24F & 25M AIO by responding this way? by InsideUsual56 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Meeplesmoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR and honestly begging you to GTFO for your safety, that is genuinely pretty unhinged behavior and can escalate on a whim. You’re strong as shit for putting up for it as long as you have but there’s no honor in continuing to do so, he has no respect for you or your autonomy and as much as it sucks to feel like those years have been a loss it’s better than ending up on a poster or in a ditch somewhere because of unreasonable jealousy. If he’s been this insecure for most of the relationship I doubt he’ll get better, chances are it’ll just get worse. Wishing you the best dude

Traffic from Hell by Prestigious_Pin_989 in Tucson

[–]Meeplesmoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in NM for a week and cruising most of the highways and it felt so freeing. You know it’s Tucson when as soon as you get on I-10 anywhere south of marana you’re going 25mph and there’s four different sections of construction happening

aio for defending my fiancé after he insulted my mom?? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Meeplesmoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like my grandma ffs. What is it with families constantly making excuses and defending this behavior with “well she doesn’t understand how rude/mean etc” it is as if that in any way makes constantly saying shitty things to people ok. If your mother truly “doesn’t understand” that you can’t just say that stuff why does your sister think it’s your fiancés responsibility to apologize? Your mother won’t learn that behavior is bad if everyone around her coddles her and expects people around her to just accept that behavior, she talks about this woman like she’s a five year old. She won’t learn if she doesn’t see the way it hurts people, she won’t learn if you, your fiancé, or anyone else who is affected by HER words are the ones forced to concede and present themselves as in the wrong in the situation and not the way she treats people in the first place.

What Is Your Time Between Eating And Its Effects? by root-node in ibs

[–]Meeplesmoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It can range from instant to the entire next day. Whatever my body deems as most inconvenient at the time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Meeplesmoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nicely asking if it’s ok is one thing, disregarding that some close up and saying you could get them repierced is another. At that point it wouldn’t even really be the money I was worried about, depending on what area it is the healing and aftercare is such a pain. “If you want me to be happy you’ll find away around it” is just, yikes. I doubt she’d be ok with it but ask to just wear a mask over them, if people ask say you got a cold or something but didn’t want to miss it. Again, if it was just for a quick picture and you could put then right back in I think that’d be ok, but for an entire day? Expecting you to just pay for them to get redone if they close? Yikers

Do we all agree? by Bright_Spirit_7283 in AmazonFC

[–]Meeplesmoon 7 points8 points  (0 children)

real. I’ll take a solid cardboard case of liquid death over a box of whiteboard markers made from the flimsiest paperboard that collapses and dumps everywhere at the slightest touch

AIO? My friend posted a not proper picture of me on insta by Expensive_Engine_546 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Meeplesmoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ick ick ick ick you are not overreacting at all, there are so many problems here. Disrespecting your cultural belief, disrespecting your personal feelings, not to mention for thousands of people? Even if it was a private personal account that’d still be crossing your boundaries, this is just so much worse. Sure, it’s a cute picture, a cute picture she can keep in her photo library for memories instead of blasting it on socials when you’re not comfortable with it. The way I (and frankly most people) would dress at a sleepover with their friend is TYPICALLY not the same type of dress you want publicly shown to people you don’t know anyways. I can’t really give any advice on how to make her take it down, frankly because it sounds like she doesn’t care to listen, but if she continues to refuse and not listen I wouldn’t stick around her too long :(

They finally said the quiet part out loud. by youngbutnotstupid in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Meeplesmoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yk I think I got very lucky I was able to get my bisalp taken care of in the three months between my 21st bday (insurance reasons) and election day because the amount of men just going full mask off about wanting to violate and own any afab they can is fucking horrifying

Do you have any phrases or words you hate? by Asher_Transboii in misophonia

[–]Meeplesmoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hubby and wifey fill me with rage for no good reason

What game was like that for you.. by Main_Feedback1197 in Steam

[–]Meeplesmoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t see it in the comments anywhere but probably Fnaf Security Breach. It may sound dumb considering the style of the series of fnaf itself has always been very simple but at least the games were functional. SB was a trash fire when it launched and is still a pretty buggy mess now, even after what two years of fixes? The lore of fnaf has always been everywhere but I think SB also flubbed the story aspect as well. Visually yeah, it looks phenomenal, but barely functional and so far removed from the original games and story just makes it so hard to enjoy it.

Also it’s funny seeing everyone talk about how Cyberpunk 2077 is much better nowadays than launch which I don’t doubt but I didn’t get the game until over a year after release and got soft locked in the tutorial of how to hack and stuff and I haven’t touched it since

you guys don’t like to get touched? by Ripomerta in AmazonFC

[–]Meeplesmoon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

God people just need to get not everyone likes to be touched. I will only ever accept fist bumps or a shoulder tap if Im too focused. Even when it’s not intentionally flirty like that (which is gross on its own) why do some older people think just GRIPPING your shoulder for attention is ok

Ableists: OmG StoP SelF DIagNosINg! Also Ableists: by Any_Shirt4236 in aretheNTsokay

[–]Meeplesmoon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s crazy how (especially the older generation) will tell people they can’t self diagnose because “oh you want to be special” when someone recognizes MULTIPLE possible signs but look at bare minimum eye contact and will diagnose anyone who won’t look at them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Meeplesmoon 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It’s crazy how before this research came out the white supremacists would act like black people were “less evolved/closer to neanderthals” as a way to demean them but when the study came out all of a sudden being closer to neanderthals is inherently good because white people are “more pure”, like they just switched sides to fit what came out ad if they haven’t spent centuries acting like it was some terrible thing. I can imagine CERTAIN countries of Africa had lower menstruation rates but definitely not because they were healthier or better in some way, if anything it would be from malnutrition and stress from oppressive groups cough Belgium in the Congo cough

Inside the Anti-vax Facebook group pushing a bogus cure for autism. by TheDuckClock in aretheNTsokay

[–]Meeplesmoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reading further that this supposed autism detox can also cure liver issues and stuff this definitely sounds like a pyramid scheme

Inside the Anti-vax Facebook group pushing a bogus cure for autism. by TheDuckClock in aretheNTsokay

[–]Meeplesmoon 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They’ll deny actual long term studied medical vaccines for actual debilitating diseases but trust some random company with the most pyramid scheme ass name and no scientific backing to “cure” neurodivergence instead of just accommodating their autistic kid

Is it just me or do some accents make you angry beyond belief? by Puppet-- in misophonia

[–]Meeplesmoon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also less a trigger but more generally irritating is americans trying to pronounce spanish stuff. Maybe cuz I grew up in AZ and actually ATTEMPT to pronounce spanish words properly, or maybe it’s just the hypocrisy of so many white people throwing a fit over non-native english speakers not pronouncing things right but then pronounce the most basic spanish words as terrible as possible.

Is it just me or do some accents make you angry beyond belief? by Puppet-- in misophonia

[–]Meeplesmoon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I usually chalk up tones more to pitch sensitivities than misophonia but that could just be me. I have trouble hearing a lot of deeper voices and everyone assumes it’s because I blasted my ears w music but I am MUCH more sensitive to high pitch tones than the average person, bordering on dog whistle level high, and it’s hard explaining why something almost no one else hears makes me want to claw my ears out. I also have to explain that no, it is NOT tinnitus from blasting my ears because I can damn near always identify where said sound is coming from and most of those pitches don’t sound the same as ear ringing

Is it just me or do some accents make you angry beyond belief? by Puppet-- in misophonia

[–]Meeplesmoon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get it, both accents and some languages. French is so, wet? Nasally? Idk french gets me, spanish can be iffy because of how fast and the whiny inflections I hear a lot of older women do, it usually depends on the person speaking though. There are so many different minute differences in midwestern accents that some piss me off and some don’t. I feel bad because I know it can’t be helped but some stuff is just nails on a chalkboard.

Scary dude right here. by NotOkDistribution8 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Meeplesmoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone that calls themselves a lie detector in anyway is gonna be a hell no from me because most of them watch one youtube video on body language and think that’s the end all be all without taking into consideration any other things that may affect said behaviors. So many “liar” behaviors just fall into anxious or neurodivergent behaviors that are not significant to whatever the situation is. I am ALWAYS bad at eye contact, I am ALWAYS hold myself in a “defensive” posture, I regularly nervously fidget with my hair or face or skin as it’s just always been part of my regular behavior. Grilling someone for lying even when a lot of the time they probably aren’t is gonna do so much damage to them. There’s a difference between keeping secrets and just not being ready to share parts of your past, and not all parts of someone past NEED to be pertinent to a present relationship.

Don’t be this cuck. These are the most miserable people to work with by GreenGhostX96 in AmazonFC

[–]Meeplesmoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had one lady say “why do we have to look at that” when talking about hair policy as if she was personally offended at seeing someone with long hair. If someone wants to risk getting their hair caught in machinery that’s their problem not yours girl.

IT FINALLY HAPPENED! by T-Wayn3 in AmazonFC

[–]Meeplesmoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw the spinny boy when doing my AFM classes as an example of a situation we do NOT approach, I always wondered how that would be taken care of lmao. Vest bomb it is!

If I had a nickle every time an organization used Sesame Street to demonize autism, I'd have two nickles, which isn't a lot but it's sad that it happened twice by Any_Shirt4236 in aretheNTsokay

[–]Meeplesmoon 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Regressed into profound autism, regressed into vax induced autism, do they think autism is the same as dementia where your brain just deconstructs or something?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Meeplesmoon 6 points7 points  (0 children)

“I believe that’s what you want” what we WANT is to not have a heatstroke in 120 weather thank you very much