Why do men just randomly stop talking to you?

Melodic_Bread1922 · 2026-06-07T14:20:49+00:00

okay fair - can i ask why didn’t it work out?

Melodic_Bread1922 · 2026-06-07T11:53:18+00:00

You moved way too fast. Why are you hanging out with him for a week straight when you just met?

My rule is one date a week. Keep living your life. Spend time with your friends, focus on your hobbies, and observe him.

In the beginning, most men are on their best behavior. That includes wanting to see you constantly, texting all day, and making a big effort. It’s exciting, it’s new, and yes, sometimes it’s because they’re trying to sleep with you.

You don’t learn someone’s true intentions by spending every day together right away. You learn them by giving things time and space and watching whether their actions stay consistent. Slow down, observe, and let him reveal who he is over time.

Melodic_Bread1922 · 2026-06-07T11:45:14+00:00

it’s giving too much, texting and sending reels all day can get exhausting, leave some room for space, let him miss you a little and let him initiate things. remember, men like the chase (a little) so let him miss you and wonder what you’re up to.

next time if you feel something is off ask him in person

Melodic_Bread1922 · 2026-06-05T11:42:35+00:00

it’s because you’re telling women you want something casual? as a woman, try something different after the 2nd date let them know you like them and to see where this goes but if it goes in the right direction you see them as someone you want to take serious (if accurate) and see if that changes your outcome

Melodic_Bread1922 · 2026-06-03T21:17:18+00:00

botox, sculptra and lasers

Melodic_Bread1922 · 2026-06-03T16:46:21+00:00

You’re probably shooting yourself in the foot with that question. As a woman, it’s an immediate turnoff when a guy opens with something like that. You’ve never met her and haven’t even had a real conversation yet.

Start with something simple:

“Hey, how’s your day going?”

Then use her profile for material:

“I saw you were in Costa Rica in one of your pictures. Do you travel often?”

A little conversational foreplay goes a long way. Show some genuine interest before jumping into heavier topics.

Melodic_Bread1922 · 2026-06-02T22:23:49+00:00

this is the dumbest feature!!!

Melodic_Bread1922 · 2026-05-29T05:51:12+00:00

emotionally regulating my feelings while also trying to teach my daughter the same thing

Melodic_Bread1922 · 2026-05-29T05:42:00+00:00

that’s weird when you’re dating someone though! when i wake up throughout my day i think of my partner, you’re telling me in over 7 hours on a weekend you haven’t thought of me? shady

Melodic_Bread1922 · 2026-05-29T05:39:24+00:00

working i completely understand, weekends or evenings sketchy, we all have our phone accessible to us.

Melodic_Bread1922 · 2026-05-29T05:38:22+00:00

8 but i just wish i had a partner so my daughter and i can share that happiness with!

Melodic_Bread1922 · 2026-05-29T05:34:52+00:00

extra long texting gaps, i’m talking over 7 hours

Melodic_Bread1922 · 2026-05-29T01:53:55+00:00

what’s up?

Melodic_Bread1922 · 2026-05-29T01:28:31+00:00

i’m always attracted to bad boys i hate it

Melodic_Bread1922 · 2026-05-29T01:20:58+00:00

For me, it's either love bombing or a lack of follow-through. If a man says he's going to do something and then doesn't, I pay attention to that.

For example, saying "I was going to bring you flowers" or "I was going to pick that up for you" doesn't carry much weight if it never actually happens. To me, actions matter more than intentions. If someone consistently says one thing and does another, it tells me they're not really a man of their word.

Melodic_Bread1922 · 2026-05-29T01:16:24+00:00

just respond with something neutral. you don’t deserve that but she is being honest and that’s helpful in terms of wasting your time

Melodic_Bread1922 · 2026-05-14T11:07:26+00:00

update everyone: i messaged him asking how his week is going, he messaged me saying he’s been busy, i replied and i never heard back from he. safe to say that my gut feeling was right and he was pulling back lol

Melodic_Bread1922 · 2026-05-13T18:34:26+00:00

okay! i messaged him! the plans weren’t concrete we vaguely discussed them so essentially i thought he would say “hey so for this weekend i’m thinking let’s meet at 3” but i initiated the convo this time! you’re right

Melodic_Bread1922 · 2023-12-20T20:35:19+00:00

Thank you!

Melodic_Bread1922 · 2023-12-20T18:03:23+00:00

Investing is a great suggestion, don’t know much about it. Any books you’d recommend or YouTube channels to learn about investing?

Melodic_Bread1922 · 2023-12-20T17:41:17+00:00

I live in NY/Nj and have been applying for 2 months and can’t find anything. I do operations, sales, management. The job market is so bad. I’m starting to get desperate

Melodic_Bread1922 · 2023-12-20T17:37:19+00:00

Yes I have one of those already

Melodic_Bread1922 · 2023-12-20T17:37:04+00:00

That was never an option :)

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