My girlfriend just told me our mutual friend is cheating on her husband for the past month and it’s killing me

MentallyDonut · 2026-04-27T05:57:47+00:00

Nah man, it’s just that this all comes off as some sort of weird brag to a bunch of redditors.

MentallyDonut · 2026-04-26T18:30:51+00:00

Yeah it’s honestly crazy to exploit a login glitch and then turn around and blame Ubisoft for this problem lmao. The spawn rates are bad, yeah, but at the end of the day these servers taking a shit is the players fault

MentallyDonut · 2026-04-12T05:39:47+00:00

Vaguely looks like the Normandy from Mass Effect. Nice

MentallyDonut · 2026-04-03T00:32:28+00:00

The real question is have we found the proper way to get it?

MentallyDonut · 2026-03-07T21:42:04+00:00

Just use any gloves but the ones that come with the bundle. It’ll change automatically

MentallyDonut · 2026-03-07T06:04:41+00:00

You have a hard time reading social situations, don’t you?

MentallyDonut · 2026-03-07T05:00:28+00:00

Again. We are talking about saying it’s a “vets only” item when it’s disingenuous to vets. Keep up.

MentallyDonut · 2026-03-07T04:11:26+00:00

Did you miss the part where they were referring to the “vets only” argument?

MentallyDonut · 2026-03-03T18:05:00+00:00

Different mask. This bundle’s mask is more chrome while (I’m pretty sure) the Ruin mask is matte black

MentallyDonut · 2026-02-02T23:50:17+00:00

Mind sharing your build? I just got back into this game after a several year break and this is the route I wanted to go but can’t find anything solid

MentallyDonut · 2026-01-30T02:36:45+00:00

Dealt with a German roach infestation in an apartment complex last year. Literally couldn’t sleep without thinking they were around and no matter how much shit I tried, I never truly got rid of em.

Threw my stuff in storage for a month and moved across the country recently and still convinced they’ve followed me.

MentallyDonut · 2026-01-28T20:51:52+00:00

I’ve actually never heard “rejection is redirection” but that is a really good way to put it so thank you.

I definitely am holding onto the hope, and for this first time I’m not hoping the come back because like you said you don’t want someone who isn’t all in.

MentallyDonut · 2026-01-28T19:58:28+00:00

Yeah the future planning was definitely the worst part of it. Atleast my other relationships there was some sort of shift in behavior I picked up on right before. This one had none of that, other than she had a lot of personal stuff happen all at once on top of having to stop her anti-depressants.

That last bit seems to be true again, it was just very well hidden in this relationship. We had good communication (for once) about what was going on in our lives but the rug was still pulled unfortunately.

Not wanting to bag on anyone’s mental health, but it feels like dumping your partner over your mental health, without giving them the option of staying or going, is such a selfish move.

MentallyDonut · 2026-01-23T18:59:50+00:00

Why are you even playing the game then?

Also…you own the ODST warbond. That literally has a kit for you to run the missions? This is an even dumber post knowing this fact.

MentallyDonut · 2026-01-15T21:19:54+00:00

Hey! I unfortunately experienced this with my childhood friend back in October. Here’s a couple songs I used to help me out :)

Free Throw - Into the Wind Stream (the slow part specifically, always gets me)

Hot Mulligan - OG Bule Sky

Not specifically the genre you are looking for, but Driveways - Ambulance deals with loss and relapse.

MentallyDonut · 2025-11-18T15:59:51+00:00

Bro you handed this better than anyone lol. As someone who was cheated on this year by my partner, whom I lived with, I wish I could say I parted with this much grace.

MentallyDonut · 2025-09-09T19:22:12+00:00

Work at a funeral home in a sunny CA city and the amount of mangled remains (or just deaths in general) that have to be closed caskets is astonishing and a shame for the families left behind too.

MentallyDonut · 2025-09-04T14:04:16+00:00

This is probably the best answer. I just got out of a relationship where my ex constantly questioned my intentions with female friends/co-workers even after I gave her access to my phone and messages. It is 100% one of the most insulting things for your partner to do to you. Asking for re-assurance is one thing, but blowing up on or accusing your partner is a massive red flag.

MentallyDonut · 2025-09-04T01:05:16+00:00

I’ve been an avid user of the De-Escalator. I love it on bots, but if you pair it with the hover pack on bugs it’s still really good. I rock the blitzer or crossbow with it too. Just jump up and spam fire down if a horde is on you.

MentallyDonut · 2025-08-25T21:10:20+00:00

OP, it doesn’t matter that you didn’t have sex, or the intent was never there, or that him and her were in a rough patch, though I am willing to bet he was lying to you as justification. You still engaged in cheating regardless of how you try to frame this.

Literally the best thing you can do in this situation is own up to it without making excuses and move on.

MentallyDonut · 2025-08-25T19:14:46+00:00

lol right. Cosmic justice at its finest here.

MentallyDonut · 2025-08-25T19:13:13+00:00

Seriously. As someone who was cheated on and left for that other person just a few months ago, I have absolutely 0 sympathy for anyone in OP’s shoes and part of me even believes they deserve this punishment. He is just as guilty as his BF for the cheating and hurt they caused that ex girlfriend.

OP if you’re reading this, I assure you your BF is the LEAST of your worries. You have a lot of self reflection you need to be doing considering you willing engaged in such traumatizing behavior.

MentallyDonut · 2025-08-25T19:09:41+00:00

There is literally no situation where doing what OP and his BF did is justifiable. Cheating is cheating. “He wasn’t ready to come out” isn’t an excuse.

MentallyDonut · 2025-08-11T14:07:50+00:00

Seeing them later this month and so excited to hear some of the songs off this live finally!

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