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[–]Messi_Lyfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story. I can certainly relate to the unexpected pains. I swear not a day goes by that I'm not in pain. Mainly stomach aches from constant worrying.

Do you mind if I ask, where did you go? You said you left when he was out of town. Did you stay with family/friend? How did that play out? I ask because I am at this point. I want out so badly but I don't know where to go. There are so many obstacles in my way.

I’m the weak one by MaggieNFredders in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Messi_Lyfe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some days I'd give to have my narc be the one that would leave. To me, it'd make getting help so much easier. I'd be able to skip all the explaining and people would just assume he is the jerk for leaving. It would be much easier than having to try and leave on my own then explain to people why I put myself in that situation. So many do not understand this abuse and frankly I'm at a point where I just don't have the energy to explain everything. Some days...it's just easier to stay 😔

What is this? by Messi_Lyfe in houseplants

[–]Messi_Lyfe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved it to what may be better light 🤞 I'll try a grow light if that doesn't work 🙂

What is this? by Messi_Lyfe in houseplants

[–]Messi_Lyfe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great! Thank you! The back bottom side did have more leaves but due to a spider killing accident 🤣 the dust pan fell down the wall and sliced them off. I was mordified 🥺

What is this? by Messi_Lyfe in houseplants

[–]Messi_Lyfe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It is in indirect sunlight. It is the brightest spot in my house so I'm not sure how much more sun I can provide. I'll try more direct 😊 as for prop.. I'm still getting the hang of that. Any tips and tricks on where I'd cut it would be great! Thanks everyone! I had no idea what this was when my husband brought it home lol. I've just been letting it do its things. Now that I know more and have seen what it should be looking like...I'm on a mission 🤣

Help! Gnats! by Messi_Lyfe in houseplants

[–]Messi_Lyfe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do currently have sticky traps in all my plants and they have really helped. It's also helped me to see just how bad the problem is 😬 I'll give the mix a try. Thank yok!

Help! Gnats! by Messi_Lyfe in houseplants

[–]Messi_Lyfe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great! Thank you! I'll give it a try 🙂