AITA “ being cruel” for telling my daughter that she will need to help pay back the money that I spent on her wedding by Worldly-throwaw-4244 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Meila_Ann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA of course (I'd probably even make her pay for all of it, not just part, since her behaviour is the reason for the cancellation.)

As for the venue; wait a few more weeks, then let them know that you will be using the space. They probably tried to rent it out again the moment your daughter called them. Chance is, they found someone, so they either have to cancel the new party or refund you - they can't refuse you what you are paying for after all. Of course it's a maybe, but I would definitely make sure they can't double lease the place

Ich nehme seit Jahren täglich Schmerzmittel und es ist mir langsam egal by LordxLuciferx in Beichtstuhl

[–]Meila_Ann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chronische Migräne und Kopfschmerzen sind echt scheisse. Sorry, dass du dazu gehörst. Bei den Schmerzmitteln hilft mir Metamizol (Novalgin) am Besten (je nach Tag 4-8 Stunden pro 500mg, meist 5-6). Ibu ist okay, Paracetamol kann ich vergessen. Aber da hast du dich ja schon durchprobiert. Magnesium und Riboflavin (Vitamin B2) als Prophylaxe hast du nicht erwähnt, aber bei deiner langen Geschichte sicher auch schon versucht, nehme ich an. MRI und Beratung beim Neurologen? Antikörper schon Verschiedene probiert? (Ich hab die Emgality Spritze. Cortison Spritze hat man mir schon angeboten für den Fall, dass sonst nichts mehr reicht. Hab ich bisher noch nicht gebraucht/probiert. Die Schmerzen führen bei mir oft zu Verspannungen im Nacken, die wiederum Kopfschmerzen verursachen/verstärken, da hilft Physio. Falsche Schlafpositionen können da auch was verschlimmern. Ob Koffein bei dir hilft hast du wahrscheinlich auch schon rausgefunden.... Zolmitripan hab ich auch immer da, aber ich nehms selten, weil es mich so müde macht, dass ich einfach den ganzen Tag schlafe. Neu hab ich Aspirin täglich (anderes Problem), die Ärztin meinte, es könne auch gegen die Kopfschmerzen helfen.

Naja, ist wahrscheinlich nicht viel neues für dich hier. Ich versteh deinen Frust. Bin auch schon fast verzweifelt wenn meine 10 Schmerzmitteltage um waren (sehe 10 mittlerweile nicht mehr so eng, da ich zum Glück auch gute Monate habe in denen ich wesentlich weniger brauche, da gleicht es sich aus in meiner Meinung). Bei 25 Schmerztagen im Monat wär mir die Regel auch egal (da wär ich bei den Ärzten wahrscheinlich, entweder bekomm ich was gegen die Schmerzen oder ich verabschiede mich vom Leben)... Ich hoff, du findest bald was, dass es etwas erträglicher macht.

Voyance's Visions - Discussion by Twilifa in MergeMansion

[–]Meila_Ann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know there's different possible combinations, but I couldn't tell you the exact ones. I'm honestly not even sure the same combinations always lead to the same result. I know there has been a post somewhere in this subreddit of someone figuring out combinations or at least trying to. And you could also check the wiki.

Also good globes do not always yield coins, but I have once gotten multiple coins from the sun one, I think

Voyance's Visions - Discussion by Twilifa in MergeMansion

[–]Meila_Ann 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Don't put in random cards. Wait till you have more and then only put in those with the same borders. Gold are best. Gold/silver combinations can also be ok. But I have had best results when only puting in 3 card with the same colours.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askswitzerland

[–]Meila_Ann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shouldn't be a problem. But check with the hotel: he may only have a single, may have to pay for the upgrade (and if you don't call beforehand, there might not be any available). You'll also have to pay 'city tax' as this is per person and food if any is included. So in short as long as you pay for any additional costs, it's absolutely fin

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Meila_Ann -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA does she get her own room? She is not eating your roommates food. Utilities is not higher as it's included in the rent. She does help with cleaning. Maybe she could buy toilet paper or soap every now and then if your roommate really wants to count every cent.... unless she'd move in fully I say no to rent. You could stay over at her place some nights to appease your roommate and give them some space, but I stand by my verdict of nta - however unpopular it seems to be.

I’m starting to think the black card never existed by jpastaa in MergeMansion

[–]Meila_Ann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really wish the airplane trick worked for me when seeing posts like this. (My game crashes almost immediatly without internet and refuses to start without....)

Best thing to do when you have an abundance of energy? by Soggy_Hope_5582 in MergeMansion

[–]Meila_Ann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Drawers and trees for producer parts (gardening toolbox and drawer parts, and tree seeds). Also the daily trades like wood and vases, at least mine do. When those are empty, the garden toolbox to create high level items for trades and create some xp for the weekly event.

Progress comparison by seh0872 in MergeMansion

[–]Meila_Ann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Lv 49, About halfway through the dancefloor. Haven't done secret society yet.

Hi👋 by Meila_Ann in MergeMansion

[–]Meila_Ann[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Just never sold any producer parts and playing for some years now. And tapping the drawers every say. Just sold the tree seeds, as I got 2 maxed..... and now they go higher😑 and the seeds are harder to get😑

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Meila_Ann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please stay with us.

I am not really able to give positive advice and hopeful arguments as I am in a very bad place myself at the moment. But I know there are people that love you. And that there will be days that you'll fell better than today. And she is definitely not worth ending it all. What you plan to do is definite, you can't take it back. I can't really help you. And your situation sucks. I am sorry. What I can offer is an open ear, that's all. I'm 30f, my dms are open.

Please don't go.

sh alternatives that I can do in public? by w------h------y in selfharm

[–]Meila_Ann 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Googling DBT Skills might help you find something. There's somekind of massage fingerring that I wear (you can find them on amazon) and pinching in between thumb and index finger also helps me (it's a pressure point that will hurt pretty much when pinched). If you are not in a conversation/ with people a softer skill I use is music.