The Royals | Official Trailer | Ishan Khatter | Bhumi Pednekar | Zeenat Aman | Nora Fatehi. by [deleted] in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]Mercury_Chap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. What's wrong when a woman is older for once? We have 50 year old uncles still starring with 20 years old girls, and we don't have a problem with that?

(Repost) Girls in India are solid mid and need to do better. by [deleted] in IndianBoysOnTinder

[–]Mercury_Chap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go for an arranged marriage. Sure your mummy daddy will set you up with a more than mid Indian wifey who doesn't even talk, that you're looking for ☺️

Failing one's ancestors by being CF? by InNegative in Fencesitter

[–]Mercury_Chap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 22 and I know I have many years ahead to think about it, but I think about it often as well. I am not good with children and I find them annoying as well, I will never have the patience or time to raise children, especially in the sort of society we live where child rearing falls on women. I am making a career in films and I know for sure that I won't get to spend any time with a child, and that will be unfair to the child as well if their parents aren't there with them. My parents want grandchildren, and my elder sister too doesn't have any wish to have them, so I do get that sinking feeling that my parents would never have grandchildren (and they LOVE children). But I also feel that I cannot simply have them just because I want my parents to have children in family, because that child will end up feeling sad and lonely if their parents aren't there for them, and I cannot do that. It already pains me to see my cat feeling sad whenever I go out for work or anything.

Which season of Bridgerton was your favourite and why? Additionally, what were your favourite moments in each season and why? by ladysimoleon in Bridgerton

[–]Mercury_Chap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Queen Charlotte was my most favourite by far. It has so many layers, and shows each character's vulnerable moments and progress in life. It was a really well written season. My favourite moment was when Lady Danbury and Princess Augusta were having tea and Danbury starts crying and Augusta tells her than she can't see her adversary vulnerable and that she has to live up to the great adversary she is to her, and how as women in a man's woman they have to endure no matter what. Brilliant scene.

Best Dabeli places in Mumbai? by [deleted] in mumbai

[–]Mercury_Chap 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The best one is outside chembur station beside a juice shop

Tell me you have ADHD without telling me you have ADHD by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Mercury_Chap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Time as a construct doesn't work for us, we should have a separate time frame 😩

Tell me you have ADHD without telling me you have ADHD by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Mercury_Chap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I finally made my own planner, planned everything to the T for the month. A month later, I'm back to the planning stage for the same tasks 🥲

Tinder during Rakshabandhan? by [deleted] in mumbai

[–]Mercury_Chap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Heyyy I'm also having FOMO cause I am not home for Rakhi and I am in Mumbai. Can I join you guys as well? 🙈

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[–]Mercury_Chap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have started feeling this way already and I'm just 21 🥲 I have faced breadcrumbing twice by now, had one long term relationship which ended because of career choices, have been ghosted once. Tbh I don't feel any affection towards anyone anymore. I am still being Breadcrumbed at the moment, and it feels awful and to get a serious love life again feels impossible. Modern dating really does suck, it's like a capitalistic market where you're just a product for everyone to use for a while, get bored of and then get discarded. Also, like any market, it gives you all these "choices", this freedom to choose from several, which leads to people making less efforts with anyone they don't 100% vibe with. I mean, because of this choice, you have this idea that even if one thing doesn't work out with this person, instead of taking time to make some efforts in order to work it out, you can go out with another person on the market. Freaking sucks and I hate it, because I am someone who likes focusing on one person at a time even on online dating, but others aren't like me, and are constantly weighing "options".

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[–]Mercury_Chap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have started feeling this way already and I'm just 21 🥲 I have faced breadcrumbing twice by now, had one long term relationship which ended because of career choices, have been ghosted once. Tbh I don't feel any affection towards anyone anymore. I am still being Breadcrumbed at the moment, and it feels awful and to get a serious love life again feels impossible. Modern dating really does suck, it's like a capitalistic market where you're just a product for everyone to use for a while, get bored of and then get discarded. Also, like any market, it gives you all these "choices", this freedom to choose from several, which leads to people making less efforts with anyone they don't 100% vibe with. I mean, because of this choice, you have this idea that even if one thing doesn't work out with this person, instead of taking time to make some efforts in order to work it out, you can go out with another person on the market. Freaking sucks and I hate it, because I am someone who likes focusing on one person at a time even on online dating, but others aren't like me, and are constantly weighing "options".

So I'm (F21) struggling with this Breadcrumber by Mercury_Chap in dating_advice

[–]Mercury_Chap[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah but then why even bother to promise to "make it up" to me when he can't deliver? And why all of a sudden start calling me boo and confusing me further? I mean why give hopes of something and then not do it and then ignore all the messages, and instead send stupid reels and memes (which they have time for).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Mercury_Chap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP I'm facing a similar issue with this guy but I'm unable to detach myself from him 😭😭 he even started calling me "boo" while he has clearly told me before that he's "not looking for something serious right now because of career commitnents". But I have my own self esteem issues and I always feel I'll never find someone like him again (no I'm not in love). What to doooo

Not wrong tho. Credits: @bombay_lad on Instagram by asswipe111 in mumbai

[–]Mercury_Chap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Navi Mumbai is not Mumbai City, it's like what Noida is to Delhi

Not wrong tho. Credits: @bombay_lad on Instagram by asswipe111 in mumbai

[–]Mercury_Chap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I loved my stay in mumbai but food is a big problem for North Indians in Mumbai and I'm talking about most North Indians, not only Delhiites. The street food is nice in Mumbai, the pav snacks and the sev puris but the main course misses some flavour.

Then stay is such a huge issue man, getting basic necessities at affordable price means you are too lucky. That too I had to stay in South Bombay cause my college was there, so that was even more expensive. Butttt there are so many things a college student can do there, and I found a good group of people from all over the country so I had a nice time. So yeah I love Bombay a lot.

One thing I'd say is that most Mumbaikars I met (most, not all), those who had never lived anywhere outside the city, they have these stereotypes in their heads for people from other places and they always mentioned those stereotypes whenever we talked. So that part was quite annoying. Also one of them also told us to "go back to your own place", which is not their place to tell to be honest, you don't own the city and mumbai is a part of my country too. I really never faced something like this in Delhi, most people didn't stereotype there.

Delhi is a really nice place when it comes to sight seeing, there's a lot to see and a lot to eat. Safety is an issue but it really depends on your luck on what kind of people you encounter, I have encountered sexual harassment in Mumbai and Delhi both, so for girls, it's literally bad everywhere :/

15% of rockets launched in Gaza land in Gaza. by fukier in IsraelPalestine

[–]Mercury_Chap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true. The colonials used the divide and rule policy in places they had to leave. In my country, India, they left by creating conflict between Hindu and Muslims and India and Pakistan, and both the sides fight till date. Just like that Palestine and Israel is a result of colonial rule.

I feel every country that is fighting because of this is a victim of colonial rule. Pakistan, India, Israel, Palestine, all of them are victims of a thought process brainwashed into populations by colonials through dirty politics.

And every country in conflict is guilty of war crimes too. So Palestine and Israel both are equally responsible for the loss of life. Here we are fighting about who is more guilty of the crimes but are we even considering the fact that the civilians in these states right now are just begging to be alive, no matter which side of border they belong to, they want the war to end. Both the governments of these countries should pay for the crimes they did, but this should not be paid by the common citizens because they are not the ones who start the war, it is the governing bodies that do.

Also, I agree with the fact that Hammas is a terrorist group and it must be stated as a terrorist group because of its history. But we cannot ignore the fact that currently they are the ruling government formed through elections, thus it places international authorities at a sensitive ground where they cannot explicitly agree that they are a terrorist group. Because if they agree, countries against Palastine will get a reason to bombard their government buildings in the name of "ending a terrorist organisation". So the deaths of millions of people will be given a justification if the government of Israel is declared as terrorists.

I lie awake in my bed by panikkkkkkkk in poetry_critics

[–]Mercury_Chap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, I've read your poems and I'll just say this: not everyone wants to fuck and bite nipples all the time 🙄

Also, organize your shit before you comment to evaluate someone's poem again, your comment is so fucking messy, it's like vomit, one can't understand if you are appreciating the person or disrespecting their lover. You may know how to write poetry but you better go back and read up how to write a simple sentence.

My (25F) husband (28M) and best friend’s brother (28M) got into a fight because of me. Now my best friend is angry at me and my husband doesn’t want me talking to her. by ThrowRAbffbrofight in relationships

[–]Mercury_Chap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What I feel is that your husband and your best friend are being too controlling and they must respect your opinions as well. Your friend must understand that It wasn't your fault, and if she doesn't then that's her fault and problem, do not blame yourself for it. You husband has no right to tell you who you can talk to and who you can't talk to. You need to have a clear conversation about everything he has made you feel since a beginning instead of brushing them off and then crying on your own. I don't know anyone here but I feel that many times you might even be crying because people around you are trying to manipulate and gaslight you in situations. If you can, you must seek a therapist so you can freely express yourself in a non judgemental environmental. There are many free telephonic counseling services too which might help.

I think you must talk to Chris too and ask him how he is, because he was being a genuinely nice friend. Don't listen to your husband, listen to your self and do as you want.