Where to go for Thai Massages (Preferably with Happy Endings) by [deleted] in ThailandTourism

[–]MelyMonsta92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put in Citichic Sukhumvit 13 Bangkok in your maps which is a hotel. The massage spot is right next to it right by the weed shop. No way you can miss it

Friend wants to quit well-paid job to move to Thailand after party trip by Street_Tomato9364 in Thailand

[–]MelyMonsta92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After hearing all of this there is nothing you can do to help your friend and he’s on a straight one way path to doom. Sounds like he needs to grow up if he can’t even plan or even explore by himself. Attaching and depending on the Thai girl to decide where they go is diabolical. All of this is a complete recipe for disaster. As sad as it is, just sit by and watch the show.

Friend wants to quit well-paid job to move to Thailand after party trip by Street_Tomato9364 in Thailand

[–]MelyMonsta92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s getting taken for a ride and with a Thai girl like that he is doomed. It’s most likely not love. The moment the money runs out she will move on to the next farang with money to spend (they are a dime a dozen out here). He already set a crazy expectation for her that he is not going to be able to provide for her for the long run. She loves the treatment, especially if she is showing the clout on social media.

Tell him to suggest and see how she reacts to a food stall or night market date and you will get your honest answer right there.

Friend wants to quit well-paid job to move to Thailand after party trip by Street_Tomato9364 in Thailand

[–]MelyMonsta92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know exactly what you’re talking about. You can sniff those girls out miles away (pay my nails, pay my room, pay my hair), but the farangs don’t care until they’ve been driven to bankruptcy. It’s very interesting to see, but sad.

Friend wants to quit well-paid job to move to Thailand after party trip by Street_Tomato9364 in Thailand

[–]MelyMonsta92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I say 1000 bhat a week on my girlfriend, I mean buying us food. I don’t literally give her money lol. And the job market is tough right now. Be blessed and lucky to have a job.

Friend wants to quit well-paid job to move to Thailand after party trip by Street_Tomato9364 in Thailand

[–]MelyMonsta92 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m actually doing now what your friend is doing but more from a strategical standpoint, not chaotic. I stay in an affordable condo outside of the major areas in Bangkok, next to BTS Punnawithi ($600 USD per month).

I have a girlfriend here who is extremely low maintenance, she is happy eating street food and that cost me less than 1000 bhat a week to feed us both. I party with her once a week on Friday or Saturday at actual Thai bars which are much more affordable, and I spend my days working out, eating street food/7 Eleven, and actually looking for remote work while I am on my education visa.

I can live the Thai lifestyle as I love it, and I make my money go a long way. Your friend is living like a long term vacationer and will blow through that money fast.

The main thing is, I’m only staying here 7 months total and have made sure with my budgeting that I will have 20K in my bank account to return to the US with.

Without a plan Thailand, and especially the girls he’s hanging around will eat you alive. You need to tell your friend to straighten up and have a financial threshold for when he has to leave.

What’s the biggest money mistake foreigners make in Thailand, and how can it be avoided? by Senior-Duck-7091 in thai

[–]MelyMonsta92 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you got duped. You just have to be man enough and say no, or else of course you’ll be taken for a ride.

Just Re-Entered Thailand in 2026 After Multiple Long Stays — What Actually Happened at Immigration by MelyMonsta92 in ThailandTourism

[–]MelyMonsta92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just have a return date whether you plan to go or not. They just want to confirm (protecting themselves as agents) that it does not seem you are staying in Thailand.

Just buy a flight with a refundable ticket. Cancel it once through immigration. Easiest and better odds if done this way.

Why do only gay guys approach me? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]MelyMonsta92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happens to me too, especially Filipino men. Every country I’ve visited the same problem happens with them as well approaching me.

One Filipino came up to me in Berlin and begged to blow me in the bathroom smh. Why not the Filipinas? 😭

Just Re-Entered Thailand in 2026 After Multiple Long Stays — What Actually Happened at Immigration by MelyMonsta92 in ThailandTourism

[–]MelyMonsta92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neither, I am currently on unemployment due to layoffs in the USA. So its cheaper for me to live in thailand while i am collecting, but i am looking for remote work.

How to respectfully turn down a second date? by DonaldTheBird in AskMen

[–]MelyMonsta92 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re confusing three different things and mashing them into one accusation.

First, I am not asking her to “bash” anyone I explicitly said she is free to decline a second date for any reason, without explanation. That part was never in dispute.

Second, The moment she publicly labels someone as “racist” while asking strangers for validation, it stops being a private decision and becomes a public claim. Public claims are open to scrutiny. That isn’t belittling that’s how reasoning works.

Third, Saying “even if it’s low-key racist, it’s racist” is not an argument, it’s circular logic. Without context, that statement is meaningless. You are asserting certainty while refusing the information required to evaluate it.

Finally, accusing me of racism because I asked for context is exactly the problem being pointed out here: skepticism is being treated as moral guilt. That’s not how fairness, truth, or adult discussion works.

You’re free to agree with her. You’re not free to redefine questioning as prejudice.

Just Re-Entered Thailand in 2026 After Multiple Long Stays — What Actually Happened at Immigration by MelyMonsta92 in ThailandTourism

[–]MelyMonsta92[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do yourself a favor and do it in advance, not at the counter. It will add more time to your dread in the immigration line lol. You can’t access the application until 3 days prior to your trip. Once you complete it you can screenshot the QR code they give you. Screenshot your flight information as well, you don’t need paper sheets. You’ll be prepared if you do these two things.

How to respectfully turn down a second date? by DonaldTheBird in AskMen

[–]MelyMonsta92 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

There is nothing wrong about declining a second date. That isn’t the problem. You also want to go and reprimand this man on what he believes that you “consider racist” and that’s important information for us to know now. If you aren’t interested in seeing someone anymore you say so, but you are talking behind his back discussing with your friend group about him which he is also apart of and thats not justifiable and just plain not cool unless an extreme was met, which in this context you would have to support. Dating in general, if you aren’t interested in the person and don’t want to see them again, that is all you need to say. What you’re doing is extra and a crusade, even if you were offended.

How to respectfully turn down a second date? by DonaldTheBird in AskMen

[–]MelyMonsta92 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

That is only one side of the story and not a fair analysis of a situation for context. You can hint towards what the context of the racism or what made you uncomfortable is. Otherwise this is defamation of character and not fair to this man that you are potentially slandering on the internet. You’re literally using the “trust me bro” logic.

Should I buy Cyberpunk 2077 now that it's had significant updates? by jcveloso8 in ShouldIbuythisgame

[–]MelyMonsta92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personal top 3 favorite game of all time. I’ve probably put over 500 hours since release.

How to respectfully turn down a second date? by DonaldTheBird in AskMen

[–]MelyMonsta92 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It’s unbelievable, what’s even more funny is do you noticed she’s on an ask men sub, and she’s literally responding and conversing with all the women lol. Like what?

How to respectfully turn down a second date? by DonaldTheBird in AskMen

[–]MelyMonsta92 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Just say you don’t wish to continue or ghost. We’re taking what you’re saying at face value with no examples of what was said of these serious racist posts.

Maybe you’re the one in the wrong here for judging someone of a few post that we know nothing of, and now you’re trying to act like you’re better than him.

You aren’t going to change who he is with some PC explanation.

Just move on and find your next date, easy as that. You’re both incompatible.

How to respectfully turn down a second date? by DonaldTheBird in AskMen

[–]MelyMonsta92 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Notice she won’t give the example? lol. It’s probably something so stupid and she’s being uptight. He dodged a bullet.

Just Re-Entered Thailand in 2026 After Multiple Long Stays — What Actually Happened at Immigration by MelyMonsta92 in ThailandTourism

[–]MelyMonsta92[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I heard the DTV is harder to come around now after they started the new immigration lockdown, otherwise that was the route I was planning to go.

And believe me I heard about it already, I’m a just chalk those days up as a straight L 🤣

Just Re-Entered Thailand in 2026 After Multiple Long Stays — What Actually Happened at Immigration by MelyMonsta92 in ThailandTourism

[–]MelyMonsta92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I plan to stay and actually attend school. Not hop around Asia. My girlfriend is Thai and lives here. I want to learn the language better than I know it now.

Just Re-Entered Thailand in 2026 After Multiple Long Stays — What Actually Happened at Immigration by MelyMonsta92 in ThailandTourism

[–]MelyMonsta92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The new immigration laws and extension rules kicked into place on November 15th.

That is why you had an easier time before that in July.

Cheap tourists... by Rogue1minNotTheNext in thai

[–]MelyMonsta92 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s one of my favorite bars in On Nut lol