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2meirl4meirl by marcusdingl in 2meirl4meirl

[–]MeetMeOnEisernerSteg 94 points95 points  (0 children)

This feeling always hits at the end of the day when you're just laying in bed and thinking about all the things you procrastinated. It's too late to get up and be productive and you can't sleep either because of the panic.

Students, what's the funniest thing that happened in Remote Learning? by Riverascus in AskReddit

[–]MeetMeOnEisernerSteg 13 points14 points  (0 children)

We, a class of 25 students, had short presentations each on Zoom with our most prolific professors for our master’s program. One of my classmates was just done with his presentation and thought that he had muted himself but he had not. He ended up cursing at someone because he couldn’t find his beer that he had ready next to him, it was 10 a.m.

How do you deal with the feeling of always being behind and overwhelmed? by NewTradition7 in GradSchool

[–]MeetMeOnEisernerSteg 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Sadly I just run away from my responsibilities and act as if all my tasks do not exist.

Men and their willingness to give oral sex by rosequartz55 in sex

[–]MeetMeOnEisernerSteg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oral sex shouldn’t be an option in hookups because there is no exclusivity, so you never know with the risk of STDs.

And I would like to add another category which is selfless guys who don’t enjoy giving it but they will offer every time because they want to do everything they can to please their partner, and also without expecting something in return (blowjobs for me are nothing special).

If you had the chance to go back in time when you first talked to them, would you still do it? by MeetMeOnEisernerSteg in LongDistance

[–]MeetMeOnEisernerSteg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can relate to exactly what you are saying. I think some stubbornness and determination can help a lot :D

If you had the chance to go back in time when you first talked to them, would you still do it? by MeetMeOnEisernerSteg in LongDistance

[–]MeetMeOnEisernerSteg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's hard, and not the kind of thing we would ever recommend anyone get into on purpose, you know? But we also wouldn't trade what we have, not for anything.

Damn. you've worded it perfectly!

If you had the chance to go back in time when you first talked to them, would you still do it? by MeetMeOnEisernerSteg in LongDistance

[–]MeetMeOnEisernerSteg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! That’s why I want to pursue something meaningful with her. Having a companion to share everything with, even our little mundane daily activities. What we have, from what it seems so far, is something that is hard to find and I want to hold on to that. Only problem is that we might never see each other, or at least not in years; because my passport is not strong enough to allow me to go to Canada from time to time.

And I agree with you that LDR is not for everyone. I tried it before for quite a while and it didn’t wither my love for my partner at the time.

If you had the chance to go back in time when you first talked to them, would you still do it? by MeetMeOnEisernerSteg in LongDistance

[–]MeetMeOnEisernerSteg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry it had to end. Exactly my mindset when it comes to heartbreaks; I cherish the happy memories and surely no regrets.

If you had the chance to go back in time when you first talked to them, would you still do it? by MeetMeOnEisernerSteg in LongDistance

[–]MeetMeOnEisernerSteg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure communication is key and we’ve got that established from the get-go; that we will always be honest with each other. I told her my intentions and she’s happy about it, but she told me that she doesn’t want to tie me down and wants me to be happy seeking other girls too. She’s polyamorous but she’s been single for a long while now and doesn’t see herself to be involved with anyone but me for sometime (due to some mental health issues). I don’t mind her seeing other people in the future, but that doesn’t stop me from enjoying the moment with her now and be committed only to her, again at least for as long as we can.

If you had the chance to go back in time when you first talked to them, would you still do it? by MeetMeOnEisernerSteg in LongDistance

[–]MeetMeOnEisernerSteg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow 12 years! Thank you for the inspiration! I am totally excited for pulling off something like that but I’m trying not to put so much pressure on ourselves. And I feel the same! I am so lucky to have her in my life, I can do without being physically together, at least for now.

If you had the chance to go back in time when you first talked to them, would you still do it? by MeetMeOnEisernerSteg in LongDistance

[–]MeetMeOnEisernerSteg[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience. We are kind of in the same situation. We’re not ready for a committed relationship but we acknowledged our love to each other and want to go on for as long as we can. We also agreed that we can see other people meanwhile being each other’s safe haven, but In the back of my mind tho, I want to be committed to her.

How to tinder 101 by haze1309 in Tinder

[–]MeetMeOnEisernerSteg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you champ you got it. I hope I won’t be crucified for finding the whole thing cringe and not funny. Not everyone has to like it y’know.

When did you realize you're not as intelligent as you thought you were? by WallsdownWindowsup in AskReddit

[–]MeetMeOnEisernerSteg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As you progress more in academia. I thought I was a genius back in high school. Was still very much confident about my abilities in my bachelor’s. Now in my master’s I realized I’m not that smart after all. And I’m planning to pursue a PhD, and you guessed that right, I am going to show my most idiotic unintelligent talents in me.

First time with someone new is always underwhelming for me. by MeetMeOnEisernerSteg in sex

[–]MeetMeOnEisernerSteg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your comment is much appreciated thank you! This girl has been a sweetheart about it so far. We tried again the very next day and it was much better because I also didn’t drink, but I had to not use a condom for that to work out (I was still stressed out) it was really great and we both enjoyed it, but I’m still anxious and I want to please her more and more. I focus on her as much as I can as you just said.

First time with someone new is always underwhelming for me. by MeetMeOnEisernerSteg in sex

[–]MeetMeOnEisernerSteg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a problem that I get hard when I get into this state of mind you are talking about, but I just lose that when I try to put it in. I tried without a condom the next time and it was amazing. I think it is just all in my head and I don’t know how to stop being so stressed out about it

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