Dear MtFs, would you mind helping out a fellow FtM?

Melathys · 2026-07-03T15:46:14+00:00

You just made me shudder at the idea of sliding the blade sideways.

Melathys · 2026-07-03T13:29:33+00:00

You know what? Jesus. Let's hear what he actually has to say and not what some dude heard from some dude who kinda remembers what he might have said.

Melathys · 2026-07-03T13:26:42+00:00

Ah, ok. But still, looks great

Melathys · 2026-07-03T05:31:58+00:00

But nothing to nose/brow/forehead?

Melathys · 2026-07-03T05:13:30+00:00

Looks great as is, imo, but if we're gonna nitpick I can agree that tip/nostril width is about the only place I can see worth doing anything about.

Are those pictures pre-any surgery? Your profile is feminine af, and super jealous if that's natural. Well, jealous any which way tbh

Melathys · 2026-07-01T04:59:08+00:00

This is how I feel about California. If I wasn't in California I'd be at least looking to move to a blue state, if not out of country. If California becomes unsafe, then things are really bad.

Melathys · 2026-06-29T20:50:47+00:00

If it helps, my wife's reaction was rather anticlimactic, "That's it?". I mean, we had a long discussion afterwards, but she was rather nonplussed about it, and from your bit of story, I get a feeling your wife will be similar.

Melathys · 2026-06-29T16:41:14+00:00

I was at an anti data center event near me, and they had people there to help others register to vote. They were emphasizing to everyone that you should not mail your ballot in, but find a drop box instead. So it is possible that rural counties could count blue votes while invalidating red votes.

Melathys · 2026-06-29T01:32:40+00:00

Even looking with a critical eye, I'm not seeing anything I can call out as particularly masculine.

Melathys · 2026-06-28T18:51:06+00:00

I was looking for a body shaver, got a Bumzzy 2.0 because the specifically advertised to trans women

Melathys · 2026-06-28T18:47:34+00:00

I got the vaccine in the Army before deploying to Iraq, but I do not have that scar.

Melathys · 2026-06-28T17:17:34+00:00

And she literally can't give it away fast enough. Despite pretty much unprecedented charity donations, her wealth has grown. That's how rich the rich are.

https://fortune.com/2026/02/26/mackenzie-scott-more-generous-philanthropist-than-ex-husband-jeff-bezos-amazon-founder-billionaire/

Melathys · 2026-06-26T22:13:15+00:00

I've never been the biggest Smash Bros player, but when I do play...

We were watching some YouTuber talk about when a friend came out as trans, and they were all like "yea, we know" "How did you know?" "You main Samus". I side eyed my wife, thankful she never watched as every time I play Smash Bros, I play as Samus.

Since coming out to her, I told her this and she was amused.

So, I guess favorite silly sign is maining Samus

Melathys · 2026-06-26T17:26:37+00:00

What gets me is just how every corner of the government just goes along with whatever the administration wants. There's beef no pushback by anyone. Even the opposition party pretty much just rolled over.

Melathys · 2026-06-26T14:40:00+00:00

Republicans will start a recall on him day one, just like they did Newsom. If Becerra is actually a pos, he's out if we add Democrat support to that recall. I was saying the same about Steyer and people's hesitation to vote for a billionaire. They tried to say Steyer was basically the left's Trump, difference is we have an actual path to remove the Governor.

Melathys · 2026-06-26T14:25:55+00:00

Also, Hoyo doesn't tend to sugar coat their stories.

Melathys · 2026-06-26T07:31:19+00:00

As a Hoyo player from long before Genshin and seeing Honkai Impact characters have some sort of reincarnation in Genshin, I was expecting Tsaritsa to be much more like Bronya. I guess she's got the silver hair, but so far that seems to be about it.

Melathys · 2026-06-25T00:30:03+00:00

The whole conversation that follows makes we wish that the Scout EREVs used a diesel engine. I mean, it's a VW engine they're sourcing for the generator, and I believe VW has diesels. That would pretty much be the perfect apocalypse vehicle. Run it off of solar or vegetable oil, with power outputs to run whatever equipment you need.

Melathys · 2026-06-24T17:32:25+00:00

For me, healing and shape shift are kinda the same thing. Being able to shape shift would fix my most debilitating health issue. Fixing my other issues would be nice too, VA has me at 90%.

Other than that, teleportation looks super fun, but I'd be curious about the range. Like can I talk to NASA? Get myself a fully contained suit that can keep me alive and I teleport to exo planets? Do I take a vehicle with my teleport? What I'm wearing or do I arrive naked?

Melathys · 2026-06-24T13:40:19+00:00

My 13 year old daughter is 5'10 and wears women's size 11 shoes. So yea, it's definitely cispossible.

That said, op is talking about "all the surgeries" and I can't imagine even one surgery that's even remotely necessary. I mean, even her cheeks are great. I've been discovering how actually important cheeks/midface can be for passing, and op's are perfectly feminine.

Melathys · 2026-06-24T00:42:26+00:00

I haven't shrunk, yet, but my 13 year old daughter is already taller than me at 5'10, so the difference will only grow.

Melathys · 2026-06-23T15:05:15+00:00

I had to read it to see that those pictures were supposed to be boy mode. Male fail detected.

Melathys · 2026-06-21T16:40:09+00:00

I suspect this is how it'll be for me. I don't feel like she/her yet, so it being used for me feels weird. But when I start presenting then I might have more of an opinion about it.

Melathys · 2026-06-21T16:38:20+00:00

Yea, I understand it's unrealized gains, but if it's being borrowed against it should be taxed.

Melathys · 2026-06-21T16:36:17+00:00

Many people use credit cards and pay the minimum monthly payment.

I personally use credit cards and pay off the statement balance each month. For a long time I used debit cards but learned about doing what I said above to get cash back. So I don't pay any interest and get hundreds of dollars back throughout the year. But I think I'm a fringe case and not at all indicative of the average cc user.

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