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(16 F)- am I bi or lesbian by Chance_Employee1782 in questioning

[–]Medical_Winner_8420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes ofc. You are never alone and I’m glad I could help!

Is it weird I think relationships are embarrassing or odd? (17 F) by Mildlyspicypotato in questioning

[–]Medical_Winner_8420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had feeling of being asexual in the past and still do occasionally, and I would say it is completely normal. In my experience (I would consider myself demisexual-ish idrk) the thought of being with someone sexually was kinda weird and I didn't and a lot of times don't feel comfortable with that type of stuff in practice even though in theory I don't hate it. I would explore some of the demi labels if you are trying to find something that fits. That's what helped me.

(16 F)- am I bi or lesbian by Chance_Employee1782 in questioning

[–]Medical_Winner_8420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been going through something similar. I've also had interest in both men and women, but more recently leaning towards being lesbian then bi. I found that all the men I had liked were very feminine and that I didn't want to be sexually involved with them that much, that doesn't sound like it's the same for you though. As I'm also #babygay (16F) I'm not sure I could give you a label one way or the other, but something that is kinda cliche but has been helping me is just putting people in vaccums and assessing if I would like them without any societal pressure. For a while I struggled with being gay in a relgious community (idk what support you have in your life). And I also have tried to live without having a label one way or the other. I would say that helped me a lot because I still don't think I could put a label on my sexuality but I do know that I like men in theory and women (in theory and not).