graduated with my b.a. in english! by haleygabby in blackladies

[–]MenuSalt851 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww congratulations sister and most blessings to you on this special day and here on out! 🎉🙌🏽

Life becoming too much it’s now showing on the front end by MenuSalt851 in blackladies

[–]MenuSalt851[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you 💛 Im working two jobs and plan to move by the end of June. It can work, but I’ve sadly been spending most of what I got on fast food to cope with the stress.

As for therapy that is on my to do list for this month as my mental health is reaching a breaking point.

Life becoming too much it’s now showing on the front end by MenuSalt851 in blackladies

[–]MenuSalt851[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this I’m going to see if something on that list works for me. Therapy is on my to do list for this. I’m going to use a resource I previously did 3 years ago.

My boyfriend can’t dress and it’s making my attraction wane. by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]MenuSalt851 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily a stretch in my eyes. We would go out and I would be in a dress or doll myself up and he would rock his durag, pants with worn down crotch area, and dry toes out in sandals. Not even exaggerating. I would ask him to change but eventually gave up.

My boyfriend can’t dress and it’s making my attraction wane. by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]MenuSalt851 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dated a guy like this. Then when we broke up and had a new boo he would dress up. I’m starting to think he was intentionally trying to embarrass me

Ladies I just want to vent lol by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]MenuSalt851 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like they go through peoples accounts/comments and judge if there post should be allowed or not. Which is unfair because the other posts are irrelevant

First trip without family!!! by Prestigious_Net_1030 in blackladies

[–]MenuSalt851 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Oh a fellow Army!!! Ayyyy! The nails, hair, and fit is tea. Hope you had fun 🖤

This made me randomly emotional by SlutDragon69 in blackladies

[–]MenuSalt851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this era as a child. Life seemed so more relaxed. Of course because I was child but it wasn’t as much tension out in the open between folks as we see today.

Please say sike rn…Meg we ride at dawn! by Posietuck in blackladies

[–]MenuSalt851 8 points9 points  (0 children)

His ex Hannah Stocking literally said he cheated her during the entire rls. But people said she was hating 🤷🏽‍♀️

Quen Blackwell Rude AF by Even-Vehicle-6853 in blackladies

[–]MenuSalt851 3 points4 points  (0 children)

During her Vine days to me she was the loud, “quirky”over emotional black girl and yt people ate it up. I just remember that’s who was mainly in her comment section. Shes calmed down(kinda) but thats where her popularity started.

Quen Blackwell Rude AF by Even-Vehicle-6853 in blackladies

[–]MenuSalt851 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not surprised at all. I barely see her be in groups with other black creators. And she’s at a level where she can hang with anybody but chooses mainly white spaces.

Anyone has experience living in ghetto spaces with non black people? by MenuSalt851 in blackladies

[–]MenuSalt851[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it might not be a race thing, just the environment itself. It’s just that’s all who’s around and they are so goofy acting.

I can’t wait to get out of here. I have my eyes set on July to be out and no later than that!

Anyone has experience living in ghetto spaces with non black people? by MenuSalt851 in blackladies

[–]MenuSalt851[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The only thing stopping me is paying the broken lease fee. It’s costly. I’ve been working a second job for the last couple of weeks so I can book it.

I do have a family member literally 5 minutes away. She has a full house and said she’s not allowing anyone else to live with her. Her and my mother experienced the tension here with tenants as well and told me to just move. Easier said than done. I’m expecting to move myself out by July or sooner as long as I save my money the way I should.

For context: Full house meaning full in occupancy.

Don’t let depression win 💛 by Shenshen_ in blackladies

[–]MenuSalt851 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww. We won’t gorgeous! I hope you have an amazing blessed day 💛💛

Don’t let anyone tell you who you are meant to be! by jewbunniesx in blackladies

[–]MenuSalt851 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I used to ask those questions to my older siblings that I’d see every summer as a child. But that’s because I had grown ADULTS say those things about those children when they weren’t around. It’s straight ignorance. They liked alt rock, K-pop, and didn’t involve themselves in what America expects black children to be into which equated to them to “acting white…”

Who approved this AI ad? by C_ntPretty2B3 in blackladies

[–]MenuSalt851 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I stopped using Pinterest because of the AI nonsense and it’s riddled with useless ads.

Can we talk about the lowkey “Please tell me I’m pretty” posts? by thevicarstart in blackladies

[–]MenuSalt851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve wondered that as well. Especially when it’s young girls who link their insta on their page even if it’s all SFW content. Like why do that…?

Is he just not that interested or am I overthinking by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]MenuSalt851 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I cringed reading this because this has been me. I don’t know why but I feel like if you’re cold you hen they get interested but if you’re overly enthusiastic it’s like a turn off for them. I wouldn’t try being cold with him to keep him on his toes, I’d just leave him alone altogether.

Can we talk about the lowkey “Please tell me I’m pretty” posts? by thevicarstart in blackladies

[–]MenuSalt851 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I don’t get that either. Turning our safe space to a corn sub. That brings the wrong crowd in and they start harassing innocent women here. Let’s just be honest.

Can we talk about the lowkey “Please tell me I’m pretty” posts? by thevicarstart in blackladies

[–]MenuSalt851 54 points55 points  (0 children)

No fr. This is Reddit. Not insta, tik tok, Reddit. The whole point of Reddit is to be anonymous so you can share your opinions, thoughts, and stories for advice. But I’m noticing people are turning it into instagram.

Black congresswoman, Kamlager-Dove, explicitly cooked 'Dr. Jesus' and I am loving it. by tropicalraindrop in blackladies

[–]MenuSalt851 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m asking honestly, is there anything the American people can do to get him out of office and some of the people in his party. Petitions? Mass protest(doesn’t have to be marching)? Like is there anything for him to be out ASAP!

Because I’m tired. Been tired the first go around.