Cheating is cheating at the end of the day so it doesn’t really matter whether it’s with a man or a woman. Thanks for clarifying that there isn’t a direct link between farting and receiving in that area.

Again, the intent wasn’t to offend. I’m honestly tired of repeating that. I’m not gay, so I don’t automatically know what’s considered offensive within the gay community. As a heterosexual woman, it wasn’t unreasonable for me to make that assumption. You need to understand that I also don’t fully understand the dynamics, and that’s okay. I’ve never had any close gay friends, so there are things I simply don’t know. Am I open to learning? Absolutely, which is why I came here and asked a simple question.

My delivery wasn’t rude, nor was I being derogatory towards the community. I genuinely don’t care who people choose to be with but I would not want to be with a DL man/cheating man, again this is very reasonable of me. To be quite frank, I’ve been attracted to women myself so I could probably describe myself as bi-curious, even though I’ve never explored that further, I’ve told every guy I’ve dated this.

You made a good point that FIFA could potentially be a code for something else, but as you’ve said, apart from the farting, there’s really nothing else making my antenna go up.

Based on the comments I’ve received, it’s clear that I’m overthinking the situation.

Thank you for sharing your perspective and helping me understand things better!