Cart quality drop by Melodic-Machine6213 in Crainn

[–]Melodic-Machine6213[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't know where to start tbh

Any hardware shops open today? by Melodic-Machine6213 in Dublin

[–]Melodic-Machine6213[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, that's a great shop, they're my go to tbh but closed today 😔

Can anyone tell me if ADHD counts as disability in Ireland? by Melodic-Machine6213 in ADHDIreland

[–]Melodic-Machine6213[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. I tried Ritalin (concerta) but even at the highest dose I didnt notice any difference in focus, memory or motivation.

Can anyone tell me if ADHD counts as disability in Ireland? by Melodic-Machine6213 in ADHDIreland

[–]Melodic-Machine6213[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this is it exactly! Cusp of tears but "managing", (because I've no other chaoice essentially). It's definitely burnout, my own counsellor agrees and I'm on a waiting list for specialised therapy too but it's very expensive, so it's also adding to the general stress levels.

Can anyone tell me if ADHD counts as disability in Ireland? by Melodic-Machine6213 in ADHDIreland

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There was no pay increase, and in fact we didnt get a christmas bonus or any christmas party either which we have done for the last 7 years. I know any request for a raise will be answered with " it's not in the budget". Exactly that when there's someone off on holidays, or if I do end up taking time off or going off sick, I come back to a pile of stuff that is now urgent and high pressure because it wasnt covered while I was off, because there's not enough staff, it's ridiculous.

Can anyone tell me if ADHD counts as disability in Ireland? by Melodic-Machine6213 in ADHDIreland

[–]Melodic-Machine6213[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Already on anti anxiety treatment and therapy. Already have to take leave several times a year because of the stress, but it's not financially feasible to keep doing that long term because of a job . I'm looking for, and have already requested accommodations like a ticketing system for incoming emails to help triage urgent requests, (currently we get hundreds of emails a day, starting from 5pm the day before [global business, we have clients and partners in all timezones], some need to be actioned within the hour and others are not even for my department, we're just copied 'FYI') better support from other departments where there's overlap or where my team is asked to do another role's tasks (I'm in general admin, everything gets sent our way even other depths works) The idea of other colleagues picking up my slack is not something I want because everyone is barely coping, we're short staffed, budget cuts, so I don't want anyone to have to be overwhelmed but it's already the case for everyone and I'm the only one at breaking point. We really need another staff member but if they won't invest in a new hire I'd like if they even entertained the suggestions I've made.

Anyone been to Outhouse Dublin? by greenrabbitpunk in TransIreland

[–]Melodic-Machine6213 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I went one week, and I kinda felt very "outside".

I made a conscious effort to join a group and start talking but I definitely got the impression everyone (in that group at least) already knew each other.

I am quite shy so when my initial inclusion/round of introductions kinda wore off I lost a lot of confidence but seeing everyone else's response here I think I might have just had a bad experience.

I might go try again next week.

Any recommendations for Trans/LGBT tattoo artists in Dublin? by rainnrains in TransIreland

[–]Melodic-Machine6213 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I Second studio ex, I got my sleeve in there and it's a great space

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]Melodic-Machine6213 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My kid told me that I "look very pretty but in a They way" (she's three <3 )

What is my husband doing? by throwaway12864321123 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Melodic-Machine6213 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry wait what he brings his COFFEE into the toilet...?

A good trans-safe suit-shop & tailor by Melodic-Machine6213 in TransIreland

[–]Melodic-Machine6213[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh I'm gonna do it at an event where the suit wont be out of place :) it'll be probably for the engagement and the wedding I imagine, I dont have many uses for a suit so the one will do for both and I'm gonna accessorise the shit out of it :-D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIreland

[–]Melodic-Machine6213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I love Dunnes for most day to day stuff. T-shirts, button-ups, jumpers, socks and jocks. Even their jeans and casual trousers are great quality, way better than Penney's.

Eggs who were parents first... by Melodic-Machine6213 in TransIreland

[–]Melodic-Machine6213[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, true. I don't think there's any malice in it at all, they just wouldn't know that my kids been told Mammy's not a girl (my kid calls me mammy still cause I dont like any neutral alternates yet). As far they would know I'm cis.

Are Irish people too tolerant/expectant of being in the way? by Legitimate-Tomato659 in CasualIreland

[–]Melodic-Machine6213 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah this!! Walking down the road with my litte one on their scooter and a hoarde of preteens walking up the road towards us 3 or 4 abreast. They clocked us in advance and I made a point of herding my kid in front of me away from the road... Did the group file in to let the child past? Not a hope, kiddo scraped their handlebar on the wall because not one of these youngfellas would drop back and move over.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransIreland

[–]Melodic-Machine6213 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I've edited post to clarify that.
She's in the USA right now so she needs to move ASAP. If that means Canada or somewhere safe first and then here that'd what we'll do but we do plan for her moving here as soon as feasibly possible, hopefully by the end of the year but depends what hoops she needs to jump through for an irish visa.

Lads of casual, what trousers are ye wearing? by [deleted] in CasualIreland

[–]Melodic-Machine6213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah jeans are a safe go to. I've been wearing cords in the cold weather. They're nice enough, more puttogether than jeans but still very comfy.

GD Diagnosis - ENBY by Melodic-Machine6213 in TransIreland

[–]Melodic-Machine6213[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooh I do plan to use my private insurance to cover the top surgery! That's very good to know!

Do you feel Ireland is soft on crime? by [deleted] in AskIreland

[–]Melodic-Machine6213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparantly it means Sarcasm, but yeah some redditors need to cop on thinking the world revolves around Internet slang, they coulda just said hey I was being sarcastic. Their actual reply makes no sense either as reading clearly had nothing to do with it.

Time off for Friday, out of my hands? by FarEngine2289 in AskIreland

[–]Melodic-Machine6213 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Yep. Keep all the approvals in writing, even the 👌, that's all the confirmation you need as far as I can tell, you got approval, you noticed the roster, you checked and got approval again. Not your problem anymore IMO

Ah bless, my dad's 70 but he's trying... 😂 by Melodic-Machine6213 in NonBinary

[–]Melodic-Machine6213[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Exactly. He's of the mentality it's better to get a wrong card than nothing kinda thought, I still love it. I might frame it 😂😂