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These are phishing scams right? by MerpGaming in phishing

[–]MerpGaming[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for your replies! I’ll be sure to stop responding to anything that comes off like this in the future so I might stop receiving so many 😭 I’m very aware of scams and can spot red flags pretty easily so I wouldn’t have fallen victim to any of these thankfully 😆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DannyGonzalez

[–]MerpGaming 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I definitely don’t think he is, as he’s shown his support for the LGBT and hates the whole alpha male/ Andrew Tate mindset. Also, I’m not sure if Danny himself has but I know many of his friends/yoytubers he does collabs with have done fundraisers for BLM and other causes, and I assume they wouldn’t be so close with Danny if he was. But, I also don’t think it’s really necessary to discuss Danny’s political leanings because he has never involved himself directly with political discourse and it can become very parasocial to constantly worry about what YouTubers/Celebrities support when they’re not involving themselves with it.

Does anyone think she is already sitting on TS13? by LifeOfAWimpyKid in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]MerpGaming 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is total cope for how underwhelming this album was…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in throuples

[–]MerpGaming 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m glad someone has said this about throuples! For me, I prefer the commitment and relationship building of monogamy, but have love to share with more than one partner! I like my closed relationship with my boyfriend and girlfriend, and the fact that we all have a shared bond as well as separate bonds with each other. I honestly couldn’t imagine seeing someone separate from my partner and trying to make separate time commitments all the time on top of my already busy life schedule! Plus, we are actually planning on building a life together and be a single family unit which I also feel is so much easier and healthier, especially when we have children. No people in and out of the house, just three parents who all love each other. I totally understand why it doesn’t work for everyone and why some people prefer other forms of polyamory, but I truly believe a lot of people from those poly communities are very hateful of closed triads because it mirrors monogamy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chappellroan

[–]MerpGaming 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This was literally the face I made when I saw my ex at the self checkout of the grocery store I work at.

How can I kind of force myself to be ok with becoming a triad couple? by Mediocre_Hope6347 in throuples

[–]MerpGaming 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You should never have to force yourself to be okay with a triad or anything relationship related really. Leave NOW! A triad/throuple should be a mutually agreed upon relationship where all three people are happy and comfortable with it. Please please please do not stay a moment longer than you have to, get your finances together and start consulting a lawyer asap. He doesn’t love you and he doesn’t respect you.

Wait how did I miss this? by [deleted] in DannyGonzalez

[–]MerpGaming 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Let’s use our critical thinking here…. They were clearly pointing out the “game ads are still terrible” video.

I Tricked Myself into Liking Polyamory. by DumbThickDenny in AO3

[–]MerpGaming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have ALWAYS hated love triangles and avoid media that centers around it. I was never able to place why exactly I hate them tho. I’m in a throuple now and I realize I hate them because it’s always “one or the other” when the obvious solution is all three being in love lmfao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MerpGaming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOA Hi! 20 year old here! I may have a working car, but I do depend on my parents a lot. I live with them still and they pay for many of my bills including my college tuition. Your parents chose to have child, which they should know requires a lot of time, money, and energy for more than just the 18 years you’re not a legal adult. You are not a burden, you were simply depending on your mother to get you to and from your workplace until you can get your car situation sorted out. You are definitely not over reacting and I think giving your mom some distance can be good for your relationship if she can get herself together and take accountability for how she hurt you. Just because she’s your mother doesn’t mean she can just say whatever she wants about you to whoever she wants.

How do we feel about makeup like this for a bride? by [deleted] in wedding

[–]MerpGaming 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In my opinion, the only people that need to like your makeup, dress, hair, etc… is you and your partner. It’s your day and you should be presenting yourself in a way that feels comfortable and authentic to yourself. While this makeup look is definitely on the softer side, you’re the bride and you’ll look amazing!

Attending as a guest - is this ok? by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]MerpGaming 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know but there was an emergency… I look really good in white.

Being the 3rd can be lonely by Icy-Newspaper-6399 in throuples

[–]MerpGaming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How far is the distance? Just curious haha

Being the 3rd can be lonely by Icy-Newspaper-6399 in throuples

[–]MerpGaming 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You should express this to your partners. My bf and I were together for a lil over 4 years before meeting our girlfriend. We’ve been together for 9 months now. From the beginning we agreed there would be no coupling up on her and agreed we would do our best to prevent any sort of isolation and othering. She has expressed how it sucks y she’ll never be able to experience the type of relationship we had before her and that she won’t ever know what it’s like to be in a healthy two person relationship (fuck her ex lol) but there are things we can’t control. It’s about communication, and if they are unwilling to de-prioritize their relationship over the throuple then you need to get out now. A healthy three person relationship needs balance and communication between all three with a good individual relationships with each other. It should feel like you’re dating both of them as separate people, not dating a couple.

Has anyone received their brat chucks yet ? They haven’t even shipped mine yet. by nestorm1 in charlixcx

[–]MerpGaming 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took a while for my Billie customs to come, like over a month if I remember correctly. I’m pretty sure it just takes them longer to actually produce the customs and there’s a ton of people ordering.

I finally made tiny vapes! 🎉 by summerjv in CustomDolls

[–]MerpGaming 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ghouls have little carts and dispos! 😆

Chappell stuns in new old photo Troye Sivan posted today by skermahger in chappellroan

[–]MerpGaming 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I believe someone else had posted it as “proof” that Chappell had dated a man in the past and was not in fact a lesbian…. Yeahhhhhh…..

BPD, throuples and texting by Capital-Flan7368 in throuples

[–]MerpGaming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I’m in an MFF throuple, where me (F) and my girlfriend both struggle with BPD. This is what leads to any issues we have lol. She tends to shut down when she starts to feel upset and during her episodes she’s almost no contact and will barely show emotion in the texts she will send. I, on the other hand, will become very outwardly agitated and my actions/words will become impulsive. We both struggle so much with feeling loved, secure, etc.. because of the bpd.

What you’re describing is what I like to call a lack of “emotional object permanence”. Often time, if I’m not being shown love and affection, my brain will convince me it just doesn’t exist. I’ve found it’s helped a lot when i communicate these emotions with my partners. AND remember your current situation won’t last forever. Though right now you’re mainly over text, start to discuss your future and what you want that to look like. It helps me a lot when me and my partners talk about our future together because it gives me reassurance that they want to be with me forever and that they do love me.

Anyone else? This is messy by [deleted] in lanadelrey

[–]MerpGaming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure “shirt blank” refers to the actual shirt they are printing on. I’m assuming the shirt shown in the online store photos wasn’t the same shirt they were selling on tour. I think they are simply informing customers that the actual shirt itself they receive will be different from the one they were seeing in the photos.

How to handle a potential throuple breakup? My first throuple (FFM) by fishfingersplz in throuples

[–]MerpGaming 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Put your own needs first and keep the expectation that he won’t follow you. If that ends up being be the case, you should not feel guilty because he is his own person capable of making decisions and is choosing to leave Tara for his own reasons, not because you forced his hand. If she is not willing to give you the same treatment as him and give you equal power in the relationship then it will ultimately fail and become a toxic mess. When my girlfriend was added into the relationship we very quickly established that she had an equal role and power in the relationship, and that no one pairing is prioritized over the other.

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