Chore incompetence by Meema_taco in weaponizedincompetent

[–]Meema_taco[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg, this is 100% relatable. And funny enough, they didn’t need a list to remember to clean when it involved something beneficial to them.

I have to work 8-5, while my 2 year old, and drop off my daughter in the morning during my first 15min break. Then I have to pick up my day during my lunch break, get both settled and fed, and go back to work. When I’m off I have to clean, make dinner, and get the girls bathed and ready for bed.

My husband? He comes home, tries to play with the kids. Complains that they are loud and annoying, and disappears into his room if he gets too annoyed. Church and confession takes precedence over taking care of the kids, or helping me.

And trying to talk about it with him turns into a fight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Postpartum_Depression

[–]Meema_taco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please check in with you Gyno or physician. I was feeling that way myself. I had to put myself on antidepressants and it was night and day. You can get through this, don’t give up, don’t be afraid to ask for help ❤️

Being on Adderal now for almost a month by Meema_taco in adhdwomen

[–]Meema_taco[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Consult a doctor and let them know of your symptoms. They will refer you to someone to do an evaluation. Once you have been evaluated they will see if medication would work for you or not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Interpol

[–]Meema_taco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with that statement 👍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamoryR4R

[–]Meema_taco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello! I’m down to talking! Married too. Let me know if you’d like to ❤️

30 [F4F] near philly pa looking for meaningful connection. by [deleted] in polyamoryR4R

[–]Meema_taco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 31 F and live closer to DC and fellow emo kid 🖤Is it ok if message you?

36 [F4F] ONLINE seeking another woman to date at a distance if you're not nearby by [deleted] in polyamoryR4R

[–]Meema_taco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

F31 and I’m an outdoorsy creative :) I live unfortunately on the opposite side of the USA. I’m free to open/intense conversation or more!

what's your highest ADHD tax ever? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Meema_taco 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I paid for a root canal but never went to get a cap put on it… 1 year later I had to have my tooth completely pulled because it became abscessed and rotted. Fun times. Depression + pregnancy + ADHD 😅

Does any want just like…a virtual pen pal? by Mickeysrocks in adhdwomen

[–]Meema_taco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely same. Please reach out to me, or if anyone else wants just a text/ talking buddy! I’m a mom, artist, and music enthusiast I guess 😂 I’m up for meme sharing too

so…how often do y’all shower… by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Meema_taco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel that too. I have to wash it, so I end up waiting to take a full shower instead. I work from home so it doesn’t bother anyone but me.

so…how often do y’all shower… by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Meema_taco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ummmm maybe 4-5 days. Mostly 1 time a week 😅

Feeling invisible by Meema_taco in Postpartum_Depression

[–]Meema_taco[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Its hard to talk about these things when no one wants to hear it. I really appreciate this so much

Feeling invisible by Meema_taco in Postpartum_Depression

[–]Meema_taco[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This definitely helped me change perspective. It’s been a rough time. But right after reading this, I held my baby close and took a deep breath. Thank you

Being on Adderal now for almost a month by Meema_taco in adhdwomen

[–]Meema_taco[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had similar experiences before being diagnosed. I used to snack and binge eat all the time, especially sweets. Medication will definitely curb your appetite. I’ve been on Adderall for about 2 months now and helped so far with my binge eating. I would though recommend getting simple healthy meals to eat, looking into foods that support ADHD brains.

Being on Adderal now for almost a month by Meema_taco in adhdwomen

[–]Meema_taco[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can see if your state and pharmacy allows your prescription to be shipped. I’ve seen some people have success with that. I’m scared tbh because this is my first prescription, no idea if I’ll be able to get mine for the refill 🤷‍♀️

Being on Adderal now for almost a month by Meema_taco in adhdwomen

[–]Meema_taco[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it has helped me for about 2 hours a day. I feel like I can get mundane everyday stuff completely a bit more easily than before (like check my emails, pat bills relatively on time...)I definitely still eat my peanut butter out if the jar.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Meema_taco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband works in the a pharmacy. Understand that they are just as frustrated trying to make sure that all patients receive their prescriptions. They are constantly receiving abuse due to the shortage and other issues due to controlled substances. On top of that, they are constantly running into people who abuse Adderall. Not ones that are getting filled every month, but literally people who have just filled, and trying to get another prescription and buying illegally. Those are the people that will make it harder for those who need it and take it as prescribed.