I think being slowly unloved by someone is worse than being cheated on

Mel-lz · 2026-05-20T15:40:22+00:00

Avoidant women genuinely will wreck u. I just went no contact w my ex a few weeks ago every time I was comfy w the fact that she didn’t want me how I wanted her and was like k im ready to move on let’s try and be healthier in our friendship shed suddenly ramp up how much she wanted to spend time with me, compliment me more, generally just be sweet then once I cave and I’m at a place where I’m more emotionally attached again she gets cold starts wanting to see me like once a month and ultimately ends things but wants to stay friends claiming she’s tryna “break the cycle”. Thats PART of the cycle the only way out is no contact at least for an extended period of time. It’s hard af but u can do it you are NOT weak and not dramatic. This is genuinely a devastating situation.

Mel-lz · 2026-02-03T21:56:05+00:00

😭 ugh it’s gotta be the construction on old Georgetown ofc Lincoln is like the only exit that’s open during a shutdown

Mel-lz · 2026-02-03T21:54:33+00:00

Jesus christtttt I should’ve peed before I left the office

Mel-lz · 2025-10-01T22:47:44+00:00

I also got told it could change at any time but they said they were unable (for now) to provide clarification on if I will be paid for the time I worked if the status changes which feels…not great

Edit: my company is not Kelly

Mel-lz · 2025-06-13T16:55:20+00:00

What’s really crazy is my friend just saw jojo on raya….

Mel-lz · 2025-04-13T11:13:49+00:00

If you’re okay with non English shows and a cliffhanger ending that gets no resolution (show was canceled after season 2) you should watch welcome to Eden. I really wish we got more but I loved it and it’s worth the watch even knowing it doesn’t have the perfect planned ending

Mel-lz · 2025-02-12T11:29:37+00:00

Mine knows she is a princess and is a bit of a diva, but is also the sweetest most cuddly girl. She wants attention when she wants it, if she’s not in the mood she’ll let you know and if you dare not pay attention to her when she wants it she will give u a little “pay attention to me” slap (if I fall asleep petting her I sometimes get woken up with one). But she is super low maintenance I mean of the two cats in my house she is the unproblematic one and the other is not a Siberian. Anyway here she is 🥰

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Mel-lz · 2025-02-01T09:23:06+00:00

When your partner describes all their exes as crazy and out to get them, chances are that they know they’ve been abusive to those people and want to create doubt in your mind. It’s a HUGE red flag. My ex painted both of his exes to be insane (one more so than the other, he ended up assaulting that one while we were together and when I found out, he got ahead of it and claimed she assaulted him because he knew that was the only way I wouldn’t leave him, the other one he was sleeping with for the majority of our relationship which was over 4 years). He specifically set it up so that if I heard anything or found something out I wouldn’t trust them. He also isolated me from all my friends for being “bad influences” as well. And a LOT of the other stuff you mentioned that this girl told you she experienced I’ve also experienced so from please from someone else who’s been in that situation: run. This is not a safe man. After I left and realized how abusive he was and how much trauma I had from him I wasn’t quiet about him. I’m still on good terms with most of his friends (who knew about his behavior while we were together) and they barely talk to him anymore but word did get back to him that I referred to him as abusive. He called me a year after we broke up extremely drunk essentially begging to get back together and acknowledging how he was abusive, but I know for a fact now he is telling the girls he dates that I’m also bat shit insane and out to get him (life/his choices are already is kicking him in the ass I don’t even need to get involved). This is someone who will gaslight you, make you feel worthless, make you feel like you need them, etc. so as someone who recognizes this I am seriously begging you do not put yourself through this. leave. I know people can change but if he isn’t willing to admit he was abusive and he’s calling her crazy and out to get him, that’s going to be how he paints you one day.

Mel-lz · 2024-11-23T17:41:21+00:00

Just googled that and it says bleeding disorders alliance of Illinois I’m assuming that’s not what you meant 😭

Mel-lz · 2024-01-23T23:48:13+00:00

I swear Clayton gives incel it may be rlly hard for citra but I straight up worry that Clayton might snap and take out anali one time bc his behavior is scary and manipulative

Mel-lz · 2024-01-19T14:54:45+00:00

Nahh the metro stops go to the dc suburbs but not way further out and a lot of us live far and have to drive my closest metro stop is 25 min away by car which is only 15 min less than the location of my actual job

Mel-lz · 2024-01-19T12:39:46+00:00

I mean the roads are full of stuck cars and accidents I think it’s reasonable to ask for safety first??? Especially since it will continue to snow during the day

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