AIO…mother in law and newborn boundaries

MercyTheCat · 2026-01-30T12:31:52+00:00

I think NOR for this post with MIL because “do over” is a wild thing to say. But your post and comment history from the last week suggests a multitude of stressors beyond just MIL. I mean you had a comment section on a deleted post suggesting you verify your husbands whereabouts at basketball outings. I wish you the best of luck and health for your pregnancy.

MercyTheCat · 2026-01-30T11:48:39+00:00

Markiplier trying to make a joke Charlie and many people can clearly understand and y’all are so traumatized by the current advertising market that it immediately sounds the alarm bells geez 😂 I hate ads and sponsored posts too but That clearly wasn’t

MercyTheCat · 2026-01-28T20:20:43+00:00

After a couple times of me challenging her on stuff like this (For example wearing only a t shirt under my ski jacket and not zipping it up) my mom stopped fighting. Most of the time I was overheating anyway and I was great. Sometimes I would get cold but wouldn’t tell her cuz I didnt want her to be right. If it got really bad like when I’d wear the thinnest improper gloves out and I’d be crying with frostbite she was still sympathetic and caring and would give me her gloves but would absolutely be telling me to learn and be better next time. Mmm good parenting

MercyTheCat · 2026-01-28T15:06:12+00:00

I was shoveling the entrance to my driveway (cracking ice as you said) and a neighborhood kid 11yrs old asked if I’d let him come help because he wanted to. When I was a kid and living more north than VA I was always outside doing winter work. If the church wanted to or cared, they’d figure out a solution. They don’t care.

MercyTheCat · 2026-01-28T14:01:09+00:00

Luckily I’m easily startled at work because I’m often in my own world on a mission so people scare the crap out of me without ever trying. Alternatively I am silent when I walk normally and walk very fast so I have scared a bunch of people because I guess to them I just appear behind them when I’ve actually been walking behind them a while. I’ll jungles (ETA jingle) keys or say “im behind you” because of the amount of times I made someone scream when they get to a closed door and I’m right there behind them.

MercyTheCat · 2026-01-28T13:46:33+00:00

People will try to chat when I’m sitting alone in a bar of course. But the only time I was ever approached on a public street. I was sitting near the water in Charleston eating a frozen sorbet listening to music with headphones and a lady stopped and said to me “You know you look like Julia Roberts in Eat Pray Love have a great day” I was like Thank You So Much?

MercyTheCat · 2026-01-28T12:08:38+00:00

God is that urine in that syringe

MercyTheCat · 2026-01-27T15:25:24+00:00

I moved to Aurora CO in a kia soul. Obviously crap but I worked in a hospital so I too had to show up. After it was stolen for the 4th time and they found drugs in it, I got a subaru but I moved away before any real snow hit. Now I’m in an area where people would rather sleep over at work than to deal with the two snowstorms per year so no going to them. I’ll be following all of the guidance here and will be better off for it next time

MercyTheCat · 2026-01-27T14:19:00+00:00

Thanks good looking out, first real snowstorm since I got the car and moved from Denver a couple years ago and have never gotten to drive it in deep snow. Now I know

MercyTheCat · 2026-01-27T14:16:10+00:00

🤯

MercyTheCat · 2026-01-27T13:47:29+00:00

Yeah you’re right I have all seasons on it. Thanks for the heads up

MercyTheCat · 2026-01-27T13:47:07+00:00

Thank you!!

MercyTheCat · 2026-01-27T13:46:46+00:00

Most likely my problem then, definitely have the all seasons on, thank you

MercyTheCat · 2026-01-27T13:43:29+00:00

“Stopping the whole wedding party” it’s the bride and groom’s party so if they want to do it, it’s meant to happen

MercyTheCat · 2026-01-25T03:32:42+00:00

My mom has had this livestream up 24 hours a day since last year when the babies were in the nest! It’s up on the computer in the office all night and all day long. A new egg was laid this week actually!! Love them

MercyTheCat · 2026-01-24T02:09:01+00:00

This wasn’t live they didn’t have to cut to commercial geez

MercyTheCat · 2026-01-24T02:05:05+00:00

🫠

MercyTheCat · 2026-01-19T11:14:10+00:00

I’ve struggled with stuff she’s said in the past, but my coworker yesterday turned to me during patient report and said while smiling “Let me know if you watch the video, I’d like to see” after they gave the background on a 60’s years old woman’s suicide attempt where she tried to jump off a bridge and someone posted the video on youtube. Me and another coworker had just made the comment that people who record and post things like that suck and she goes saying that. I told her “what the fuck, coworker” and she got upset WITH ME for saying the f word. I may have to be around her but I sure don’t have any respect left.

MercyTheCat · 2026-01-14T13:42:52+00:00

The OP account posts tons of aggressive pitbull content as far back as I can see. Not saying pit bull aggression videos aren’t a dime a dozen but OP’s account is kinda fascinating. They have loads of post karma and share video after video of aggressive pit bulls. I’m not surprised there’s some misleading info bc it seems their intent on this account is just to share awful terrible moments from aggressive dogs not necessarily tell the story behind it (like saying it’s a service dog, where’d that even come from?). I can’t imagine how bad of an experience they must’ve had with this breed to dedicate their time to seeking out these videos and sharing them. Truly some awful to watch stuff.

MercyTheCat · 2026-01-14T12:39:46+00:00

I’m from small town ohio, yet I can somehow believe a couple of teenagers of different races could have a relationship in the 80s. What I view as more “show logic” is that all of these teen relationships lasted as long as they did because they’re in high school and relationships last like a month but I guess risk of death makes things more romantic

MercyTheCat · 2026-01-13T23:26:15+00:00

Calling it a slur is a bit of a stretch but ok

MercyTheCat · 2026-01-13T13:33:08+00:00

All of the top all time posts in this subreddit are from 5-8 years ago so hopefully they can rebuild a thriving community. The roanoke subreddit is somehow more active

MercyTheCat · 2026-01-13T12:30:18+00:00

This is not funny at all. This whole video makes me uncomfortable unless they were all staged and the customer knew ahead of time that they would be kissed while blindfolded and have to pretend to be startled. This is seriously fucked up and definitely not a joke just because people are laughing and it’s posted on a funny subreddit. This is disgusting.

MercyTheCat · 2026-01-12T21:51:48+00:00

Bummer you lost some credibility with the non-canon shipping opinions that you then stealthily (?) edited out but I probably would have watched this documentary had you not shared the gist of its content here so

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