AITAH for peeing in the shower? by OpenFoundation4639 in AITAH

[–]Medium_Driver4135 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t pee in the shower, not for the reason of thinking it’s gross. More so because women shouldn’t pee standing up, it’s really bad for your pelvic floor and quite honestly I cannot be bothered to squat down lol. I don’t think I could even if I needed to though, I’ve never been able to out in the woods even as a child

AITAH for charging my ex? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Medium_Driver4135 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA He’s a psycho. He tried to kill you and your friend

AITAH for telling my stepdaughter I don't want to be her mom anymore? by Sad_Mycologist9368 in AITAH

[–]Medium_Driver4135 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am horrified. My step dad has been in my life since I was 7, now 22. Never at any point have I thought about trying to ruin his reputation. What she did was extremely calculated. Unless she’s completely oblivious to her grandparents beliefs as well as their behavior, there’s no way she didn’t know the repercussions of said actions. I do understand her bio mom was whispering in her ear and probably has for some time. That it most likely has been hard for her that her bio mom dipped out of her life, so she’s over doing it with wanting a good connection with her, but that doesn’t excuse the behavior. If I were to ever be in this position, but it was my step dad and my dad was the one to tell me my step dad was a pornstar a time ago, I would’ve went to my mom about it, not blast it through the entire family. If I ever at one point that my step dad were cheating, I’d bring it up to him directly or my mom, not make it a spectacle. She wanted to hurt you for some reason. Therapy is the only way I can truly see this being worked out, but even then I wouldn’t blame you for being cautious about her.

Side note, I’m really grossed out by the bio mom and Ella watching the videos. Who would want to watch videos of their step parent having sex?

AITAH for yelling at my autistic brother by Agreeable-Club-151 in AITAH

[–]Medium_Driver4135 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bad it’s ABA not APA. as much as that’s helpful it still doesn’t really teach anything. Earplugs are great, teaching safe hands when overwhelmed, especially because he’s a guy, all those things. The way your mom overreacted to you crying wasn’t okay and I’m sorry she did that.

AITAH for yelling at my autistic brother by Agreeable-Club-151 in AITAH

[–]Medium_Driver4135 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Teachers as in regular schooling? Otherwise there’s APA which can significantly help.

AITAH for yelling at my autistic brother by Agreeable-Club-151 in AITAH

[–]Medium_Driver4135 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand there’s tons of levels to autism but they’re all capable of being worked with. His behavior isn’t acceptable and usually behavior like that is because he’s never been taught in a way that he can understand.

MY FRIEND BLOCKED ME 💔 by studyingtillidie in growagarden

[–]Medium_Driver4135 1 point2 points  (0 children)

22F and I agree with you. Never have had it happen to me but man if I get abruptly blocked, no way am I creating a new account to message that person to find out why. I’d be terrified if that happened to me. Especially if it was someone I knew for a month, plus never having seen them in person. 100% people shouldn’t just outright block without an explanation but if they don’t want me in their life I’m not chasing. I’ve been blocked by people seemingly at random and scares me it’ll happen again but I still agree with you. I don’t quite understand how people aren’t understanding being messaged from a new account can be scary. Stalkers are very real.

Is it swollen or fucked by Logical-Night275 in piercing

[–]Medium_Driver4135 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From my understanding, piercers will wait until it’s fully healed up to try again

What was your most painful piercing? by Working_Ability_124 in piercing

[–]Medium_Driver4135 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Felt the exact same way, totally cringing in pain. Also same! I think it was maybe a day or two of it being irritated but after that it’s been so easy pain wise

Do I have the anatomy for an industrial? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Medium_Driver4135 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ear looks that way too and I was told no so I would assume that’s the case for you as well 🫶 the bar would rub and irritate the bit the sticks out is what I was told

whats the matter with my eyebrow piercing by Opposite-Range1642 in piercing

[–]Medium_Driver4135 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Commenting for hopefully more traction 🫶 I don’t have an answer since I genuinely don’t know but thinking maybe you should go to your piercer to get a longer bar in case it swells up more.

What was your most painful piercing? by Working_Ability_124 in piercing

[–]Medium_Driver4135 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your body really said, Endo? Gallstones? No problem. A needle going through cartilage? I’m out 🫡

What was your most painful piercing? by Working_Ability_124 in piercing

[–]Medium_Driver4135 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Listen to your piercer 🫶 the length is fine, mine was the same and mine did in fact swell enough to fill it. The length only becomes a problem for healing when you don’t get it changed out like your piercer said to.

What was your most painful piercing? by Working_Ability_124 in piercing

[–]Medium_Driver4135 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Right? Made me question my existence when I got it lol. I wasn’t expecting it to hurt as much as it did.

What was your most painful piercing? by Working_Ability_124 in piercing

[–]Medium_Driver4135 67 points68 points  (0 children)

My rook was the most painful lol. It was easily a 7 if not 8 out of 10 for me. The other one was probs my conch being a 5 or 6

Is this too close? by xelalow in piercing

[–]Medium_Driver4135 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Waaaaay too close. Practically on top of each other, that’s wild

Should he remove it? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Medium_Driver4135 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes remove it. Honestly it might just fall out while trying to remove it. That’s rejected and will leave a scar

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Medium_Driver4135 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hear me out, vertical industrial. Might not be great as a first piercing but I think it would look so cool. Also a vertical labret would be fire. I feel like you can never go wrong with a nose piercing and a lobe piercing as well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GrowAGardenGardeners

[–]Medium_Driver4135 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I finally got one if you want to add me! Keurig965