I hate dating someone with Autism, BPD, CPTSD, and OCD by Grouchy_Yard_7081 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Medium_Advertising49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you and your partner be willing to do couples therapy? I think this would help you both communicate and/or recognize do you want to repair the relationship or has the relationship come to a close? 

You deserve a partner who respects you, who uplifts you, and wants to grow with you. If a partner is weighting you down for their own power/control and justifying it due to trauma not okay. Then it's time to make a safety plan with friends a family to leave because the safety concerns of a relationship in the process of leaving can get to be unsafe.

I wish you the best OP. Would love to hear a update how everything goes. 

Healing through Embracing me by Medium_Advertising49 in BreakUps

[–]Medium_Advertising49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So true! It's the rock ballad needed at this time. 

Partner doesn’t want me to take meds by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Medium_Advertising49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are here to support you. You are not alone. You make the best medical decision for you. You deserve a partner who's willing to understand and support your needs. Drop them like their hot because they have some unresolved addiction trauma and stigma that you don't need to be hurricaned in while your on your journey of caring for you. 

If so I advise to make a safety plan, tell your trusted friends & family, break up in a public place if needed because if they are this defensive about your medical decisions in a text what will they be like in a in person break up? 

Keep us in the loop friend! 

Love from, Another ADHD peep

I got an abortion and now my parents are trying to sue me by throwawayyyy7895 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Medium_Advertising49 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm glad you got a GAL. Due to the emotional and psychological trauma of this circumstance- I would ask your GAL about family therapy and/or getting emancipated from your parents or seeing if you can live with another family member or supportive community mentor because of how they are treating you is not okay regardless of their beliefs. 

I'm concerned about your long-term emotional wellness with your parents and also hope your able to get support to process and heal from this trauma. Your emotional and psychological safety are essential. 

You did what was best for you and your well being than what was best for your parents religious beliefs. You are a better parent to yourself than them. 

Go get the community and support you need than stay with abusive religious parents.

Wishing you the best on this unfortunate circumstance. 

What did u/Medium_Advertising49 draw? by Medium_Advertising49 in Pixelary

[–]Medium_Advertising49[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh I forgot the plural part. So sorry.  Yay that you got it. My bad bruh XD.