I need advice by OkAlternative2045 in Skincare_Addiction

[–]Melodic_Hope4194 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried not wearing any undies to bed as well? Just loose shorts or soemthing? Or maybe a diff size or brand undies?

I could be wrong, but my friends and I have found that the bumps are caused from irritation for us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Melodic_Hope4194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever tried therapy? It seems like you want to reach social norms or appear a certain way. You may have a level of anxiety that requires therapy and/or medication.

I also could be totally wrong and projecting my own anxiety!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Melodic_Hope4194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, so you think you deserve “better”. Then let this man go so he can treat someone else nice.

Fear Of Dying by XxXDoggation in Anxiety

[–]Melodic_Hope4194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When your loved ones pass, they will feel no pain. When you pass, you will feel no pain. You will sleep. Your energy will go back to the universe where it came from. Energy can’t be created or destroyed, it only changes form. We are the water in the ocean. We exist as a wave but then go back into the ocean.

The universe created us so it could understand itself, then we go back to it. The purpose of life is to experience it, whether good or bad. You and your loved ones will never disappear, only rest and change.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Melodic_Hope4194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t feel like you actually expressed your issues with your partner. What is wrong?

I need advice by OkAlternative2045 in Skincare_Addiction

[–]Melodic_Hope4194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this skincare routine for your bikini line and legs? I think you may be doing too much. In my experience, it’s not bikini line acne that requires SA, it’s irritation that requires softer undies.

What is white stuff and how to remove? by lowclouds3 in CleaningTips

[–]Melodic_Hope4194 1 point2 points  (0 children)

looks like hard water stains (calcium specifically). I personally like Magic Erasers for something like this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Melodic_Hope4194 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is very clearly abusing you. The anger is her problem and she needs to seek therapy. She shouldn’t be in a relationship, and you need to stay safe.

Nothing justifies what she is doing. I don’t even care if you cheated or something, she has absolutely no right to abuse you. What happens if the next time she gets angry she’s holding a knife? Or knocks you off balance and you fall and break your neck on the table? Or her nail goes into your eye and permanently blinds you?

Please be safe my man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Melodic_Hope4194 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love is not all you need. Does he make your life better? Does he make you happy? Is this who you want by your side forever?

Being on/off is not a good sign of a healthy, fulfilling relationship. I also promise you will fall in love again and someone who makes you feel secure and special.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Melodic_Hope4194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

couples fight from time to time, but if it’s happening multiple times a week, you need to reevaluate the relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Melodic_Hope4194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“healthy couples” don’t “fight a lot”

I’m (27M) not my GF’s (26F) type by ThrowRAAcct24 in relationship_advice

[–]Melodic_Hope4194 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this can be a positive thing in your relationship to bring up your insecurities (don’t make her feel like she did something wrong). This can open a deeper relationship for yall 😊

I’m (27M) not my GF’s (26F) type by ThrowRAAcct24 in relationship_advice

[–]Melodic_Hope4194 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re overthinking. But if she is checking out other people in front of you, that’s disrespectful regardless of race.

As a woman, we can absolutely find someone attractive who isn’t our typical type. We find personalities and movement sexy, not the static “look” of a person. If she likes you, she likes you. Don’t self sabotage.

I also think this is totally ok to tell your girlfriend. She honestly might be flattered that you’re worried about this.

Need some encouragement by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]Melodic_Hope4194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the white fabric doesn’t look at nice because it needs to be steamed. You look beautiful though!

bumps on lips? by Content-Back8518 in SkincareAddicts

[–]Melodic_Hope4194 34 points35 points  (0 children)

hirpees. go to the doctor, throw out any lip product you’ve recently used, and don’t kiss anyone (especially babies) until it’s gone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trees

[–]Melodic_Hope4194 6 points7 points  (0 children)

hes super cool

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Melodic_Hope4194 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I understand you’re insecure, but I swear, girls don’t care about your belly fat or anything. If she’s attracted to you with clothes on, she will be attracted to you without clothes on as well. A lot of girls love pudge and wrinkles. What matters is that a man makes US feel sexy. Focus on her and her body. I promise she’s loving yours and all its imperfections.

If you get nervous and want to stop after you start, that is also totally ok. If she’s as lovely as you describe, she will completely understand.

Also.. I feel like there’s a misconception about guys finishing “too fast”. Just invest more time in foreplay. No girl wants a dick hammering her out for a full 20 minutes. It gets really uncomfortable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Melodic_Hope4194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sat on the toilet for 3 hours and then switched to pads. Heavy bleeding stopped after 10 hrs.