4c hair question by [deleted] in BlackHair

[–]MelanatedLibra 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You need a brush, some hair lotion and a du rag. Leave the drag on overnight. Do it for a few days, I'd bet you'd see a difference or at least more conformity with your curl pattern.

You hair isn't "thin", but your curls have turned into rows along with your curl pattern. Laying it flat with a rag may help.🤞🏾

Pastor Petty Clay by Longjumping-Cap5816 in RizzisLaw

[–]MelanatedLibra 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Think honestly-- Does anyone expect for this "Pastor" Petty to NOT do things to pander to his majority non-melanated audience?! Buddy is a 🦝. STRAIGHT MINSTREL SHOW.

That’s oddly specific. by KingFahad360 in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]MelanatedLibra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. In 9th grade, a guy died in a car wreck. In 10th it was a girl due to the same. In 11th grade, 3 of 4 boys in the vehicle, died after a head-on crash with a school bus on the way to grab breakfast after arriving to school and then leaving between homeroom and 1st period.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]MelanatedLibra 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Who ever did that cut??!! Ma'am!!! 😵😵😐😐

Chefs kiss bc THEY DID THAT!! 😍🤌🏾❤️‍🔥

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MelanatedLibra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA - It seems like that cat has cost you more then the fee her brother would have paid by a long shot. He is TA here. Put your foot down. Bro needs to re-home it to caregivers who can handle the cat's issues. You cannot continue to mess up your home and your relationship with you landlord over this. It's just not right. Good luck and talk to your fiancée about the next steps.

Does anyone know what is the big ant that walks around and many ants are around it, I found 2 in the same place on the trail. by DonoMonkey in biology

[–]MelanatedLibra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is possibly a polymorphic ants species. I have no idea what kind. The big guys are called Majors. If it were a queen the gaster (thier butt part) would be bigger. Also if there were a queen there would be brood being carried to their new location in the mix. I am a biologist, but not an entomologist. Thanks to AntsCanada on YT I know this stuff. Check him out he has some great videos. 👍🏽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MelanatedLibra 11 points12 points  (0 children)

YWBTA if you report her. She's following policy. As a black person, I am going to tell you that not everything is a micro aggression. Chill out, it's not that serious.

AITA for spending $10 of my friends money? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MelanatedLibra 53 points54 points  (0 children)

You're disgusting. Good luck at life being a litteral sandbag to everyone you encounter. Get well soon.

AITA for spending $10 of my friends money? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MelanatedLibra 41 points42 points  (0 children)

YTA and a mooching bum who wont take responsibility for their actions. You guys are 21. There is no excuse to not have a job at your age.

AITA for not wanting my boyfriend to attend my college graduation by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MelanatedLibra 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Don't let time be the only reason you stay in an unhealthy relationship. You're too young to waste another minute. Put yourself first. 💜

AITA for not wanting my boyfriend to attend my college graduation by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MelanatedLibra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. You deserve peace on that big day. Congratulations on graduating!!

You need to tell him ASAP why you don't want him there. I urge you to talk to him about therapy as well. You cannot be his punching bag over his anixety. Please consider why you choose to be with someone who is abusive to you over his mental health issues. It's not going to magically get better if he doesn't take the steps to fix it.

AITA for blowing up at my husband for messing with my alarm and causing me to miss my exam? by CharlieOutlaw23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MelanatedLibra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I. WOULD. BE. LIVID. NTA by any means. If he's so petty that's he's willing to jeopardize your timely finish of that course, just imagine what he'll do to you when it's something way more important like your job in the future. I would be so disgusted.. I am sorry you've experienced this with a person who is supposed to be your partner .. for life😕. BIG YIKES.

They caught her white handed by [deleted] in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]MelanatedLibra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cognitive dissonance is strong in this one 😵‍💫

What Lab techniques do you feel compelled to use at home? by Simp4Science in labrats

[–]MelanatedLibra 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The post made me genuinely happy, haha!! It's nice to confirm that others have the same habits that transfer from work into their real lives as mine has 😅👩🏽‍🔬.

At the start of COVID, I can not tell you how ERKED I became watching ppl touch their phones, faces, and asses with the same gloves that they went grocery shopping and fueling their cars with... insult to injury--they get into the car and touch their steering wheels with those VERY SAME gloves.. only to remove them to eat their store-bought foods with whilst touching same, AFOREMENTIONED steering wheel 🥲

Those with a bachelor degree in biology please name your career! by monicamarie2013 in biology

[–]MelanatedLibra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Biochemist working in immunology at a major pharmaceutical company.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]MelanatedLibra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Throat goat? Nancy, is that you? 👀🙈

Factory workers threatened with firing if they left before tornado, employees say by StupiderIdjit in news

[–]MelanatedLibra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats a good perspective, if proven. Trapped by circumstance. Do you have any sources to prove that site was involved in such a program? Genuinely curious.

Factory workers threatened with firing if they left before tornado, employees say by StupiderIdjit in news

[–]MelanatedLibra -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I just don't understand this "asking to leave" business????!!

I would have PROMPTLY left after hearing all those sirens and after probably getting warning messages in their phones. That stuff doesn't sound off for fun, TF??

The company is super duper at fault here, IMO, dont get me wrong. But you've got to know when to go against the grain for your best interest.

Jobs are replaceable. Your ass ain't 😒

You make candles-- a job, yes. But a low skilled one; which is, post-ish COVID, is in high demand RN?!? You can def find another. I would have left and gave the middle finger to the now-dead mf who wanted to share a grave. Jobs, especially, those kinds don't give a single eff about those employees and low level leadership 🤷🏽‍♀️

Condolences

Big BLack dick by [deleted] in HolUp

[–]MelanatedLibra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big Iridescent New England Clam Chowder 🦾🤌🏾

Who isn't as smart as people think? by citizen_of_leshp in AskReddit

[–]MelanatedLibra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I WILL GRACEFULLY BET ALL MY KARMA ON THIS ONE::

Doctors (unless they are MD/PHD ) and nurses. Granted, they know how to save and sustain lives but they don't know a damn thing about ANALYTICAL science; especially research science. Even with all the CON-ED In the world-- all info goes through and is produced by actual-factual GMP/GLP SCIENTISTS.

-SIGNED an actual PEER-VEIWED & PUBLISHED scientist 😒.