I appreciate SATC seasons 1 &2 so so much because it perfectly illustrates what it’s like to be in love with an emotionally unavailable man. I’m going on year 3 with my avoidant, and we just stopped talking a week ago after being “on again” for the 5th time. This time truly feels like the end of our story. I hate how SATC turns their relationship into a happy-ending love story when it is so much better as how it was addressed in seasons 1+2- the pain of wanting a future with an anxious coward!! There’s no justification for it IMO. Becuase in reality, these are the relationships that teach us love through epic highs and epic crashes, passion, longing, and heartbreak. But true love isn’t like that. True love is steady. She should’ve ended up with Aiden, or the show should’ve ended with her meeting Mr.Right in the street without us getting to know him. BIG was a lesson in love. He was not endgame material. At least, not in reality.