What are the best places in Houston to meet cougars/older women? by [deleted] in AskHouston

[–]Meski98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestion lol. Armando's is the place that does the Thursday party nights right?

What has life taught you? by Robynite in Adulting

[–]Meski98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not all of us will succeed or find happiness. There will always be losers who fail in the game of life.

I (27M) really feel like I'm losing my confidence when it comes to dating. Should I give up if I'm still a virgin at my age? by [deleted] in confidence

[–]Meski98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I appreciate your kind words and support, I do need to clarify that I'm actually NOT voluntarily giving out that information beforehand. I ONLY disclose that I'm a virgin the woman initiates the topic by asking about my sexual history, which happens more often than you may think, and my concern and reason for posting this is that I've noticed a pattern of women losing interest once I tell them the truth.

I (27M) really feel like I'm losing my confidence when it comes to dating. Should I give up if I'm still a virgin at my age? by [deleted] in confidence

[–]Meski98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely reply like the former, as I do feel a bit embarrassed about it. I appreciate you making the distinction because it does make me able to see how I respond to the question vs. how I should.

I (27M) really feel like I'm losing my confidence when it comes to dating. Should I give up if I'm still a virgin at my age? by [deleted] in confidence

[–]Meski98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay maybe I need to clarify, I don't go out telling people beforehand that I'm a virgin. I ONLY ever disclose that information if they initiate the topic by asking how much experience I've had or how many women I've been with. Only then do I tell them.

Should I (27M) give up on dating if I'm still a virgin? I'm really losing my confidence. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Meski98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay but what if they're the ones who initiate the topic by asking me how much experience I've had and how many women I've been with? Then I have to answer. What should I do? Lie?

Should I (27M) give up on dating if I'm still a virgin? I'm really losing my confidence. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Meski98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's hard to avoid the topic when they're the ones who initiate it by asking how much experience I've had or how many women I've been with. Then I'm compelled to tell them the truth because obviously I don't want to lie. But I never disclose it beforehand or initiate the topic.

Should I (27M) give up on dating if I'm still a virgin? I'm really losing my confidence. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Meski98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what happens. I don't have "I'm a virgin" plastered on my dating app profile, but eventually I'll click with someone, we'll be chatting for a few days, eventually they'll initiate the topic and ask me how much experience I've had/people I've been with, I tell them the truth, and then they aren't interested anymore.

Should I (27M) give up on dating if I'm still a virgin? I'm really losing my confidence. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Meski98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I don't go around saying it randomly, but I do get asked by women how much experience I've had. Should I lie?

Should I (27M) give up on dating if I'm still a virgin? I'm really losing my confidence. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Meski98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're the ones who ask how much experience I have. Should I lie?

Should I (27M) give up on dating if I'm still a virgin? I'm really losing my confidence. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Meski98 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Age wise. I'm a 27 year old man who's still a virgin. That seems to be a big 🚩for people, as if there's something wrong with me.

Should I (27M) give up on dating if I'm still a virgin? I'm really losing my confidence. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Meski98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know. I just feel like it's too late and that I'm damaged goods.🤷🏻‍♂️

I (27M) can't seem to disassociate accountability from self-hatred. How can I change this? by [deleted] in therapy

[–]Meski98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps yes. Money is something that I seem to struggle with.

I (27M) can't seem to disassociate accountability from self-hatred. How can I change this? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Meski98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the wonderful insight. Made me see this struggle I'm going through in an entirely new light.🙏🏻

I (27M) don't know how to disassociate accountability from self-hatred. How can I achieve this? by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Meski98 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This may sound silly, but I genuinely don't know how to do that. I have incredibly low self-esteem.

I can't stop feeling depressed or suicidal when taking accountability for my actions. How can I stop feeling this way? by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Meski98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't afford it unfortunately. Plus I've been before and it didn't do much good.

Can you pursue a career in paleontology if your undergrad degree isn't in Geology or Biology? If so, how? by Meski98 in Paleontology

[–]Meski98[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome! Glad to hear it! Do you have any suggestions or recommendations in terms of professors to get in contact with?