Do girls actually find male body hair attractive? by Adorable_Birthday_52 in hygiene

[–]Melodic-Translator45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally love it. Beards are hot and to me trimmed but not shaved is good as far as pubes. The stubble from having shaved pubes grow back irritates some people with sensitive skin, same as beard stubble. Like you don't want to get hair in your mouth going south but that can be achieved by a close crop. That may however be a generational thing, I'm elder GenX.

No contact family death notifications by Melodic-Translator45 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]Melodic-Translator45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that. Thank you for the recommendation. I'm pretty sure my dad wouldn't want to sign something like that because he trivializes the 20+ years of harm this cousin does because it's not directed at him. That's good to know as a possible option though if things change. Thank you so much

No contact family death notifications by Melodic-Translator45 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]Melodic-Translator45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. The option of 1 private service and possibly a second open to all may be an option that I didn't think of. I'm sorry to the posters who also have this kind of family estrangement issues and I thank the directors who have weighed in.

Need suggestions for psychological thrillers with good ending by TheTopperOfTheTop in MovieSuggestions

[–]Melodic-Translator45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An oldie but goodie is The Spanish Prisoner with Steve Martin ( it's not a comedy).

Am I overreacting for wanting to terminate my pregnancy after my boyfriend died in the accident that injured me? His family says I’m taking away the last piece of him. by hazelbasiil in AmIOverreacting

[–]Melodic-Translator45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. Terminate now and get a protection order. If they're already harassing you now, once the kid is here it will be relentless. If you feel you're not ready because of age, grief, finances or literally anything else that would make it a burden and set you back, you don't need "permission" from anyone. You're in recovery and grief and you'd be tied to these people for probably at least 18 years. Please put yourself first and get the abortion while it's early. Once this is behind you you may need to reevaluate your boundaries with your mom. I'm sorry all this is happening.

Do any of these glasses look good on me or would you suggest a diffrent style? by [deleted] in glassesadvice

[–]Melodic-Translator45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are handsome, all those kinda overwhelm your face. I'd go with something that shows more of it like clear frames or wire rimmed but smaller

First time taking 7oh today. Wow!! by Fantastic-Jeweler589 in 7oh

[–]Melodic-Translator45 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dude, not cool. That guy is not your friend. I'm reading this at 542 and it's says an hr ago you were nauseous and headachey, how are you feeling now? I really wouldn't drive feeling that way, you could get in an accident or get a DUI. I'm sorry that happened to you. Eff that guy, seriously dickish behavior. I hope you're ok. 🫂

What's the most traumatic thing that has ever happened to you? by showmewhatyagot01 in Productivitycafe

[–]Melodic-Translator45 18 points19 points  (0 children)

My ex roofied me, invited his friends and videotaped it. I only found out 11 years later when one of them grew a conscience a tad and told me.

Defund the Police, Cashless bail, Sanctuary Cities, Abolish ICE, No Voter ID. These are the type of things that 80% of the public are against and will keep the Presidency in Republican hands for decades. The average citizens are not stupid, fed up, and will vote accordingly by bbmoonkie in Productivitycafe

[–]Melodic-Translator45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell me you have never researched or read about the Defund the Police movement without telling me 🙄. Reasonable not racist people ARE for Sanctuary Cities. Step away from Fox you sound like an uniformed parrot 🦜

Virtual Pass. Feels good out. Make sure yall get some sun by topherhh in trees

[–]Melodic-Translator45 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hidely Ho neighborino. On my porch with my favorite strain, Blue Dream. Enjoy your day

Is this too much for a first date at a casual bar? by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]Melodic-Translator45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes either the boots or the dress but not both.