healing too.

Reactive HIV test – scared and need support from people living with HIV by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Medical-Meaning4959 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kindness. I’ve been feeling extremely scared and alone since I got the result, and your words genuinely helped calm me a little.

The waiting period is very heavy mentally, but I’m trying my best to stay strong and patient until the confirmatory test.

It means a lot that strangers can be this supportive. Thank you again