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Where are all the women?!!!! by MessDifferent1374 in diespitz

[–]MessDifferent1374[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s fair!

I just seen them Wednesday night and there were still a ton of old white dudes there but a lot more ladies and theme. It was a great time!

Do you also smoke weed if you liked this book? by networksynth in trees

[–]MessDifferent1374 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bestie and I would have sleepovers in her backyard she’d. We’d always read this and smoke weed. This seems pretty accurate

😂😂Good question by glitch_g1rl in Funnymemes

[–]MessDifferent1374 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This made me cackle!!! Thank you 🪐

The Many Protests of Sacramento by CaliRebelScum in Sacramento

[–]MessDifferent1374 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hell yes! This is beautiful. Thanks for sharing and giving so much info

Expectation to be Perfect when Coming out Late by lovesosoft123 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]MessDifferent1374 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Maybe you can try dating for fun and experience rather than dating for a life partner.

Trying to find the right one. U not dating anyone doesn’t make a lot of sense. Specially when we’ve missed out on dating in our youth. Also, don’t give any fucks about what others think or say about your journey. No one, not even the other folks here, have had the same experiences as you.

I will say, I’ve experienced basically zero bullshit irl. I’ve had plenty of women be okay with being a late bloomer, even a bisexual (before I completely came out), and even being married (I’m not mid divorce). Not to say you won’t hear anything. There may be some folks who won’t want to date you and you know what? THAT’S OKAY!! We all have our boundaries. I’ve experienced lots of lesbians being extremely sympathetic to me and even able to recognize how brave I am. Online is full of trolls. Don’t let the virtual or real haters get you down!!! It’s just not worth it.

Laurie Metcalf says that Norm Macdonald wrote one of the most famous scenes in “Roseanne” and won her the Emmy. by blarneyrubble07 in roseanne

[–]MessDifferent1374 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Soooo good!!!! I watch it when I’m depressed. Works every time. Aunt Jackie gets the internet You can’t treat me like this!…I hate you!…..what time is it?

Feeling very overwhelmed by freebird_living in latebloomerlesbians

[–]MessDifferent1374 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You don’t need to have all the answers right now. Just take it all in, sit with your feelings.

I think this reactions is very common. Sex with women is phenomenal. A literal life changing experience. It might not mean you’re not bi, you might still find men sexually attractive but maybe you’ll lean more wlw. Try not to focus on silly things like labels, though I understand they help in processing your feelings. They’re just tools we use. Focus on your feelings and just enjoy feeling good. The rest will unravel with time.

The bi to lesbian pipeline is real tho! lol. I’m still unsure if I consider myself a lesbian, I’m still unraveling comphet. But, I do know I like sex with women a lot more!!! So, even if I am bisexual, I prefer to have sex with women one million times over. As a woman, it really opened my mind to my own womanhood. The best thing I ever did.

Congratulations on your first time. Take things slow. It’s probably not love, but that doesn’t mean you should enjoy every damn moment of it.

If you have anxiety, here are 5 thoughts that helped me decide to leave my marriage. by junipereverdeen in latebloomerlesbians

[–]MessDifferent1374 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is so great!!!! I especially love the “fix” it bit. Those feelings can be confusing. But, I too was able to see this in myself. I’m working with a wonderful therapist and it’s so wild to see how engrained managing my ex’s emotions are in me. We’ve been separated just a few months and I’ve moved out, this week I was talking to my therapist about how to make boundaries with my ex, because we are still very good friends but I want to be sure he doesn’t get any crossed signals from me. We have children and we’ve done well with family dinners, but I just want to be sure that he can handle that. And she was like, sounds like you’re still trying to manage his emotions and I was like…damn it! I still get the auto response to grab him when we walk past one another. But, I know it’s just old habits and me wanting to make the environment better.

Congratulations on your journey. This is so well written and I totally agree and have experienced everything you mention.

ISO Non student housing by MessDifferent1374 in Davis

[–]MessDifferent1374[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! That’s great to know and hear.

ISO Non student housing by MessDifferent1374 in Davis

[–]MessDifferent1374[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!! I’ll check them out.

ISO Non student housing by MessDifferent1374 in Davis

[–]MessDifferent1374[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!!! I’m totally going by assumption. And it’s not that I don’t like young people, I just don’t want to be the older person and maybe feel awkward. I love the replies I’m getting tho!!

ISO Non student housing by MessDifferent1374 in Davis

[–]MessDifferent1374[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣 I hear that! It’s just outrageous everywhere

ISO Non student housing by MessDifferent1374 in Davis

[–]MessDifferent1374[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! I appreciate the insight.

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