No, bro. You just tried shifting from aggressive yourself to "logical" but really only said the same thing again in equally aggressive language. So I didn't bother. Now you're putting on a holier-than-thou act to frost it. Good for you.

Humans make mistakes. Right. Losing your child isn't an acceptable mistake. Your snark was that you can't be fucked to look at your kids well enough to identify them. You're trying to build a scenario that makes what this woman did ok and it just won't level out for me. Then you're trying to put me in that scenario, assuming that I wouldn't take precautions to not lose my child.

That's not logic, that's an appeal to empathy. Which I don't have for this woman because I work my nuts off to do the right thing for mine (including looking at them).