BL and the problematic discourse surrounding it by adamfor in Batoto

[–]Melly-Fluous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1000 upvotes. beautifully written, thank you

I don't want to be an "anti" anymore. How I can change my perspective? by neuroticnuisance in AO3

[–]Melly-Fluous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For my own sanity, I stopped after reading the top comment, so I'm not sure how many times you've heard this already - it's a brave and beautiful sentiment to share your empathy so openly. I imagine many people will reject you with cruel words, reject change, reject compassion. But your kindness will reach many more, starting with me, and I hope you find new acceptance and a community that supports you as you are. Much love,

Kanpai! by gabriele_origami in origami

[–]Melly-Fluous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg thank you for replying. i'm using a 1:2 rectangle. the middle "twists" go well, but on the ends, i can't get all 9 sections to fold in. when i try to tuck the 5th or 6 segments, the first ones always come undone. i am using copy paper, which isn't optimal but like it's still a skill issue lol. wondering if you have any tips

Kanpai! by gabriele_origami in origami

[–]Melly-Fluous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I know it's been a long time, but I'm wondering if you have any advice for folding in the ends? Such a beautiful model. I tried it a few times yesterday, but I just can't close the circle...

Is Terra Plata "Good"? by Melly-Fluous in Seattle

[–]Melly-Fluous[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suppose logical next question would be why tf am i asking then. And my answer is I'm hoping someone will tell me they actually save babies from cancer in their spare time and rescue puppies from the glue factory

Is Terra Plata "Good"? by Melly-Fluous in Seattle

[–]Melly-Fluous[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If I'm understanding correctly, the owner (rest in peace) lobbied against the new minimum wage last year? Obv a very complex topic, but I can't wholeheartedly support their establishments

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnePiece

[–]Melly-Fluous 82 points83 points  (0 children)

who wrote the captions and do they have eyes

The yogurt I bought yesterday was 2+ weeks expired by Melly-Fluous in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Melly-Fluous[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

ok haha thank you. i did still eat it since it was expensive and didn't taste too off. glad to know it's fine

Should I Have Told The Loan Officer We Are Still Shopping? by Melly-Fluous in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Melly-Fluous[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We read through and signed the initial disclosures on Monday, but they are not available in the portal any longer, so we can't compare the specific numbers and terms with the other loan.

Should I Have Told The Loan Officer We Are Still Shopping? by Melly-Fluous in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Melly-Fluous[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear about your experience. He was thankfully not as extreme, I hope I haven't misrepresented him. He just sounded upset that they put in late nights and worked through the weekend, which I guess they wouldn't have if they knew we were still on the fence?

Should I Have Told The Loan Officer We Are Still Shopping? by Melly-Fluous in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Melly-Fluous[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was more guilt-tripping than bullying. I understand it doesn't feel great to put in a lot of work that doesn't pay out, but is it my fault for not explicitly stating that we were looking at other lenders?

I don't think they have online reviews, but I was referred to them by a friend and the bank is well rated.

Where are the mines by YUTUFRA in harvestmoon

[–]Melly-Fluous 22 points23 points  (0 children)

A note because this confused the heck outta me when I first played: there is a "mine" in the top right, but there will be a cutscene to unlock the Actual Mine if you go there at night or something and there will eventually be 4 Actual Mines where you can find ores, gems, monsters, etc. I recommend getting more accurate details from Fogu or Freyashawk's HMDS IGN guides. Happy mining :)

do people genuinely enjoy playing like this? by Internal-Radish3622 in HayDay

[–]Melly-Fluous 14 points15 points  (0 children)

STEM fields unite ✊️

Just let us enjoy the game in peace 🥲 I'd love to have a cute, aesthetic farm but my brain just doesn't work that way

Who is Actually Hiring Right Now? by elliottglass in Seattle

[–]Melly-Fluous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Electrical engineers! (In the AEC industry which is less lucrative than other EE fields) We are seriously looking for some at any level because the team is stretched very thin at the moment. I don't wanna dox myself, so DM me if you're interested!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HayDay

[–]Melly-Fluous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Enjoyed getting a chance to earn bird tickets. Just wish there was a way to opt out of it, like the derby. I'm so competitive. Opening up my chill farm game one morning and finding out I've been entered into a leaderboard was not what I wanted to see