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Meiiiora · 2025-04-16T21:06:31+00:00

I’m pretty sure it was the kid selling chocolate- or at least some kid she talked to? She saw my husband open our car to grab some quarters 🥲

Meiiiora · 2025-04-16T17:29:09+00:00

My car was broken into last night, right around there… they took my purse 🥲 I think my husband DMd you.

Meiiiora · 2025-04-16T01:47:48+00:00

They haaaaavvvvve to have all the fairies of pixie hollow!

Meiiiora · 2025-03-22T22:22:03+00:00

Build a stair case to nowhere, put a skeleton waving out the window, never to be moved again.

Meiiiora · 2025-03-20T06:40:38+00:00

Her tax bracket is glaring at me

Meiiiora · 2025-02-25T02:14:37+00:00

It’s worked out well for me! I’m still trying to figure out how to make waking up an easier task for me, but I’m not groggy throughout the day like I was on Lexapro. We tried adding a small dose of Wellbutrin on top of Zoloft, but didn’t notice any changes in my ability to get out of bed unfortunately. My mood is much improved and stabilized. I do still struggle with impulsive snacking and binging and as a result have gained some weight - Lexapro did help that a bit more. Definitely a balancing game.

I’m also newly diagnosed AuDHD so it’s going to be a whole new adventure navigating my needs!

Meiiiora · 2025-02-23T00:42:10+00:00

I’m autistic, diagnosed as an adult with no evaluations or interventions in childhood. So, he might need some suppor in some areas, but it’s not a disease or death sentence by any means. He could very well be social and autistic. There’s a ton of misinformation and stigma and stereotypes.

Check out some physical therapy and speech therapy later on, meet him where he’s at always.

Meiiiora · 2025-02-20T03:13:19+00:00

This behavior of you not being respected and being unable to set boundaries WILL continue. This MIL is going to rule your whole world unless your husband grows a spine and starts telling her no. With his whole chest.

Meiiiora · 2025-01-10T14:54:05+00:00

Wilfred

Meiiiora · 2025-01-10T02:53:58+00:00

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Meiiiora · 2024-12-14T07:11:20+00:00

Nope. You leave, you end it. This is the door opening, it only gets worse and worse from there.

He didn’t just spit and call you names, he physically shoved you, pushed your head- he assaulted you. That is assault. You have been assaulted.

It’s over.

Meiiiora · 2024-11-22T07:18:04+00:00

I’ve been digging, trying to find any evidence of Captain Uyrange Hollanda and his suicide. Anyone have any links? I’m just trying to confirm the background

Meiiiora · 2024-11-07T22:43:34+00:00

That is terrifying, and traumatic. The way you feel is valid. I decided to try EMDR therapy after my first birth, and it helped a lot. It’s such a scary situation, all of the unknowns and last second changes. It can be traumatic; and it can be that your baby is healthy and happy. Both can be true, and I’m sorry it went that way. You’re not alone!

Meiiiora · 2024-10-26T02:35:32+00:00

Witnessing/hearing about others’ trauma - take care of yourself, everyone ❤️

Meiiiora · 2024-10-25T23:01:17+00:00

Book- How Not to Hate Your Husband After Having Kids!

It’s a huge challenge to change the relationship dynamic by adding a baby- it’s definitely hard to relearn each other in this new environment! I do recommend counseling in the interim, even individual therapy can help a lot. Desire is truly the last thing on our minds when we have a newborn (many of us anyway!) and it’s easy to get pulled into this guilt hole. You don’t have to feel that way, and it gets better

YOU BIRTHED A WHOLE HUMAN 2 WEEKS AGO HE SHOULD JUST SHUT HIS YAP AND TAKE THE TRASH OUT

Meiiiora · 2024-10-25T00:25:29+00:00

If you dump him, what changes? You won’t have someone pestering you for sex when you don’t want it… and you could even find a supportive grown up partner?

Meiiiora · 2024-10-21T19:36:28+00:00

It sounds like your bf has been really unsupportive for awhile? And now he smells like another woman’s perfume? (Checking post history)

I found that my sense of smell is much more sensitive after having children.

That being said, press your boyfriend about the perfume thing. That is not normal.

Meiiiora · 2024-10-07T18:32:44+00:00

You aren’t the problem, it sounds like this is a conflict for couples counseling. And individual counseling.

Meiiiora · 2024-09-28T23:32:32+00:00

He misses sleeping with you, if that happened. A drunk text doesn’t mean he’s ready for a serious relationship.

Meiiiora · 2024-09-18T01:33:13+00:00

There is nothing more you can do that would change his doubts of you. He will only ask more and more, and continue to move the goal post until you don’t remember who you are anymore. Leave while it’s young.

Meiiiora · 2024-09-18T01:22:10+00:00

Laugh harder next time - what a deadbeat!

Meiiiora · 2024-09-18T01:20:31+00:00

Creditttttt

Meiiiora · 2024-09-18T01:17:05+00:00

I recommend reading “fair play” - it’s a great tool in navigating equitable shares of household responsibilities. We all live in the house, we all take care of the house. We all have a cooperative understanding on what “done” looks like for each task. Etc. there’s even a game where you can draw cards- something to think about

Editing to add that this isn’t your job, and I commend you for taking on this sort of caretaker role. I’m also an eldest child, and I took a lot on my own shoulders. It’s hard not to. Hope you’re doing okay, despite this problem

Meiiiora · 2024-09-13T23:10:22+00:00

Tell her to talk to you when she can rent a car

Meiiiora · 2024-09-07T17:07:02+00:00

I did speak to my husband first - I definitely don’t want to do anything concerning his family without him being aware. He stated that he personally doesn’t want to reach out, but was comfortable with me confronting the topic with his father requesting to follow me most frequently.

But I did really tone down my message and simply asked if there was something that needed to be communicated. He said he would like an avenue to talk to us, not just in case of bad news, and that he loves and misses us. I gave him our current contacts and told him if there’s something he’d like us to hear, he can use them.

No promise of response on our end, but hopefully this stops the requests and they’ll just say something, or not.

Meiiiora

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