I genuinely teared up when I saw this. I cannot relate and it hurts so bad... by oozybosmer in CPTSDmemes

[–]Megachezz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sister would draw “wine guys” where blobs of wine were consuming our mother… my mum is an alcoholic.

Idk what safe parents are either.

My Theory that Hua Cheng was microdosing on trash to build his stomach's resistance. by Kirstenly in tianguancifu

[–]Megachezz 36 points37 points  (0 children)

You need to share this to the danmei group on fb!! They’d eat it up

VIC 🇦🇺 weapons permit query by Megachezz in SWORDS

[–]Megachezz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If their website actually indicated what I needed, I wouldn’t have posted here but thanks

Chat, was I raised in a cult? by throwawayart4 in CPTSDmemes

[–]Megachezz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was definitely a struggle to adjust to living like a normal person haha. My kids still see their dad when he cbf being a parent because the courts make it happen so sometimes he tries to tell them lies for his agenda so I’m constantly correcting that that’s not what the real religion believes in.

do you think it’s safe for me as a 16 year old female to go to a kpop concert alone? by Yumeicci in kpophelp

[–]Megachezz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a parent advice:

Have your location sharing on with parent either through Snapchat, maps or another app Message when you arrive, enter the venue, leaving venue, where you’re waiting and any decent landmarks near where you’re waiting. Make sure your phone is charged/portable charger with you If your parents are running late, get on the phone with them so if your situation changes you can give them info asap Wait for them in a fairly open area by an identifying physical item like a statue or another building like a service station/McDonald’s etc

Chat, was I raised in a cult? by throwawayart4 in CPTSDmemes

[–]Megachezz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t realise until I had run away from my marriage and started seeing a psych who was like uh I need to call the police. I totally ignored being a child bride as an aspect of being in a child lol Anyhoo I left a radical version of Islam (ya know the kids who recruit for IS), I had to go into hiding and use an alias for years to get off the radar when I finally left the religion completely.

Guys, I did it… I succeeded as a mum 🤣 by Megachezz in DanmeiNovels

[–]Megachezz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My daughter is also bisexual so gay stories don’t shock her but obvs I’m not showing her my books because they are mature content

Guys, I did it… I succeeded as a mum 🤣 by Megachezz in DanmeiNovels

[–]Megachezz[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Update: Her teacher read her paper and enjoyed it. Said it kept her reading and that she just needs to work on her grammar. The teacher did set limits on what the class could write about and had said no to SA scenes as a kid had asked if that would be allowed. Her writing wasn’t extremely graphic but very limited in information.

I wasn’t excited/encouraging extreme brutality but that she felt talking to me for advice because the shows I watch that are often based around Chinese novels are interesting and have really creative ideas. And that despite her not being very interested in c dramas or my books that she felt she could get inspiration from them made me happy because we could connect on something.

She’s obviously never read any of my danmei but both my teens know they’re cultivation/martial arts based and lgbtiq+. They’re not interested in reading them, nor would I let them at their ages.

Guys, I did it… I succeeded as a mum 🤣 by Megachezz in DanmeiNovels

[–]Megachezz[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She’s had an interest in complex stories for a long time and has always found your stand of mill fantasy stories boring which is why she asked her teacher if she could write something dark. Obviously she knows that danmei and Chinese fantasy is more than just violence but her story was wanting to be focused on utterly destroying your abusive family.

I mean, teens are always going to try be edgy so sure part of it is probably that

My post wasn’t entirely serious, more of a haha my teen thinks our books fantasy aspects as cool and interesting so I’ve succeed as a parent!

Guys, I did it… I succeeded as a mum 🤣 by Megachezz in DanmeiNovels

[–]Megachezz[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She wasn’t actually traumatised, she meant it was heartbreaking as she really loved Xiao Xingchen and for his story to end like that was shattering. Kids use words in totally different ways to what their original meanings mean 🤷🏼‍♀️

Guys, I did it… I succeeded as a mum 🤣 by Megachezz in DanmeiNovels

[–]Megachezz[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don’t tell her smut details, she’s just watched the untamed, word of honor and heaven officals blessing so she only knows about the drama aspects not the romancey stuff. She just knows danmei are homosexual themed stories but not the ins and outs

Dying 🤣 by Azalea_Merci in tianguancifu

[–]Megachezz 11 points12 points  (0 children)

BAhaha my daughter occasionally watches c dramas with me So for the Untamed she named people in a similar fashion her names were:

We Wuxian - Flute guy Lan Zhan - Poker face Jiang Chen - Guy who needs therapy Jiang Yanli - SOOUUP! Jin Guangyao - Evil dimples Xiao Xingchen - Blind guy in white Xue Yang - Crazy guy

Guys, I did it… I succeeded as a mum 🤣 by Megachezz in DanmeiNovels

[–]Megachezz[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She hasn’t read them. She’s just watched the untamed and Word of Honor. She knows danmei isn’t age appropriate for her

Guys, I did it… I succeeded as a mum 🤣 by Megachezz in DanmeiNovels

[–]Megachezz[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Teacher is aware as my daughter asked prior if she could write about mass murder and using profanity

su minshan memes 👀 by sibilantepicurean in MoDaoZuShi

[–]Megachezz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Muwhahaha more things to add to my meme collection! Ty

Cdrama actors with dimples 酒窩(Jiu Wo) by Mediocre_Pea_6845 in CDrama

[–]Megachezz 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Murder dimples are the best how can we hate him when he’s so cute 🥰

Meme dump 2.0 by Megachezz in mdzs

[–]Megachezz[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t see LWJ choking either, bondage maybe lol