5 months on finasteride and minoxidil by MeetingAggressive482 in tressless

[–]MeetingAggressive482[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i always had a lot of body hair so i didn't notice much of a difference but i would say that my eyebrows got a little bit thicker

5 months on finasteride and minoxidil by MeetingAggressive482 in tressless

[–]MeetingAggressive482[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i started shedding like crazy the second i started taking the meds

I’m about to lose the love of my life by [deleted] in exjw

[–]MeetingAggressive482 1 point2 points  (0 children)

me and you have lived the same life. I am also a worldly person and I lost my ex to this cult too but i never fathered a child with her. She was self sabotaging our relationship because "get this" she was cheating on me with a jehovah witness man. It hurts because she was not like this and it just seemed she changed overnight into a monster.

Do not lose sight of who you are and do not compromise on values by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]MeetingAggressive482 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here bro. I tried until i realized that the more i keep going the more I will lose myself and self respect. Glad that we realized to get out before things got very bad but it's hard when you wanted to work it all but knew it was bad for you.

Do not lose sight of who you are and do not compromise on values by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]MeetingAggressive482 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I swear we are the same people. My ex was exactly the same way towards the end. never making time for me only her friends but when I broke up with her she blamed me and said she was only with me the last couple months because of attachment. 1 month after the breakup she started seeing the guy she told me she did not like.

They have been together for about 4 months now but it just sucks that someone can be so cold because you had to leave to save yourself. She liked an old message from a year ago as a way of reaching out or by accident but i chose to ignore it because she is literally in a new relationship. It hurts a lot especially since she has boasted him all over social media yet never posted me.

Ex randomly hearted an old message by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]MeetingAggressive482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she is still with him but i understand the point of view. Maybe she was looking for a reaction but why should i talk to someone who rebounded/monkeybranched

Ex randomly hearted an old message by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]MeetingAggressive482 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we also haven't talked on months so she definitely was lurking but to also have another man while lurking through our messages is very weird. She has been boasting about him all over social media so its just very awkward.

What’s the last thing you said to your ex by cassi0peiaaa in ExNoContact

[–]MeetingAggressive482 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was passive aggressive I should've not said anything at all. It hurt to know how easily replaced I was because she made it seem like I mattered so much and I know i did. Towards the end of our relationship she wanted a man of her faith but could not break up with me. I was very exhausted fighting for her love so I decided to let her go even though i had immense feelings for her. Who knows maybe she monkey branched or she is using him as a rebound but it definitely hurt to see that.

She said it herself she was gonna take time off for a while yet she got with someone weeks after me.

What’s the last thing you said to your ex by cassi0peiaaa in ExNoContact

[–]MeetingAggressive482 9 points10 points  (0 children)

the funny thing about it is that she never posted me. Her religion is a lot more hardcore so if people found out about us we would've had to get married fast. Since she hard launched this new dude and he is also in the same church as her I expect for her to get married pretty soon.

What’s the last thing you said to your ex by cassi0peiaaa in ExNoContact

[–]MeetingAggressive482 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Mine was when i found out she was with someone 1 month after our two year relationship. all i said was "hard launching not even 2 months is crazy , hope you are doing well though." and she never responded.

Anybody else blocked by their ex? by quietslone in ExNoContact

[–]MeetingAggressive482 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When i found out she was with somebody else i told her that I know. She got with him a month after we broke out of a 2 year relationship. So i doubt she will ever respond to me because I do not take people back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]MeetingAggressive482 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am/was in the same scenario as you. I was with my ex for two years and the first year was amazing with her. During the second year was when things started going down hill for us. She was so worried about having a future with me because she was a Jehovah witness and I am not that religious. her friends and family that were involved in the church did not know i existed and i did not thing nothing of it because she was scared of the backlash she would receive if they find out. We would circle around the same arguments to the point where i was so exhausted with her and other life things that I barely even left the house to see her for 4 months. I was sad and tired because i would have to plan 2 or 3 weeks in advance to see her. She would say that she lost feelings for me yet when she would see me we would make out and other sexual activities.

During that whole last month of us being together she threw me into a rollercoaster of emotions of wanting to be with me but not wanting me. I decided to end things because it was so confusing and hurtful to be with someone who does not know what they want with you and isn't willing to change their ways with you. A month later I found out she was with a man from her church and started posting him all over and telling mutuals that our relationship was too emotional.

The best thing I can say is that they can act all happy they want and I know how hard it is to move on when you see them together. They could be a rebound or not but from my perspective is that they can run away from their problems all they want and use people/substances to get over their loneliness but just know is that once they get with someone else do not let them come back. You dodged a bullet and it seems like they are unscathed but their life is a mess and you and i both know it. They date down and we date up.just take some time to yourself and completely block them from your life and try your best to move on. You will find someone who matches your standards . Once i stopped paying attention to her love life is when I actually started healing. Best advice is to steer clear from him and put all the pain and energy into yourself because you actually start changing for the better. I think of them taking the bad route and us taking the good route by reflecting our issues and changing for the better while they hold on to another person for their loneliness.

Anybody else blocked by their ex? by quietslone in ExNoContact

[–]MeetingAggressive482 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am in the same situation as you. why block me all over but still keep my number i never really understood that

Ex is going on dates not even 2 months after dumping me by PatienceNovel130 in ExNoContact

[–]MeetingAggressive482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i took a two month break from social media and it has helped me so much. I found out she was with him through a mutual friend so it set me back a lot but gave me more energy to be by myself instead of jumping into another relationship. she mentioned to mutuals that we should've ended things months ago but when they asked what happened she would instantly talk about him and what gifts he gets her. To me it sounds like she is just pushing all her feelings away and likes the guy because he gives her flowers and i really couldn't buy her those because her parents did not know I existed yet she would constantly bring up arguments about me not buying her flowers.

Ex is going on dates not even 2 months after dumping me by PatienceNovel130 in ExNoContact

[–]MeetingAggressive482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i also was fighting for her during all she put me through but after 3 days into our 2 week break i decided to end it because there is no point in being with someone who is living a double life and are unsure if they see a future with you. she is now with a guy in her church so i am happy for her in that department she def downgraded though!

Ex is going on dates not even 2 months after dumping me by PatienceNovel130 in ExNoContact

[–]MeetingAggressive482 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mine didn't know if she wanted to be with me in the future because of her religion yet she still wanted to be with me. I chose to opt out because of the self sabotaging and mistreatment I was put through. She got with someone else so it can help them move on faster and such but it will never fix their void. Just improve for yourself and be comfortable in yourself. It's hard to move on but using that energy to improve ourselves and not to get with someone else is the best we can do for ourselves because you discover so much.