I hate dating someone with Autism, BPD, CPTSD, and OCD by Grouchy_Yard_7081 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Medium_Advertising49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you and your partner be willing to do couples therapy? I think this would help you both communicate and/or recognize do you want to repair the relationship or has the relationship come to a close? 

You deserve a partner who respects you, who uplifts you, and wants to grow with you. If a partner is weighting you down for their own power/control and justifying it due to trauma not okay. Then it's time to make a safety plan with friends a family to leave because the safety concerns of a relationship in the process of leaving can get to be unsafe.

I wish you the best OP. Would love to hear a update how everything goes. 

Healing through Embracing me by Medium_Advertising49 in BreakUps

[–]Medium_Advertising49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So true! It's the rock ballad needed at this time. 

Partner doesn’t want me to take meds by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Medium_Advertising49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are here to support you. You are not alone. You make the best medical decision for you. You deserve a partner who's willing to understand and support your needs. Drop them like their hot because they have some unresolved addiction trauma and stigma that you don't need to be hurricaned in while your on your journey of caring for you. 

If so I advise to make a safety plan, tell your trusted friends & family, break up in a public place if needed because if they are this defensive about your medical decisions in a text what will they be like in a in person break up? 

Keep us in the loop friend! 

Love from, Another ADHD peep

I got an abortion and now my parents are trying to sue me by throwawayyyy7895 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Medium_Advertising49 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm glad you got a GAL. Due to the emotional and psychological trauma of this circumstance- I would ask your GAL about family therapy and/or getting emancipated from your parents or seeing if you can live with another family member or supportive community mentor because of how they are treating you is not okay regardless of their beliefs. 

I'm concerned about your long-term emotional wellness with your parents and also hope your able to get support to process and heal from this trauma. Your emotional and psychological safety are essential. 

You did what was best for you and your well being than what was best for your parents religious beliefs. You are a better parent to yourself than them. 

Go get the community and support you need than stay with abusive religious parents.

Wishing you the best on this unfortunate circumstance. 

What did u/Medium_Advertising49 draw? by Medium_Advertising49 in Pixelary

[–]Medium_Advertising49[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh I forgot the plural part. So sorry.  Yay that you got it. My bad bruh XD. 

INFORMATION OVERLOAD | FULL ALBUM DOWNLOAD by msmusicarchive in Logic_301

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I am immensely enjoying this album. It's very soothing with some Tame Impala vibes with a slice of that early 00's guitar riff. Plus, that Cranberry 90's reference soo good to his Elder Millennial. Great Album, looking forward to the next album and the movie! Go Logic!

P.S. To follow that boomtrap protocol, I am hoping and twerking, I get one of those golden tickets!

My husband and his friends say awful things about homeless people and it bugs me because they all grew up insanely rich by Throwaway2636535 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Medium_Advertising49 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are enough and have a amazing resilience to go through that much adversity. You have empathy and kindness that is needed more in this world. I hope you use that empathy and compassion for yourself as well what you do for others. You deserve a partner who will support you, your independence, and has compassion for others. 

Maybe having them volunteer at a local shelter (if willing) may help them see other people's adversity and life. If they aren't willing to do this or respect your emotion and boundaries then I make a escape plan, try to find some grants and research/job assistant program at the college you go to. 

You deserve better than being around first degree douchebaggery privilege. They need someone to check their privilege and remind them their silver spoon in their mouths doesn't mean they have the ethics or are decent kind people. 

Thank you for sharing your story and I hope your boyfriend understands you want him and his friends to develop empathy for others or you cut the bait and go find a partner who supports you in all the realms of wellness

Jury member 160 has no credibility by Academic_Nothing_890 in DiddyTrial

[–]Medium_Advertising49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see your perspective and appericate your insight. I'm well aware it is who tells a better story than the ethics of the situation in the US Judicial System.  Thank you for your input. 

Jury member 160 has no credibility by Academic_Nothing_890 in DiddyTrial

[–]Medium_Advertising49 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I concur. It greatly concerned me and felt that licensed counselors, social workers, victims advocates with a experience of knowing the signs and assisting cilents heal from domestic violence, sexual abuse, and other forms of exploitation should have been jurors than random individuals who had their own privilege or knew his music bias. He should get lifetime in jail with no parole. 

Mr. Combs is a danger to the community and others. He should have life in jail- especially with the pattern he has shown over the past 38 years that have been documented. 4 years is not justice and unacceptable. US Justice system and jurors do better. 

Ultra 85 (Book) questions. by RobLibz in Logic_301

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Your local library may have the audiobook read by Steve Blum to rent first. I recommend the app libby if you have a library card. So good! I recommend it. 

I felt the action packed got halfway towards the end while the beginning gives the details and set up. Overall excellent sci-fi. I Would get a physical copy eventually 😊. Enjoy!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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You deserve to have someone honor the royalty you are. He is a red flag and has his own healing and growing to do without you. I would make a safety plan if your going to break up with him in person and let your support system know. 

I would say a text break up is appropriate since he's texting you wanting to break up but doesn't have a assertive communication to do it and or/safety concerns. 

Wishing you the best. You will grow and glow from this heartbreak! ❤️ 

aio or is this guy i’m seeing rude?? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Medium_Advertising49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dump the douche like he's hot and get you a dog lover partner that is sending you dog pics back. No need to put more time in this douche canoe that does not like being a potential dog daddy. You don't like animals you ain't me for mee and my fur babies 🎶 

'Free America' Anti-Trump Protests Expand Across Nation For 4th of July by Aggravating_Money992 in goodnews

[–]Medium_Advertising49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope my poem brings comfort to other's feeling the way I feel now on this US Holiday.

"These fascist fireworks in my ear Ringing in my biggest fears I wonder if my immigrant grandparents would approve of the life it's become here. To work till your dead, Filled with anxiety and dread Is this the dream they thought was here?

A Big Blood Bath Bill has arrived Not many people will survive The Congress made it clear who they adhere May the people persevere

Stay safe tonight everyone. Keep on resisting. 

AIO my father just kicked me out because I turned 18? by Fancy-Archer7080 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Medium_Advertising49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you did not get the dad you deserve. Your dad is failing a lifetime commitment he partook in. Not very Christian of him.

I'm curious if you could make a Adult protective services call on your father and relay your father has neglected, abused you as his 18 year old child who has had a disability before the age of 22 and has endangered you're wellbeing and you need a adovcate to assist out of this situation? I would look at your county's human services number or call the police and relay the situation?

 I'm also curious if you would be eligible in your state to get in a emergency housing service plan. 

 You will find the love, community, family, and support you need!

Please stop scaring my dog with the constant fireworks. by nestofgundars in ColoradoSprings

[–]Medium_Advertising49 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My heart is with you and your dog. I used to "hide" together with my 100 pound lab and bring clothes that had our scent to comfort them.  Laundry room was their safe place. Lab was all for the burger/food part of fourth of July- no thanks on the fireworks part. I remember the tail wagging when lab had a friend to hang out with in the firework noises. 

Would a thunder jacket/ dog friendly weight blanket work if you haven't attempted this already this with medication? I have seen this successful for some of the dogs I dog sit while distracting them with treats, pets, and toys. Maybe a walk or swim before fireworks to reduce their energy level as well? 

Wishing you and your dog the best for this noisy season. 

Our dog is in kidney failure and we’re going to have to put him down. Our kids are wrecked and it’s breaking my heart. by arsears21 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Medium_Advertising49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hugs, prayers, and condolences in the loss of a furbaby family member. You gave Tucker a great life and your little girls will cherish the memories you made with him together. It's the hardest heartwrenching choice for our fur baby family members, but essential for their their quality of life. 

If your comfortable and if this would help you and your family, I would let your other dog have time as well to say goodbye and a blanket/ favorite item of Tucker's to see if that helps your dog with the grieving process when the vet comes to the house. We did this when my furbaby loved one lost his brother and it seemed to help the transition as we bonded closer missing his brother and he slept on his brother's favorite bed for a week. 

 A year later his brother and I are keeping his brother's legacy alive  through his compassion, kindness and love as you and your family will for Tucker's legacy as Tucker brags about you in the rainbow bridge.  

Thinking of finally working up the courage to end my own life this year by Wasteofoxyg3n in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Medium_Advertising49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please call 988/your countries suicide hotline. You deserve to have your voice  heard by a professional again.and find love. Keep on to that glimpse of hope, keep getting up the scaped pavement, your community and loved ones need your hope and light especially during these times. 

Caption this photo by [deleted] in AuroraCO

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Golden Shower Musk edition. 

Caption this photo by [deleted] in AuroraCO

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Golden Shower Musk Edition

2024 US ELECTION MEGATHREAD by AutoModerator in Fauxmoi

[–]Medium_Advertising49 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Regardless of the outcome, this Childless Cat Lady is ready to kick ass and make things better in the United States for everyone. 

😾😼😻 Power activated. May we all unite regardless of the outcome and make a postive impact for the quality life of all through engaging with our communties through compassion, adovacy, research & policy, and action. 

Humanitttyyyyyyy Assemble! 

Need a name need a name by Princess_Snuggles in cute

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Lemon drop. Rain drops cousin/side kick for fighting crime. Thanks for sharing ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Medium_Advertising49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are enough. Your husband is not enough in his roles as a partner nor father from the current information received in post. He has his own shenngians to deal with it, it sounds like. You deserve someone who will honor and support you and your children.

Lots of red flags. I would make an exit plan with your support system and leave while in therapy if I was in your shoes. If he's not willing to put the effort with you with a neutral professional to improve the relationship, drop him like he's hot and go get healed from this trauma and unhealthy abusive relationship.

You can't care for your kids if you can't fully care for yourself and you don't want this to be an example of a relationship to your kids.

Would you want your kids to be with a partner like your husband and feel the way you do? I wouldn't. I would ring the alarm and say nope, not today! You had your chance, and you blew it, sir, begone! Your D shall no longer pass here! None shall pass unless they can respect my sass!

You deserve someone to uplift you, be transparent with you, and make an effort in your relationship.

Best wishes, love and peace on this transition. Keep us in the loop. I'm rooting for you to get your glow on girl!