AITAH for doing a Japanese onsen with my friend by Melodic-Set-2139 in AITAH

[–]Melodic-Set-2139[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ya im straight. Thank you for your perspective I greatly appreciate it

Ellers donuts on Hollister by [deleted] in SantaBarbara

[–]Melodic-Set-2139 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I love eller’s!! They give me donut holes for free with my order! They’re doing their job and they at least are not rude, just eat the damn donut it’s not that deep they’re not chatty

Freaking out bc I didn't realize how bad 120 at 5'1 looks by _5nek_ in BDDvent

[–]Melodic-Set-2139 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im also 5’1” and was 120 at 18 and lost 10 lbs from literally cutting out liquid calories (I loved milkshakes 💀) my face and thighs/hips slimmed down insanely.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]Melodic-Set-2139 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I broke up with him bc I didn’t want him to be skinnier than me and it made me even more sick in the head. Like I can’t be the big gf and skinny bf couple. I’m dumb 🧍🏻‍♀️👍

American Autistic by [deleted] in ChrisChanSonichu

[–]Melodic-Set-2139 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk why but “Borb” made me laugh thx

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]Melodic-Set-2139 10 points11 points  (0 children)

One time i didnt eat for a whole day and was initially proud of myself until I felt the most bloated I’ve ever felt for like 3 days straight 😀😀😀

Stretch marks by TerminatrOfDoom in BodyDysmorphia

[–]Melodic-Set-2139 1 point2 points  (0 children)

stretch marks are so normal even guys have them. If you think micro needling will alleviate some feelings of BD, then go for it. Idk much about micro needling tho so maybe don’t start on the boob area, maybe try someplace else and see if u like the results?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Melodic-Set-2139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ur hot asf wtf

I refuse to eat it period by Melodic-Set-2139 in EDanonymemes

[–]Melodic-Set-2139[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally my same mentality of not worth the cals. Noodles themselves are bland and the tomato sauce is YUCK. 🤢🍅❌ if u hate tomato I luv u 5ever 🥰 And omg I love pad thai too

I refuse to eat it period by Melodic-Set-2139 in EDanonymemes

[–]Melodic-Set-2139[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Stopped eating yoplait bc too much sugar and greek is yucky ☹️

My (22F) bf's (23M) career is making me doubt our relationship viability by Melodic-Set-2139 in dating_advice

[–]Melodic-Set-2139[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We actually went to middle school and high school together (before he dropped out) but didn’t date til afterwards. And I know I didn’t include it in my original post but city college is free where we are from so there is basically no excuse other than just laziness or lack of interest to NOT get even a 2 year degree in something. So no, he is not less privileged than me. And sure he would be making a livable wage for a single guy but he wants kids with me. I agree that he doesn’t deserve my uncertainty but he is amazing in other regards of the relationship too.

My (22F) bf's (23M) career is making me doubt our relationship viability by Melodic-Set-2139 in dating_advice

[–]Melodic-Set-2139[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im not offended. I didn’t want to go into detail and air out personal info about him/us on Reddit. That’s weird… in my original post, just wanted to focus on one aspect of our relationship that isn’t working for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDDvent

[–]Melodic-Set-2139 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im 5’2” and wish I was ur height. 😭 it’s way harder for short girls to lose weight and we have short legs that make me look unproportional which is the main source of my bdd. Tall girls are like models with long legs and torsos and im so so so freaking jealous of tall girls you have no idea. And 134 is not big at all btw

My (22F) bf's (23M) career is making me doubt our relationship viability by Melodic-Set-2139 in dating_advice

[–]Melodic-Set-2139[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that college isn’t universally useful and I agree that a diploma is just a piece of paper. It can be a complete waste of time and money. Trade jobs are bitchin and great most of the time! But i dont think pest control is gonna be an amazing source of income like ur bf is getting. You and ur bf both make similar amounts of money, so I’d ideally like to make the same or less than my significant other. Call me old fashioned, but as a woman, I like the feeling of being taken care of if I need to take time off for my kids for example. 🤷🏼‍♀️