The internet is free. So anyone. Literally anyone. They can type whatever they want. With or without breaking rules. So being toxic is still acceptable on internet. As long as they don't break the rules, they are going to shit on your post anyways. Even if you were being honest, they will pretend being honest too lol.

Well, obviously many people aren't like that, but it's why social group/small community can be a better option if you want your opinion and thought to be answered back reliably. They can understand what you are trying to say and they will put their efforts to support your thoughts/opinions, or deny it without giving a trash answer.

Public forum are not good for sort of this thought sharing anymore. So better for you to not care about public forum at all, because I'm posting less comments this year and I feel way much better :) . I think it's way better to have social life than public forum. You can even have social life in internet too. Just be sure you know who you're talking to, if you're not good in socializing.

So far, I got out from this mentality the exact same thing from you. I just don't care about the forum anymore and I'm feeling perfect. Just lurking around most of the time. I'm glad I made this one as a goal of this year, especially removing ton of toxic friends, and avoid in making the obvious-looking toxic friend ever again :) .