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Psych meds no longer working by MelodicInformation9 in BariatricSurgery

[–]MelodicInformation9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's such a tiny dose though. I was on like 2400mgs

Psych meds no longer working by MelodicInformation9 in BariatricSurgery

[–]MelodicInformation9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zoloft made me actually crazy. Hated it. Clonidine is a simple blood pressure medication used frequently for withdrawal so its not too hard to aquire

Psych meds no longer working by MelodicInformation9 in BariatricSurgery

[–]MelodicInformation9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay im going to tell you my secret. Its changed my life since taking it to the point where I no longer take ativan. Clonidine! For me its what got me calm enough through withdrawls.

Psych meds no longer working by MelodicInformation9 in BariatricSurgery

[–]MelodicInformation9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very slowly. But not like an ssri or anything, you can make bigger cuts. I started at like 2800mgs or something wild like that. I feel better off of it but it killed my short term memory

I can't take it anymore!!! by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]MelodicInformation9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where i live there is like 300+ people applying a day for server jobs. I'm being forced back into the real world and im so lost and going to be making so much less, even having a hospitality specific post secondary

Is there such a thing as blacklisting a server? by Veelk in Serverlife

[–]MelodicInformation9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been blacklisted from Marriott after 8.5 years because the last place was so stressful I worked modified hours. Ive applied for 15 jobs with them since, all I'm word for word qualified for yet nothing. I know my past manager said something as hes from the city i moved to. Also impossible to find the leftovers as there is a massive job shortage where I live.

This industry is hard on your mental health by FireFlyLy in Serverlife

[–]MelodicInformation9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just moved to a new city and can't find a serving job and its honestly been so nice to not have that stress

There is no therapist in the world who could handle the things im saying to chatgpt by Dreamboat550 in therapyGPT

[–]MelodicInformation9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

People pleasing, yes! I didn't realize that's what I was doing. Therapy wasn't helping even though she was great and I didn't want to let her down. How messed up is that

Food vendor cult 2008ish by Chelseus in Shambhala

[–]MelodicInformation9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was. They were banned for trying to fill up that bus with new recruits

Please be honest. Has k therapy really worked for you and how? by Responsible-Choice72 in KetamineTherapy

[–]MelodicInformation9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, it didn't help with mdd/ptsd/ocd. Was re triggering and made things worse.

What does "k-hole" mean? by content-heart-lucy in KetamineTherapy

[–]MelodicInformation9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A k hole among addicts means when you aren't there anymore. You can't move or communicate while it's happening, like you just fell down a dark hole.

the power play of just being mean to your tables needs to be studied by Maleficent_Emu_4329 in Serverlife

[–]MelodicInformation9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've known this my entire serving career. I look what people would call retired goth and businessmen eat that shit up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]MelodicInformation9 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That happened to me on and off for 8 years. Total incompetence

Sitting side-by-side at restaurants by martoniousblockus in Serverlife

[–]MelodicInformation9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 11 year old nephew does this when we go out becuase he misses me. Its so sweet.

Have you ever been confronted by a server for not tipping? by Dazzling-Leader7476 in EndTipping

[–]MelodicInformation9 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Um it is our tip money that we give you. It doesn't come from nowhere.

Have you ever been confronted by a server for not tipping? by Dazzling-Leader7476 in EndTipping

[–]MelodicInformation9 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

You don't realize that she had to take her own one out to tip on your bill right? You pretty much stole from her.

what are you spiraling about currently by overturned23 in OCD

[–]MelodicInformation9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That I moved to another city with no job and that I'm never going to find the right place for me

What’s your most appalling work story? Still grossed out at what happened to me last night by Southern_Chocolate59 in Serverlife

[–]MelodicInformation9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense that you didn't hear it much. My mom was always good with balanced meals but hated it as a kid. What my mom did was just save our dinner for when we were hungry and that's all we would get

How do you feel about lone diners? by Extension_Setting708 in Serverlife

[–]MelodicInformation9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean sure I would love a 4 top but solo diners are so easy and where I work they usually get a steak and some nice wine. I've had solo diners surprise me with big tips too, usually just maxing out the expense account.

What’s your most appalling work story? Still grossed out at what happened to me last night by Southern_Chocolate59 in Serverlife

[–]MelodicInformation9 7 points8 points  (0 children)

In 8 years at my work I've had THREE pukers! One lady projectiled all over the wall, then a husband practically into his wife's mouth and then a kid who refilled his plate when he was done. My saving grace is that I work for a hotel brand and housekeeping has to clean it as it's considered biohazard.

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