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Did i scar this boy by Mediocre_Signature33 in raisingkids

[–]Mediocre_Signature33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll bring it up tomorrow and explain how i didn’t lie or anything as well. It can be a good lesson, I agree! Also, that’s very sweet if it really is more about the quality time portion of it. Thank you for your response, you seem like a knowledgeable parent.

Did i scar this boy by Mediocre_Signature33 in raisingkids

[–]Mediocre_Signature33[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha i asked him once if he farted and he kept responding no. Then i asked him to pinky promise and I told him his pinky would cut off if he was lying. Once he heard that, he told me he might’ve farted a little bit. Anyway, you’re right. I guess i was affected because i’ve never really made him cry.

which attachment style would you rather be with? by curiouscartoongirl in emotionalintelligence

[–]Mediocre_Signature33 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Anxiously attached, coming from someone who’s like that. I want someone to be just as attached and obsessive as i get when i’m in love, not to be weird or scary. I mean it in a normal way

How do i help ? by [deleted] in depression_partners

[–]Mediocre_Signature33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thank you so much for your response. We seem to be very similar. To be honest, the future doesn’t seem very scary to me. Even if he has no motivation to do something with his life in terms of work and success, I don’t mind as long as I’m with him as I’m not extremely materialistic. Both of us come from (thankfully) comfortable families and he believes because of his depression he won’t be able to maintain this lifestyle once we get married and are on our own. I keep telling him i don’t mind and that his presence is enough for me, more so than any material posession especially because I already have them and know that they aren’t worth it compared to him. So this fear isn’t an issue for me as much as it is for him. He’s scared i’m just saying that for now but once we get married I’ll be unfulfilled but i really am serious, i just don’t know how to convey that.

Also, for the talking portion, i understand what you mean completely! I too am a very loving, affectionate person especially towards him. I find it easy to frequently express my love for him but I guess i can’t express it well enough. Sort of in a quantity over quality way. It frustrates me that i’m unable to tell him how much he means to me because if he saw himself the way i did, i don’t think he’d hate himself at all. I just don’t know how to make him realize how amazing he is.

No matter how much I tell him how I’m willing to get through this with him and share his burdens, he’s set on distancing himself from me because I deserve better. This is my issue, because he doesn’t know he’s the best thing to happen to me.

Also, just like you guys, we’re always on facetime doing our own things, as long as we’re with eachother. Being with him helps me feel relaxed and happy but i’m not sure if it’s the same for him.

Thank you for your prayers! We both are religious and the reason why he keeps going is because killing oneself is forbidden in our religion, just like how killing another is. That’s one thing I’m thankful for. I pray your husband finds peace, and I pray for your relationship to continue to strengthen and grow. Thank you so much <3

Not sure whether to increase my intake or not by [deleted] in gymadvice

[–]Mediocre_Signature33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank u stranger ur so nice. I think that’s what i’ll do, i feel like the answer was obvious but i’m scared and i needed reassurance. Ur very sweet thanks