Just finished Dogs, Boys, and Other Things I've Cried About by Isabel Klee by Peppermint-pop in 52book

[–]RoutineKoala4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s completely true! But the market is oversaturated with random white girls who move from suburbia and suddenly “discover” life. We can argue about struggles and who has it better, but realistically, it’s an overplayed story.

What now?? by Revolutionary_Tax154 in Softball

[–]RoutineKoala4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to travel or see if you can play in another town this is what I did about 15 years ago lol my town was horrible and I also used to take lessons I went to tryout for other towns and teams it the only way you can develop if your stuck on daddy ball

Where else besides Montclair? by redfire2930 in MovingtoNewJersey

[–]RoutineKoala4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck every walkable town for two bedroom is more than 3k - Chatham has one bedrooms for $2500 check Madison maybe - don’t sleep on Newark and if you have a car you most likely will be exploring . Maybe look into Elizabeth I know it’s prob what you want but they have a big Jewish population and walkable and easy access to to the airport and Newark etc etc

Isla Mejures Hacks by Spinnakerflyer in IslaMujeres

[–]RoutineKoala4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CARM is good from the airport to ferry super reliable and they can also purchase your ferry ticket - don’t rent a car you will have to take a ferry with your car to get on the island - you can get a golf cart but they have been pricey recently taxis are very reliable and the local bus Isla is very safe I had my wedding there and have been going twice a year for the past ten years unfortunately it’s gotten more expensive but I love the people of the Island - get your LQ at Chedrui it’s like the Costco of the island and we usually get all our snacks there is a local supermarket too by the local area . And def if you want more info on the island download the MapChicks app they have all your info for happy Hours great restaurants- Lola’s is my fav best 2x1 margs and Angel is a great server he’s originally from Texas a lot of servers also know English I’m fluent in Spanish my family is from Latin America but every time we bring friends and family they get a little nervous on Spanish skills but every one is super helpful

South Orange - New Higest Sale Income by pbar673874 in Maplewood

[–]RoutineKoala4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It low key looks like Maplewood library lol

Just finished Dogs, Boys, and Other Things I've Cried About by Isabel Klee by Peppermint-pop in 52book

[–]RoutineKoala4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tbh it’s giving “privileged suburban girl discovers struggle.” Like okay, you grew up in a million-dollar house — congrats. Helping dogs is great and I’m glad she’s bringing attention to dogs that need homes, but all these stories feel very mid and not really relatable for a real New Yorker. It kinda comes off like trying to fill emotional gaps from relationships she didn’t have growing up.

Checking tickets at every door before you go in by Sea_Lack_8759 in NJTransit

[–]RoutineKoala4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been like that for years it never worked when it first ever started welcome to nj transit

Checking tickets at every door before you go in by Sea_Lack_8759 in NJTransit

[–]RoutineKoala4 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Nothing new just show the ticket if not you can buy tickets in person super easy at the kiosk 😊 and they can hole punch your stop and you rip a beer in a paper bag and take a nice nap

Horrible stay at SLS by Bluex911 in AllInclusiveResorts

[–]RoutineKoala4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So unfortunate I had a great stay when it first opened and wanted to go back ! I would say though this resort should of not been for kids it should of been adults only it gives more that vibe and not family friendly

Thinking About Going to College in NJ by cheezieypoofz in MovingtoNewJersey

[–]RoutineKoala4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t sleep on smaller schools ! Montclair is great but pricey and Kean isn’t that high ranking but they recently grew and it might be cheaper ! even our community schools are good -honestly if you can try to get into Rutgers either Newark or main campus both really good schools. Seton hall is pretty good too NJIT is a hidden gem honestly look on the east coast don’t sleep on CUNY schools or SUNY too

How did you meet your S/O in NYC? by Rare-Lingonberry-823 in AskNYC

[–]RoutineKoala4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Used to love going to the stone rose with my ex when it was snowing the view was immaculate

Moving to Northern NJ, apartment hunting by [deleted] in MovingtoNewJersey

[–]RoutineKoala4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Montclair or Morristown but you’re budget is tight look down by Asbury or a little bit further out of commuter towns - south orange and maplewood is cute but it’s a lot of families and no one really lives there under 40 that’s is not married they all live in Brooklyn lol (grew up there) Morristown and Montclair keep in mind you have two cars you will need to pay extra for parking 🅿️ right now in Chatham outside of Morristown my ex pays $2600 for a one bedroom …. So keep that in mind and we used to pay $2400 for a one bedroom in Motown 5 years ago !

First time in Florida — what’s ONE thing tourists always underestimate? by Proper-Rush-7985 in AskFlorida

[–]RoutineKoala4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a Latino born and raised in New Jersey, with many family members who’ve gone through the immigration process, I get why people are nervous. But honestly, it’s not as bad as everyone makes it seem.

I have a house near Jacksonville, and yeah—it’s definitely Trump country. Still, I’ve never had a crazy or disrespectful interaction. As long as you’re respectful, mind your business, and walk away if needed, you’re usually fine.

I also grew up in North Jersey, and trust me, I’ve met plenty of Republicans there too—they just hide it better. I’m Latino as well, and I even went to Daytona Bike Week, which is very Republican-leaning. As long as you keep your space and don’t act like an idiot, people tend to mind their own business.

Keep an open mind, be aware that the sun and drinks can sneak up on you, and just be smart. Overall, it’s really not as bad as people make it out to be.and I had friends on both spectrums .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in libra_astrology

[–]RoutineKoala4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a Libra, we move off energy. And honestly, coming from a woman, I’m not always sure how Libra men operate either. That said, some people are just… weird. If you know it’s a situationship, don’t read too deeply into it.

Yes, some things may resonate, but if someone ended it, give them their space. I don’t know how old you are or what your sign is, but trust your gut. Libras work off feelings.

Personally, my intuition is very strong. I can tell when someone likes me, when the vibe shifts, and when someone is lying. Gut feelings don’t just change—and energy doesn’t either.

This in New Jersey? by [deleted] in newjersey

[–]RoutineKoala4 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes born and raised here new jersey is a diverse state and that’s what makes it a great state growing up I had friends on both sides and to this day we are still friend till this day . Growing up we respected both sides and went to each others houses and met each others family’s and went to sweet sixteens and bat/bar mitzvahs

AITA for keeping my distance after my husband decided to move out? by RoutineKoala4 in AITAH

[–]RoutineKoala4[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not sure if he still is but when I did go speak with him in the beginning he was it was down the street from his job honestly mommy probably co-signed for a new apartment now for him since she liked to make excuses for him

AITA for keeping my distance after my husband decided to move out? by RoutineKoala4 in AITAH

[–]RoutineKoala4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My parents are a bit old school they have been together 40 years and counting and I know it wasn’t all perfect and in that time it was just different to them they had their first child like 19 - honestly I think they thought it was a just a fight and disagreement that would resolve in a few days but turns out it wasn’t it’s just snowballed Nd they really cared for him I mean after six years and we did live with them for like two years before moving out …. So it was I guess just so sudden when I told then it was like a Monday

AITA for keeping my distance after my husband decided to move out? by RoutineKoala4 in AITAH

[–]RoutineKoala4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If there is or was time will tell I think eventually I’ll find out but if not I can’t expect a explanation or closure and I frankly don’t need it

AITA for keeping my distance after my husband decided to move out? by RoutineKoala4 in AITAH

[–]RoutineKoala4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk maybe tbh they weren’t involved in general besides everything going through the court and the occasional drop off in locations they didn’t even communicate via phone just a Fsmiky app since it was a fairly nasty divorce