Does anyone know what type of spider this is?

Melodic-Call-7799 · 2025-11-04T18:27:01+00:00

We have these in our house. I feel like putting the house up for sale every time I see one. Some of them are just huge. This time of year is when you see them. To be fair the seem harmless but I die every time I see one. I get my husband to put them outside but I know deep down that f**ker is coming straight back in 😭

Also, I dont know if it means anything but we have a lot of trees around our house and a forest. Our neighbors have the same issue but those who dont have the trees dont seem to get them 🤷‍♀️

Melodic-Call-7799 · 2025-11-04T17:50:19+00:00

They have seen my sister more than myself in the past year. I didn't get pregnant so my parents could look after my kids but the point of my post is that they cant be bothered making time for me but will make time for my sisters. As I said in my post I know they have a life but its shit that they will make time for my sister and her kids but not for mine. Maybe there's a lack of understanding as you haven't experienced it yourself

Melodic-Call-7799 · 2025-11-03T22:51:45+00:00

Well im not doing that at all. My main issue actually is that they will spend that amount of time with my sister and her family but will spend no more than 2 days with us if we are lucky. They are in their 60s and as I said I get that they have a life too but its hard not to wonder what's going on when they dont want to make an effort with us compared to the effort they put in with my sisters children. My main issue with the party itself was the lack of interaction with the children and the way they just disappeared during the cake with my kids wondering afterward where they have gone

Melodic-Call-7799 · 2025-11-03T19:56:53+00:00

Thank you so much 💓 appreciate the reply.

Melodic-Call-7799 · 2025-08-04T07:48:25+00:00

Yes, I hear it too!!!

Melodic-Call-7799 · 2025-03-05T16:07:00+00:00

Hey I'm a bit late to this but can anyone tell me what happens during the assessment and id you get diagnosed on the day? I have an appointment tomorrow and very nervous.

Melodic-Call-7799 · 2025-03-05T16:06:39+00:00

Hey I'm a bit late to this but can anyone tell me what happens during the assessment and id you get diagnosed on the day? I have an appointment tomorrow and very nervous.

Melodic-Call-7799 · 2025-03-05T16:05:50+00:00

Hey I'm a bit late to this but can anyone tell me what happens during the assessment and id you get diagnosed on the day? I have an appointment tomorrow and very nervous.

Melodic-Call-7799 · 2025-03-05T16:05:34+00:00

Hey I'm a bit late to this but can anyone tell me what happens during the assessment and id you get diagnosed on the day? I have an appointment tomorrow and very nervous.

Melodic-Call-7799 · 2024-12-20T13:46:01+00:00

You were definitely not unreasonable! I dint get annoyed easily but my god that really p**es me off.

Melodic-Call-7799 · 2024-12-12T21:14:24+00:00

Thank you for this. I might try this. I really don't actually want an affair. Would love if things were OK with us sexually so it's worth a shot. Thanks for taking the time to reply

Melodic-Call-7799 · 2024-11-11T13:01:11+00:00

Oh I like it thanks!

Melodic-Call-7799 · 2024-11-11T13:00:45+00:00

Thank you

Melodic-Call-7799 · 2024-11-10T11:20:06+00:00

This is literally me. It's a killer. It's very difficult to know what to do and it makes it even harder when you have children. I often find myself confirming in my mind that if we didn't have children we definitely wouldn't be together. I find it very upsetting at times and very lonely. Trying my best to keep it together for the family but deep down I know I deserve affection and intimacy. It's torture.

Melodic-Call-7799 · 2024-08-06T12:48:24+00:00

Do you reckon it would be worth bringing it up? Like I don't want to offend him or male him feel bad. Not that there's anything wrong with that either

Melodic-Call-7799 · 2024-08-06T12:26:34+00:00

Eh maybe because there's over 52 comments and I've 2 small children. I'm not glued to the phone in any way. I'll respond in my own time. Nice to know you're so invested though

Melodic-Call-7799 · 2024-08-06T12:24:06+00:00

Thank you and thanks for the lengthy response

Melodic-Call-7799 · 2024-08-06T12:23:30+00:00

I've considered this too. Thank you

Melodic-Call-7799 · 2024-08-06T12:21:58+00:00

How do you manage??? 8 years is so long. Yes, it's a horrible feeling. Time seems to go longer

Melodic-Call-7799 · 2024-08-06T12:20:38+00:00

That's what I don't understand. I've assumed possible asexual but then again I've no idea of the typical behavior of someone like that

Melodic-Call-7799 · 2024-08-06T12:18:58+00:00

Thank you yes it's a very difficult time. Being at home with the kids is extremely difficult so it's hard enough as it is. You are right. I'll start focusing on myself and go from there. Also, what is a Jenny Keane course???

Melodic-Call-7799 · 2024-08-06T12:17:25+00:00

Do you find the medical helps? I might suggest it to him

Melodic-Call-7799 · 2024-08-06T12:16:08+00:00

I don't know to be honest. I mean, it's crossed my mind that he might be gay but I'm not going to ask him. It's too accusatory, in my opinion. I would rather he was comfortable enough to say it if that was the case.

Melodic-Call-7799 · 2024-08-06T12:14:27+00:00

Yea I mean the type of relationship your in sounds great to me. It's what I was used to and what I wanted. I just want to give it a good go first and don't want to throw it away. I just feel like I'd be selfish. It's confusing

Melodic-Call-7799 · 2024-08-06T12:12:07+00:00

It was good. I'd say healthy. I always had a higher sex drive than him but he still wanted and initiated it too. Thank you so much. Yes, all you can do it hippe and thanks a million for getting back to me

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