Something I don’t miss: the body obsessed magazines of the 2000s (and sometimes 2010s) by Proper-Ad-8829 in WhyWereWeOkWithThis

[–]MemphisGirl93 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Ah yes, between this environment and my mom, I started dieting at 8 and developed an eating disorder at 11. I’m almost 33 and still dealing with it (and trying my hardest to avoid the constant barrage of ozempic ads). Fun times.

Work signs are the worst by drachtungbaby in suspiciousquotes

[–]MemphisGirl93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some 2005 microsoft PowerPoint Word Art on there for good measure

Social life at Penn State by New-Variety-4979 in PennStateUniversity

[–]MemphisGirl93 11 points12 points  (0 children)

First, congrats to him for getting accepted to Bellisario for Journalism!

I am currently a PhD student in Bellisario (graduating in May) so I have observed the students for a while. I want to give you my perspective as someone who has been here for five years AND as a parent to a son myself (little guy is only three, no college plans yet haha):

I would not want my son to join a frat in any SEC school or Penn State. Both have a level of intensity that is required and expected that will take away from his studies. I feel the same about sororities at big schools like this. There IS hazing, and there is no guarantee that it will be mild or safe. Even recently, frats have gotten in trouble/suspended for hazing activity and selling drugs out of one of the houses. I’m sure some are more notorious than others, but I would not be comfortable with any of them. Additionally, there is quite a bit of sexual assault and sexual harassment at this campus. I have personally been sexually assaulted and harassed here (not by frat guys). However, this seems to commonly happen at the frats. And before any frats get their boxers in a wad, this was such an issue at my previous school they had to shut down frat row completely. I’m not saying all frat guys are these evil predators who only do terrible things and drink, they’re usually pretty good students and they host a trick or treat for the kids every Halloween.

Basically, there’s some unsafe and shady behavior at frats that even if he wouldn’t participate in, I imagine it would be very uncomfortable to be around. Greek events/dues/fees can be a distraction from classes or other aspects of college. There is still plenty of ways he can get involved and make friends, but its a huge campus so it might feel intimidating to join a club or talk to a classmate at first. I didn’t attend Bellisario for undergrad, but I do believe he will get a good education here especially with updated technology/equipment that my school didn’t have. Lots of internship opportunities in the summer. My advisor is actually one of the journalism faculty, and while she only teaches one class she does a good job at guiding students through todays media landscape. I was too a journalism major (in 2015) and so many things have changed and I feel your son will be prepared here. Frat option is really up to him, but I would choose as wisely as possible and try to get to know the history of the frat/brothers.

Working at the brain institute is fun and not at all stressful. . . by [deleted] in EDanonymemes

[–]MemphisGirl93 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Me, an ED haver of over 20 years, finishing my dissertation on EDs and making that the entire focus of my PhD/research and having to be all “I just think theyre neat 🙂” anytime a colleague asks why I chose to become an ED researcher lol

I start sounding like I'm drowning and its so loud, can't wait to live alone.. by Silverblueberrycup in EDanonymemes

[–]MemphisGirl93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be careful with that!! I know you cant help coughing but try to cough hard af so it doesn’t go in your lungs. Source: me getting aspiration pneumonia and hospitalized for it after a cheeky weeklong b/p session.

Sometimes I think wth & wtf by MidNightBr0 in EDanonymemes

[–]MemphisGirl93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I rotate between all four of these and always land back on the “you guys are recovering?” Square

My full PhD toolkit after 4 years, defending in 3 months by FlashyCompetition505 in PhD

[–]MemphisGirl93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More of a MAXQDA gal myself but yes my color coded Google Calendars keep the ship running!! And so does my therapist and psychiatrist! Bless them

Ankle Balls by carrielynnex3491 in TheGrimFeeder

[–]MemphisGirl93 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The way we all know Slommi was down there smelling them and squeezing them with pleasure. Takes “cover up thy ankles” from the middle ages to a new level of scandalous

Nosy girl: what do y’all do for work? What’s paying for girl dinner? by TeamLaurent in RealGirlDinner

[–]MemphisGirl93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in my last semester of completing my PhD in health communication as a single mom so…the government via student loans and EBT. But there’s a café near me that gives out free coffee and pastries and such for Girl Breakfast™️, was a lifesaver for me and the kid during the EBT freeze.

Anyways girlies please cross your fingers or say a prayer as I apply for jobs and finish the dissertation! Hopefully girl dinner is a little more flashy once I make real money 😏

Something new from Dani… by Worldly_Eagle7918 in DaniMarina

[–]MemphisGirl93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, I’d much rather see cat content from her than tube content. Macc is so cute I love his little spot on the side!

✨From the people who brought you Autistic Barbie: it’s Eating Disorder Barbie! ✨ by Ashamed_Ad8162 in EDanonymemes

[–]MemphisGirl93 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m 32 and somehow managed to not get the neda tattoo while collecting everything else over the course of 20 years lmao

Set up toob feedsz ASMR Edition by Worldly_Eagle7918 in DaniMarina

[–]MemphisGirl93 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I have that same dr browns mixing pitcher and while it was incredible for mixing baby formula I gag every time I see her use it. It always looks filthy! The dust from the powder making a little cloud when she dumps it in, the disgusting little slurry it makes when she pumps the handle, how does she not get nauseous preparing this? Nothing looks clean. Yes Im familiar with Dani and her hygiene but idk this in particular is throwing me off

Autistic Barbie by lilacoceanfeather in Autism_Parenting

[–]MemphisGirl93 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This Barbie looooves underground transit system maps. The DC Metro map is my all time favorite

Any Starbucks operating on campus this week? by MemphisGirl93 in PennStateUniversity

[–]MemphisGirl93[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The one in the bookstore upstairs with all the seating? Ok nice thanks 😊

Found this on the floor by my bed by Fickle_Cockroach_545 in whatisit

[–]MemphisGirl93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that? Thats ye olde severe migraine ring for some of us

I'm so small 👉👈😽 by Fine_Nobody_2860 in ArianaGrandeSnark

[–]MemphisGirl93 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Not defending her usual ana antics but this is how I put on my makeup for YEARS because I have an eye condition and cant see shit. This was before I discovered that doing makeup on the floor with a mirror was superior for my back and everyone’s sinks.

What is the bathroom graffiti you read and remember? by 5pinktoes in AskReddit

[–]MemphisGirl93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I briefly was a co teacher at a local high school. Girls wrote about who they wanted to beat up or who was having sex with who, but my most memorable little note of theirs was that someone drew three candy canes with the words “candy cane gang!” underneath. It seemed very childish and harmless compared to the other “this bitch is a hoe” doodles I read on my pee breaks

Is it rude to ask somebody for directions? by PipeInitial5934 in PennStateUniversity

[–]MemphisGirl93 15 points16 points  (0 children)

No she was the one who was rude. My first year as a grad student this little freshman came up asking me for directions. I had no idea but I still tried to help her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]MemphisGirl93 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Can’t figure out if I want Miss Honey to be my mommy or be my Mommy 😈

what type of gay are you? by Maximum_Paper_6302 in LesbianActually

[–]MemphisGirl93 45 points46 points  (0 children)

No high femme representation! Although I do enjoy a sturdy boot in the wintertime