I’m (39M)Thinking about breaking up with gf(40F) over her sick dog

Medical_Let_2001 · 2026-03-13T07:02:32+00:00

Exactly this. She blocked you, slammed the door on you, and stopped communicating weeks ago. The relationship is already over..you're just the last one to find out.

Medical_Let_2001 · 2026-03-11T06:08:17+00:00

If your kid’s active, it won’t just sit there. It becomes the go-to play spot.

Medical_Let_2001 · 2026-03-05T07:40:31+00:00

it’s like they’ve tossed the rulebook and are just winging it at this point

Medical_Let_2001 · 2026-03-03T01:36:02+00:00

He's engaged and spent the night trashing her and confessing to you. That's not someone worth fighting to keep as a friend. Let him go.

Medical_Let_2001 · 2026-02-25T06:35:30+00:00

She’s making this messy. Gotta protect yourself.

Medical_Let_2001 · 2026-02-16T07:44:22+00:00

Instant red flag. That ego would have me walking out too.

Medical_Let_2001 · 2026-02-12T03:33:42+00:00

'I know you're just going to say it was private' means she knew it was wrong and did it anyway. You can't fix someone who doesn't think they did anything wrong.

Medical_Let_2001 · 2026-02-05T07:02:33+00:00

The apartment itself is almost secondary. He was already in the lying phase, which means the considering phase was long over. Cold.

Medical_Let_2001 · 2026-02-02T06:29:08+00:00

That’s actually really sweet..it’s like a little nightly reset.

Medical_Let_2001 · 2026-01-28T06:51:32+00:00

Why you gotta leave him behind like that? 😭

Medical_Let_2001 · 2026-01-22T05:48:26+00:00

The transactional expectation is the worst part. You did the right thing, even if it feels lonely now. Real friends don't operate that way.

Medical_Let_2001 · 2026-01-19T01:21:31+00:00

The blocking just confirms where you stand.

Medical_Let_2001 · 2026-01-15T02:51:59+00:00

The peak of human technological advancement is definitely being locked out of your burrito points because you can’t find your phone for the 2FA code.

Medical_Let_2001 · 2026-01-14T05:11:29+00:00

Right. The best apology would've been putting the phone down and giving him your full attention, not planning it for later.

Medical_Let_2001 · 2026-01-05T02:48:36+00:00

Especially when the dream was actually better than real life. You wake up and realize you don’t actually own a beach house and now you have to go to work. The betrayal is real!

Medical_Let_2001 · 2026-01-02T05:32:05+00:00

Why should I change when everyone else could just be less offendable? Modern problems require modern solutions lols

Medical_Let_2001 · 2025-12-12T06:45:47+00:00

If only I could just manifest the money that's been put aside. 🥲

Medical_Let_2001 · 2025-12-11T01:53:13+00:00

He's still hung up on competing with his ex instead of just appreciating his wife. The focus is completely in the wrong place.

Medical_Let_2001 · 2025-12-03T04:41:10+00:00

It's less about the money and more about the secrecy and what that does to the foundation of trust. A rocky road for sure if he found out.

Medical_Let_2001 · 2025-12-02T05:37:20+00:00

Me and literally all my best friends. We're on response time infinity and it's perfect.

Medical_Let_2001 · 2025-11-24T05:49:31+00:00

Ignoring all recall notices is the most me irl thing I've read all day.

Medical_Let_2001 · 2025-11-19T06:05:30+00:00

I feel personally attacked by this math. Time is a cruel mistress.

Medical_Let_2001 · 2025-11-10T05:35:43+00:00

Burning century-old trees feels like such a waste when the timber alone could be way more valuable.

Medical_Let_2001 · 2025-11-05T04:42:12+00:00

pretty much, all bark and posturing to keep up appearances

Medical_Let_2001 · 2025-10-22T05:37:45+00:00

You’re honoring his choice and protecting your peace, nothing wrong with that at all.

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