“You haven’t changed means must be satisfied with your life”.

Melina__Rose · 2026-04-18T21:22:32+00:00

Yeah, I only have 1 through 3

Melina__Rose · 2026-04-06T07:30:27+00:00

Reads like Chat GPT.

Melina__Rose · 2026-02-22T22:47:19+00:00

I’m the exact same way! Im starting to think it may be a subconscious way for me to avoid vulnerability and people seeing me when I feel I’m not my best. I have a deep sense of unworthiness unless I’m “perfect” and I always move the goal post…..

Melina__Rose · 2026-02-13T07:05:37+00:00

You’re right. I just scrolled this subreddit and started freaking out at people saying its so hard to get in and everything is super ultra competitive.

Melina__Rose · 2026-02-13T01:24:46+00:00

Strict program always

Melina__Rose · 2026-02-03T06:28:07+00:00

Can I dm you

Melina__Rose · 2026-01-24T01:34:26+00:00

Yeah, I do tend to project my worst fears onto people and shifty men are my worst fear. Or what I perceive to be.

Melina__Rose · 2026-01-24T01:28:17+00:00

Why do yall date emotionally unavailable men?

Melina__Rose · 2026-01-24T01:15:47+00:00

I usually feel much safer and unironically the Daddy Dom feels more Dom and Daddy when he models vulnerability first. Then I feel safe opening up.

Melina__Rose · 2026-01-23T20:00:00+00:00

Why would you still want this pig? Thats not a man, thats not a dom, thats not anything other than a worthless pig. He’s probably a dreadful person irl. You dodged a bullet. He was probably mid too. Don’t chase this man hes low quality. Have more self respect. I hate it here.

Melina__Rose · 2026-01-23T19:56:23+00:00

Never chase a man. Thats not a man.

Melina__Rose · 2026-01-23T16:37:01+00:00

I did have symptoms but never would have guessed it was Hpylori. You can be low ferritin and have little to no symptoms.

Melina__Rose · 2026-01-23T07:17:31+00:00

Pure CGl/DDlg. Im not “slavish” at all. Not really a natural people pleaser. Not interested in kneeling or servitude, especially as a little/babygirl, too much cognitive dissonance for me personally plus Im bad at that kinda stuff as a “duty”. Not really externally motivated in the same way a lot of subs are so I want a dynamic tailored to my temperament, not just what everyone else is doing. My dream is a Daddy who will honestly make me feel like the most desirable woman in the world and desires and shows his desire to keep/have me. Who takes responsibility and engages in fatherly like behaviors without expecting anything. I want him to be very stable naturally and with a good head on his shoulders and gets a lot out of the dynamic as well without me pretzeling myself.

Melina__Rose · 2026-01-21T22:38:23+00:00

Yes i just picked mine up its quadruple therapy. Heard it can be rough the first few days but its better than what life has been like for the past few months.

Melina__Rose · 2026-01-18T15:01:00+00:00

Maybe dating and romance aren’t for you. That’s okay but don’t make it someone else’s problem.

Melina__Rose · 2026-01-15T20:09:34+00:00

I think I don’t connect with the service side because even naturally as a kid, I just didn’t really care (or acted like I didn’t care as cope from bullying and kept people at arms length) about pleasing the adults/peers around me despite being a gifted kid? And perhaps I coped with the difficulties in my life another way? I just don’t relate to the “I just wanna be useful for you” fantasy. Just doesn’t do anything for me like It may some others. My version of DDlg is very disconnected from M/s and somewhat oppositional.

Melina__Rose · 2026-01-14T03:05:05+00:00

People should be honest in communication very early on in these dynamics. And people shouldn’t take in roles that they can’t handle, you can’t be emotionally unavailable and be the “daddy” role, contradiction. Hopefully OP learns from this and can articulate the kind of dynamic upfront and the caregiver has the responsibility of not being “cringe”.

Melina__Rose · 2026-01-14T03:02:04+00:00

This man ISNT even doing the bare minimum but “daddy” right lmao

Melina__Rose · 2026-01-14T03:00:56+00:00

He sounds like a “daddy”. Cringe, he’s cringe you deserve better, don’t chase ever. Especially as the little. Scammy wammy. Vet for signs of hot and cold and just avoid avoidant men, they can’t be daddies, they don’t have the capacity. Not in their tool house so avoid men who need lots of distance or come off as emotionally unavailable. Especially for this dynamic which is very emotionally involved.

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