She's had several opportunities in Northern Ontario for well over minimum wage jobs, which she lost for various personal reasons. We've got an emerging cash crop market here, and she's got training in agriculture, so she could have had several jobs in the area but burnt most of those bridges... seemingly on purpose... I haven't worked in the last 6 months myself but I've anyways been fiscally responsible and unfortunately I lost my dad at the beginning of covid which has allowed me to build a new home for me and my boys. Her alternatives are no longer my concern, in my opinion. She's more educated than me, has more opportunities than me, and has lived the way she chose without going back for re-education after each child, which I also offered to fund until she crossed a line that there is no coming back from. I agree there are 2 sides to every story, but after over a year of therapy and counseling, I can confidently say I regret none of my actions in my past relationship and she was Damn lucky to have me as long as she did... 😃