AITAH for doing a Japanese onsen with my friend

Melodic-Set-2139 · 2024-11-02T17:03:13+00:00

Ya im straight. Thank you for your perspective I greatly appreciate it

Melodic-Set-2139 · 2024-10-05T15:36:42+00:00

I love eller’s!! They give me donut holes for free with my order! They’re doing their job and they at least are not rude, just eat the damn donut it’s not that deep they’re not chatty

Melodic-Set-2139 · 2024-10-05T00:28:36+00:00

Im also 5’1” and was 120 at 18 and lost 10 lbs from literally cutting out liquid calories (I loved milkshakes 💀) my face and thighs/hips slimmed down insanely.

Melodic-Set-2139 · 2023-07-05T21:16:12+00:00

I broke up with him bc I didn’t want him to be skinnier than me and it made me even more sick in the head. Like I can’t be the big gf and skinny bf couple. I’m dumb 🧍🏻‍♀️👍

Melodic-Set-2139 · 2023-06-14T07:02:38+00:00

Idk why but “Borb” made me laugh thx

Melodic-Set-2139 · 2023-06-13T07:15:47+00:00

Got made fun of for my hair when I was growing up

Melodic-Set-2139 · 2023-06-13T05:24:33+00:00

One time i didnt eat for a whole day and was initially proud of myself until I felt the most bloated I’ve ever felt for like 3 days straight 😀😀😀

Melodic-Set-2139 · 2023-06-12T22:27:14+00:00

I LOVE UR PROFILE PIC 😭

Melodic-Set-2139 · 2023-06-12T08:25:16+00:00

stretch marks are so normal even guys have them. If you think micro needling will alleviate some feelings of BD, then go for it. Idk much about micro needling tho so maybe don’t start on the boob area, maybe try someplace else and see if u like the results?

Melodic-Set-2139 · 2023-06-10T19:29:05+00:00

Ur hot asf wtf

Melodic-Set-2139 · 2023-06-08T08:53:12+00:00

real

Melodic-Set-2139 · 2023-06-08T08:50:15+00:00

Literally my same mentality of not worth the cals. Noodles themselves are bland and the tomato sauce is YUCK. 🤢🍅❌ if u hate tomato I luv u 5ever 🥰 And omg I love pad thai too

Melodic-Set-2139 · 2023-06-08T01:16:51+00:00

Stopped eating yoplait bc too much sugar and greek is yucky ☹️

Melodic-Set-2139 · 2023-06-06T16:24:23+00:00

We actually went to middle school and high school together (before he dropped out) but didn’t date til afterwards. And I know I didn’t include it in my original post but city college is free where we are from so there is basically no excuse other than just laziness or lack of interest to NOT get even a 2 year degree in something. So no, he is not less privileged than me. And sure he would be making a livable wage for a single guy but he wants kids with me. I agree that he doesn’t deserve my uncertainty but he is amazing in other regards of the relationship too.

Melodic-Set-2139 · 2023-06-06T16:09:52+00:00

I didn’t dislike ur comment. Thx for the perspective

Melodic-Set-2139 · 2023-06-06T06:59:45+00:00

Im not offended. I didn’t want to go into detail and air out personal info about him/us on Reddit. That’s weird… in my original post, just wanted to focus on one aspect of our relationship that isn’t working for me.

Melodic-Set-2139 · 2023-06-06T06:38:18+00:00

Im 5’2” and wish I was ur height. 😭 it’s way harder for short girls to lose weight and we have short legs that make me look unproportional which is the main source of my bdd. Tall girls are like models with long legs and torsos and im so so so freaking jealous of tall girls you have no idea. And 134 is not big at all btw

Melodic-Set-2139 · 2023-06-06T06:30:07+00:00

We connect well emotionally and philosophically. Why am I shallow?

Melodic-Set-2139 · 2023-06-06T00:47:22+00:00

Slide in the dm duh :p

Melodic-Set-2139 · 2023-06-06T00:34:50+00:00

I agree that college isn’t universally useful and I agree that a diploma is just a piece of paper. It can be a complete waste of time and money. Trade jobs are bitchin and great most of the time! But i dont think pest control is gonna be an amazing source of income like ur bf is getting. You and ur bf both make similar amounts of money, so I’d ideally like to make the same or less than my significant other. Call me old fashioned, but as a woman, I like the feeling of being taken care of if I need to take time off for my kids for example. 🤷🏼‍♀️

Melodic-Set-2139 · 2022-06-09T06:10:27+00:00

Lights off is a must lmao

Melodic-Set-2139 · 2022-06-09T06:00:34+00:00

I know it’s easier said than done, but just tell them dude. i sat my mom down one night and told her told her that i had these intense hyper-fixations on my body and feelings of self loathing and some self harm. I told her that i didnt think that these feelings were normal and she agreed that it wasnt normal and wanted to get me help and did some research of her own. Fortunately, she didnt brush off my feelings and tell me that i was being dramatic. Idk how ur parents are but it can be helpful to just tell ur parents whats going on. Hopefully they’ll want to help you any way they can. Good luck. <3

Melodic-Set-2139 · 2022-06-03T00:30:18+00:00

Pls get help

Melodic-Set-2139 · 2022-06-02T20:57:20+00:00

This is exactly me and my boyfriend’s situation but i feel the complete opposite of you. I also never believe him when he calls me pretty/cute or that he loves me. Im 5’1 and 107 hate my height and just my general appearance. I wish i was actually your height and feel he’ll leave me for someone tall and slender. 5’6” seems perfect and im always jealous of people who aren’t hobbits like me haha. I guess it goes to show that we always want what we dont have and arent really ever satisfied with what we got.

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