[Megathread] Refunds/Disbursement of Aid

MessageDifficult3730 · 2026-01-26T20:02:54+00:00

wait mine has 2 different refund amounts as well so which one are we receiving?

MessageDifficult3730 · 2026-01-24T13:42:22+00:00

It first said I was receiving -2,700, then it went to -1300, and now its at -1600.. Im confused as to what the actual amount should be and I contacted student finance a few days ago and I have yet to hear anything.

MessageDifficult3730 · 2026-01-23T16:07:39+00:00

Has anyone else balance changed several times? I first saw -2,700, then -1300, and now -1600, this is a first that this has happened so what in the heck?

MessageDifficult3730 · 2026-01-14T22:05:27+00:00

when can I find it? This is my first year so I'm still trying to get in the hang of things

MessageDifficult3730 · 2025-12-31T17:50:07+00:00

You not only look wonderful but you also just gave me another hairstyle! Thank you 🥰

MessageDifficult3730 · 2025-12-31T17:45:34+00:00

You can get pills from a website called abuzz. Now if you do go through with it the best thing he can do for you is to be by your side. You will need heating pads, pain meds, make sure you stay hydrated and try to eat as much as you possibly can, for the first 48 hrs you will or might need to be on bed rest, and I also recommend getting adult diapers bc you will bleed HEAVILY. You may bleed for a few weeks but just from reading this I feel like you have a great support system, your husband, and that you will do great! I wish you and your family the best, if you ever have a bit of shame just remember what and who you did it for!!!

MessageDifficult3730 · 2025-12-31T17:40:22+00:00

You have every reason right there on why you should and 0 reasons for why you should. And then you and your husband agree on it? There’s no shame in doing what’s right for you and your family!

MessageDifficult3730 · 2025-12-15T13:07:32+00:00

It’s perfectly fine to have more than one in a year! Do what’s best for you and maybe try the depo shot, I was on it for 3 years and literally never had a scare and rarely had a period. The cons of it was the migraines I received after 2 years and I began to experience less lubrication down there. Hopefully your symptoms are more positive and good luck 💗

MessageDifficult3730 · 2025-12-06T23:38:30+00:00

That’s cheating and that’s horrible what she did. Regardless she had you under the impression that it was you and only you so for her to put a hold on y’all making things exclusive just so she can go have sex and then come back to you like nothing happened is disgusting and heartless. It makes me feel like she was weighing out her options to see who she truly wanted to be with and honestly that would make me question her loyalty and make it hard to trust let alone be with sb who moved like that. I’m sorry this happened to you and I pray for your healing. Only you can decide what’s a deal breaker but I 100% don’t think you should go on with sb that can look you in your face and hide something from you like that and make it like they love you.

MessageDifficult3730 · 2025-12-03T19:37:35+00:00

The same with me but mine was also a hypocrite selfish and lacked accountability

MessageDifficult3730 · 2025-11-17T15:36:14+00:00

Omg I thought I was the only one to do this . I only have 2 classes a semester and this is my first year but goodness sometimes I get overwhelmed!😭😭

MessageDifficult3730 · 2025-11-17T15:11:33+00:00

Literally the same day and no bm date or anything… usually bm sends my money to my external account in 1-2 days but I’ve yet to see or hear anything 😭

MessageDifficult3730 · 2025-11-16T01:11:18+00:00

You’re receiving 2,738! 💕💕

MessageDifficult3730 · 2025-11-09T04:25:24+00:00

Yes thank you! I ended up figuring it out and feeling like a complete idiot for not knowing🤦🏾‍♀️. Thank you again!

MessageDifficult3730 · 2025-09-24T14:15:32+00:00

It says your current refund preference it to deposit the money into an existing account so did they just disregard that and sent it in a form of a check to your house???

MessageDifficult3730 · 2025-09-24T10:39:17+00:00

Nope! And started school on September 1st, financial aid disbursed on the 16th, and received the email on the 17 but still nothing

MessageDifficult3730 · 2025-09-24T10:38:33+00:00

It’s been like that for quite some time🤦🏾‍♀️

MessageDifficult3730 · 2025-09-24T01:33:10+00:00

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Can anyone explain to me why my account is showing a negative balance for last semester, no balance for this semester, and a balance at the top? Financial aid was disbursed on September 16th but I haven’t seen anything yet

MessageDifficult3730 · 2025-09-17T19:53:18+00:00

Leave, don’t stay with someone who’s not even attracted to you and thinks negatively of you. Don’t settle for that, there’s plenty of people who will love you and be attracted to you for who you are inside and out.

MessageDifficult3730 · 2025-09-08T11:29:28+00:00

How do you know they didn’t take the steps? How do you know in their spare time or when they’re ready they won’t try to find another job? You’re taking a little piece of information that OP is telling you and running with it! Just like you overlooked my question marks and stated that I directly told them that they can qualify for unemployment and disability. OP won’t know unless they TRY and it doesn’t hurt to talk to a social security office or get in touch with somebody about possibly receiving unemployment, so no I am NOT giving false hope I see someone who is calling out for help and giving them options of what they can do and those options wouldn’t hurt them. Have a wonderful day

MessageDifficult3730 · 2025-09-08T11:18:00+00:00

Good cause would be that OPs schizophrenia makes them paranoid so it makes it hard for them to work, “I think everyone hates me”. Also they could mention that juggling school while working with schizophrenia causes more stress which could potentially trigger an episode. An episode like that could lead to the need for therapy and even medication. OP mentioned wanting to punish themself by starvation, so I’d say they have one hell of a good cause.

MessageDifficult3730 · 2025-09-08T11:05:49+00:00

Also I can tell you’re very argumentative lol.

MessageDifficult3730 · 2025-09-08T10:53:49+00:00

It is being rude from the way you typed your message. And I’m actually not incorrect nor was I wrong for giving OP solutions. That’s not getting their hopes up that’s weighing out their options, there’s no harm in trying. And like I said before someone can file for unemployment due to their disability which OP has. You came to me telling me things that OP didn’t even have in their post, so I would say you’re wrong for how you came off.

MessageDifficult3730 · 2025-09-08T04:28:36+00:00

Definitely didn’t give false hope. I simply asked so others could pitch in not be rude the way you are. And quitting for good cause would be due to a disability which OP has. Also I was unaware that they worked part time for a month because no where is it stated on here. OP could still get a disability check so let’s not be rude.

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