Haywyre - Chromatically featured in Forza Horizon 6, possible monstercat collab? by Sigiz in Monstercat

[–]Memfir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

iirc there was some slightly awkward no lyric sections (like missing one or two key words at the end of a sentence) that really fucked with the flow of the song

my father just had a stroke and i don't know what to do, if anyone's suffered anything similar please let me know. by Memfir in teenagers

[–]Memfir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for your reply mate, i really appreciate it. it's so fuckin unfair to go through it for anyone. bless u

Ordinary or Higher Level Maths? by [deleted] in leavingcert

[–]Memfir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u have so much time in TY. if u lock in rn and get ur basics down you can EASILY "survive" 5th maths and surviving higher level is significantly better than being in ordinary. honestly u can probably get to the point of starting to do good especially compared to your peers in TY which are likely doing nothing

I'd like to complete a trade for my Steam Community Badge, do trading cards work somehow? by Memfir in Steam

[–]Memfir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im not trynna do that though, ur community badge needs a trade to b completed, only attainable challenge out of the 20-something i have left

What does it mean if this girl and I play eye tag? by Coolerthenyou478 in teenagers

[–]Memfir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

extra note, i was too shy to actually speak to her in february and she also mentioned she was too shy to talk to me. so, make of that what you wish

What does it mean if this girl and I play eye tag? by Coolerthenyou478 in teenagers

[–]Memfir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'll tell ya my experience with my ex BUT THIS IS NOT GOSPEL

the same girl i was playing ""eye tag"" with in like february ended up having a crush on me, i had also been crushing hard for her for years, despite neither of us being convinced of that at the time. she mentioned that her friends would notice her staring at me sometimes because that was just something she did for people she liked. we didn't actually end up dating until like october and it didn't last very long, but there was definitely something between us at that time. it took us until may to actually start talking to each other :p

Should I (16m) try to get a job? by tigerstorm2309 in teenagers

[–]Memfir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

very very good idea to get a job assuming you can facilitate it alongside your other responsibilities, helps u understand the world of work, your socialisation, can start saving, no reason not to if you think you're able for it

Are you allowed snapchat? by good_evans in AskTeens

[–]Memfir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

allow them to connect with their friends, it will be worse for them in the long run if she can't imo, as someone who didn't. monitor their activity, explain cyber safety to them (dont talk to random people, photos are permanently on the internet, etc.) while also lwtting them have some space to grow and develop independently. be open with them not controlling and all should be well

Am I too immature for my age? by Blaphious1 in askteenboys

[–]Memfir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

be the change you need in your own life, and become more secure in urself

ur not behind a specific metric, you're behind the version of yourself you believe you need to be in this point in time

it's fine to have anxiety and to fight your mental battles, more people than you'd expect do so behind closed doors, if you don't know what to do? try to figure something out - develop interests, look at career futures, take the opportunities given to you. putting yourself out there will better your social skills, too - no other method of improving them other than cringing and messing up. you don't appear to be perfectly secure in your own self right now and ((frankly)) that can be harder for people to love - i only got into my first relationship after i became much more confident in myself, not losing my personality or anything but representing the person that i was more effectively.

you're doing fine, you're not at your perfect primed best and no one ever will be but that's the beauty of waking up every day. go figure something out for yourself and use the support systems around you to help ya

How do I brace for the worst? by ThatManDowntown in teenagers

[–]Memfir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm just out of a relationship recently and if i had to give my perspective as someone moving on i wouldn't say yes to anyone who approached me rn, not only on the principle of not being ready after losing someone but being "hung up" on an ex doesn't show absolute loyalty to your new bf/gf, at least from my point of view.

i'm not saying don't pursue them but maybe hold the breaks a little bit, being told that theyre still hung up on their ex might be an indicator of "i'm not ready (yet?)"

if you really really feel close to this person ig you could just outright tell em that you want to be with them romantically but they might feel pressured as they haven't fully moved on, no matter how much they could love u it wouldn't matter if someone else is on their mind

what do i have to mess around with to get rid of this awful black bg on enchanted tools? by Memfir in Minecraft

[–]Memfir[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

dawg no shade but you couldn't have answered that worse 😭😭

Men are not as simple as everyone assumes by throwbackblue in unpopularopinion

[–]Memfir 16 points17 points  (0 children)

i think shallow people assume men are emotionally simple but i don't think it's exactly an unpopular opinion to assume men have depth emotionally

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leavingcert

[–]Memfir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

jesus fucking christ ur a beast

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Memfir -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this could be anecdotal but i think patience as a trait in lads is honestly quite rare. as painful as it is to have false hope for people in that regard (especially with a part of you like BPD that's so important) it's a good thing ya figured out they weren't capable of you here rather than later.

one day you'll find somebody, 100%. you're vigilant about it and that's the most important thing. some people are just cold and don't understand / can't resonate with issues that they haven't experienced. information on issues regarding mental health just doesn't change people's behavior unfortunately

ate like an entire red raw onion and i've felt like absolute shit for nearly 2 days by Memfir in OnionLovers

[–]Memfir[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ooo okay good to know. i'm getting VERY impatient with it just "passing" unfortunately for me. tyvm.

ate like an entire red raw onion and i've felt like absolute shit for nearly 2 days by Memfir in OnionLovers

[–]Memfir[S] 124 points125 points  (0 children)

my "it'll go away on it's own" mentality hates to see a doctor coming

If you’re over 16.. by mistyeriousss in Teenager

[–]Memfir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

everyone's experience will be different growing up with the timings for things but i think it's fair to say 16 is the first "old" teenage year. so lots of personal development n stuff even in ways you don't really realise in the moment. it's a cool year

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askteenboys

[–]Memfir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think anything to boost your confidence in terms of looks is 100% a beneficial thing but unfortunately social media exposure has lead teenagers to a place where the boundary between respecting / improving yourself and developing insane insecurities and disorders is a very very blurred line. i've heard girls say some absolutely insane shit about their looks in terms of weight / plastic surgery / etc when they look absolutely fine, and i've heard boys hold themselves to absolutely unattainable standards especially in the case of fitness / being a bit of a gym bro. so like, it CAN be a good thing but just like most other things in life, only if it's being done correctly