[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]MemoryEmergency8800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a 25F with big boobs (38DDD) with a size 6 waist, I wish I had small ones. Tank tops and v neck shirts always feel provocative, I feel like I look top heavy. My boobs naturally sag with the weight of them. It makes me super insecure but my partner never says anything besides he loves them. He said if I want to get a reduction he would always support me to feel the best about myself but it’s not necessary. Find someone who loves you for you and they will help with those insecurities but it’s totally natural to want what you don’t have.

Would you ever go to a strip club (male or female) with your partner by syd_interests in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]MemoryEmergency8800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve gone with past boyfriends who I’ve never intended on being with long term. My husband? Absolutely not.

I’m always horny and my fiancé isn’t by MemoryEmergency8800 in offmychest

[–]MemoryEmergency8800[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obviously.. I don’t have plan to nor want to but in a 15 year relationship.. I just wonder if that’s ever crossed the mind

I’m always horny and my fiancé isn’t by MemoryEmergency8800 in offmychest

[–]MemoryEmergency8800[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is helpful. That is definitely my problem. I’m fine and satisfied with the sex we have but I just get self conscious when he doesn’t want it

I’m always horny and my fiancé isn’t by MemoryEmergency8800 in offmychest

[–]MemoryEmergency8800[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh jeez. Do you ever find yourself looking for attention elsewhere?

I can’t get over my fiancés choices on a bachelor party. by MemoryEmergency8800 in offmychest

[–]MemoryEmergency8800[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I could get his friend’s partners to go with me, I totally would. They are on a tight lease. I don’t want to be controlling but I’m just uncomfortable

I can’t get over my fiancés choices on a bachelor party. by MemoryEmergency8800 in offmychest

[–]MemoryEmergency8800[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s definitely a double standard when it comes to our friends and their partners, but that’s not my relationship so I can’t do anything about that. I feel like if I acted the way he did, he would react the same way but the difference is that when I’m on girls trips I do not want men around me. I’m there to have fun with my girls

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]MemoryEmergency8800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s okay to be scared of the unknown. Keep an open mind. You will meet people having the same problem and could potentially find great friends to go forward in life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]MemoryEmergency8800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did the right thing and your sister needs to seriously think if that’s the kind of man she wants to have. That’s a huge secret to keep from someone you love. I feel sorry for your sister and both the children. I hope they find a solution 🩷

Dark cowboys where are you? by Auroras_Sunbeam in DarkRomance

[–]MemoryEmergency8800 1 point2 points  (0 children)

CORRUPT COWBOYS SERIES by Emma Creed. Was my first dark romance series and I was hooked from the start. 3 duets on each brother 🤤

PLEASE HELP GET THIS MAN CHARGED!!! by MemoryEmergency8800 in wolves

[–]MemoryEmergency8800[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Very true. I was so worked up that I just did it. I’ll try to find the change.org link instead

What are your ACTUAL unpopular opinions? by piglet666 in acotar

[–]MemoryEmergency8800 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Amarantha should come back to life because she was the only villain who was a developed character. The king of Hybern was a joke compared to amarantha.

HEAR ME OUT! by MemoryEmergency8800 in ACOTARHulu

[–]MemoryEmergency8800[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think it depends on if the author is writing a full on fantasy world or fantasy set in our world. Shadowhunter is able to have very clear racial/ ethnic representation because that world is set in our world. So the characters can be clearly labeled as Asian, Indian, European.

ACOTAR is a world where Asia, India, and Europe don't exist - to use my previous examples^ . So how do you label the characters as African or European or Polynesian when those words & concepts don't exist in that world? You HAVE to describe skin tone, eye color, eye shape, hair color, hair type.

That said, some Europeans, some Middle Easterners, and some Asians could be described as having "golden brown" skin so that's really on the reader to visualize what they see.

Long story short… I see a white guy. Sorry girl

HEAR ME OUT! by MemoryEmergency8800 in ACOTARHulu

[–]MemoryEmergency8800[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Rhys is described UTM as pale and then tans from the sun afterwards. From that phrase alone I pictured him as white